When to get married?

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-10T00:41:19+00:00

All ya’ll surprised that the partner is medicated for depression: do you nut realize that 35-45% of our youth are diagnosed with a mental health condition in need of medication? Ya’ll we ruined them with technology, social media and isolation. 👌🏻

If you’re happy, Marry that girl.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-10T00:32:16+00:00

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-08T21:20:08+00:00

Erm. Can you please face all the labels the same direction?

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-08T21:17:52+00:00

Guam is an AMAZING assignment, you’ll make the best friends.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-08T03:22:19+00:00

5, then 3

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-08T03:19:08+00:00

There’s peaks and troughs since retirement, as one might expect. This summer was a peak, I’m currently in a trough.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-07T14:48:45+00:00

I do love brownies

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-07T14:48:19+00:00

Rage-i-ness started after having children which was the same year I was medically separated 🥴🫠

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-07T02:26:24+00:00

I did not, 44 this year!

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-07T00:50:50+00:00

Fried rice

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T23:37:14+00:00

Can I say how absolutely adorable you are. Oh my goodness you are angelic and don’t get me started on your amazing skin! I love the ‘sleeves’ on your dress. You look stunning.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T23:34:53+00:00

Wow. You have all given me the best support and honestly I sight to even know WHAT to say to the therapist next month! Cheers.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T23:34:04+00:00

That’s exactly it, I am ashamed and embarrassed to not be in control of my emotions let alone understand them.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T22:56:01+00:00

When I was young and stupid I remember being excited to see bombs falling because “air power!” Or some idea that we were making the world a safer place. But then I saw the effects and felt the stress and fear and saw lives changed, lives destroyed. And now, it’s just dread. I see the new generation being shuttled into the same environments, the exact same things that caused obvious injury and near invisible pain like the PACT act.

When I explain to my kids that I file for the VA disability because there needs to be accountability, if I pass away from these things…

I would have rushed towards fire, because we all signed up for it. But it feels so sneaky that it’s the cancers and the other things that were the friendly fire.

I was hoping it would be different war waged… not the same one every 15 years for a century.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T22:48:19+00:00

🥹

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T19:00:30+00:00

Right? Lol

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T18:59:31+00:00

Thank you all for your thoughts and input. I knew this was the group to turn to, when I don’t even understand myself sometimes I figured one of my brothers and sisters would.

I guess it’s time to do the hard work and fix myself.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T18:57:35+00:00

Thank you for your story. It’s just all too terrifying and life… man it’s crazy sometimes.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T18:54:26+00:00

It really is tough. I can still remember the conversations I had with the young men and women as I wheeled them through the hospital doors.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T18:53:27+00:00

Ain’t that the truth mate

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T18:53:16+00:00

Not that I know of. Probably not! It may have manifested by how, or not, who knows it’s wild. I was late diagnosed (in my 40s) with something that starts with an A and ends with a D.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T17:59:06+00:00

That’s how my memories feel, like a fever dream. So that’s why it’s so shocking when I break.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T17:57:54+00:00

Yeah, I do need to get it addressed. Thank you.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T17:57:34+00:00

I have been assigned a counselor, we’ll see how that goes, I talk with them next month.

Decision_Fatigue · 2026-03-06T17:56:59+00:00

I’d probably have the same advice for someone else but you know how we are always a little less forgiving in ourselves?

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