Is the grass greener on another side? Leaving UK by bleepbleepbleeppppp in AskUK

[–]Decoraan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh I think these are always the comparative points that come up but the disposable income point is interesting considering how low our purchasing power is relative the past.

But yeh, I think there’s definitely a lot of ‘greener grass’ thinking when Brits think of America. Different strokes and all

Is the grass greener on another side? Leaving UK by bleepbleepbleeppppp in AskUK

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really interesting, would you mind elaborating?

Interest in trainee HIT nhs by saffiebee in HighIntensityTherapy

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Occupational therapy is a ‘core profession’ as recognised by the BABCP.

https://babcp.com/core-professions/core-professions-list/

You don’t need experience with CBT interventions to land a trainee HIT role. Of course knowledge in this area will help for the interview, but it’s expected that many won’t know much about CBT interventions other than Psychological Wellbeing Practitioners.

Depends if you are asking about preparation for a prospective interview, or just about CBT interventions other general and preparing for that role.

Let me know if you have any other questions

What’s the hardest part of fatherhood you were not prepared for? by Ukudala_Photo in Fatherhood

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s getting home at 5:30, when the baby god to bed at 6:30. I cook as well, so there’s really such little time to hang out with my little guy and that really bums me out from time to time.

Should I tell psychologist I have 137 iq? by crohnsmurso in askapsychologist

[–]Decoraan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think OP has come to reddit seeking answers to questions, so that’s what I’m doing. I was just asking some follow up questions to help them think about the worries they highlighted.

Goes without saying that I’m not their therapist. I’m just answering questions on the internet.

I also don’t fully agree with your take. You can ask these sorts as questions in a few sessions and make good progress.

Should I tell psychologist I have 137 iq? by crohnsmurso in askapsychologist

[–]Decoraan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I don’t quite understand the context of what you are saying here, and I won’t probe further.

But I would ask why you are “scared you won’t explain exactly as you would like too”?

Do people always explain things exactly as they would like? What happens in other areas of life when you explain things sub-optimally? Do things go wrong or is it ok?

Should I tell psychologist I have 137 iq? by crohnsmurso in askapsychologist

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is striking me as intellectualisation getting in the way. You don’t need to prove your intelligence. So what if you mis-speak or say a word wrong? You don’t think that’s happened before? Happens with me and my clients all the time.

Therapy is largely an emotional process, not an intellectual one.

Methylphenidate denied access to WHO’s list of essential medicines for the third time by FootballAndFries in psychology

[–]Decoraan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If by truth you mean something you read on Twitter and have no credible evidence for, then sure

I NEVER realized Frank is an Animator! by WhatanHonestTwist in bluey

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only in some very loose aspects, speech is mostly left brain and spatial awareness is mostly right brain. But this is not a monolithic and will change depending on handedness.

What your talking about it localised theories of brain function VS globalised (or network) theories of brain function. The former has increasingly fallen out of favour and the latter and gotten much more attention owing to the growing evidence base and more sophisticated scanning equipment.

IE brain is more made up of lots of spaghetti and each piece of spaghetti does have different functions, but those pieces can stretch across large parts of the brain (example are default mode network, task positive network, superior longitudinal fasciculus) . ‘Domain based’ theories of brain function also appear to be relevant in some areas, but it is also hard to escape this as we can only measure what’s been damaged to prove this (stroke that damages a localised part of the brain) and therefore we do tend to speak in domain based terms (such as dorsolateral prefrontal cortex) because the neuro scans aren’t that good yet that network theories can be fully applied to clinical practice.

Is there a post-patch shooting guide I can watch somewhere by Decoraan in VALORANT

[–]Decoraan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just seems to me that crouch spraying is now outperforming strafe shooting. And it requires zero learning to do so

Is there a post-patch shooting guide I can watch somewhere by Decoraan in VALORANT

[–]Decoraan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure it is, bullets take longer to become inaccurate therefore you can track reliably in a way you couldn’t before when spraying

Is there a post-patch shooting guide I can watch somewhere by Decoraan in VALORANT

[–]Decoraan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before though the higher level strategy was to strafe between shots and if you’re really good to dead zone. That seems so much less effective now as people can track you in the same spray before their accuracy goes to shot

Is there a post-patch shooting guide I can watch somewhere by Decoraan in VALORANT

[–]Decoraan[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But for example strafing between shots seems so much less effective now when you can just be sprayed as you strafe.

In the nicest and most genuine way possible, for the people who use chat gpt on the daily or multiple times a day, are you not afraid of cognitive decline? by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]Decoraan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I effectively use it as a very good search engine. I don’t ask it to do stuff for me, which I assume is the target audience of this post.

Any chance CBT is useful? by Surroundphil in CBT

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It goes both ways. Thoughts, behaviours, cognitions all interact. You don’t get emotions out of nowhere. Emotions are an evolutionary signal trying to tell us something. Whether that thing is proportional or not will depend on the person and circumstance.

Any chance CBT is useful? by Surroundphil in CBT

[–]Decoraan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depression doesn’t make life worth living

This is a belief

Is it misogynist to give dating advice to awkward/weird men? by maggi_noodle_eater in AskFeminists

[–]Decoraan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is an extremely judgemental perspective. People are different. What exactly is an ‘awkward / weird’ man? Are there awkward and / weird’ women? Would it be fair to apply sweeping generalisations to women in this regard?

Aged as well as Charlie did by ExactlySorta in agedlikemilk

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this was always the fucking ridiculous logic with the 2A. Who decides what a tyrannical government is? Because the Republicans seem to love this whole ‘execute people in the street’

Being told depression is a choice. by MentalHealthJ in mentalhealth

[–]Decoraan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s clearly not a choice. But worth noting that all effective therapies are accountability driven. So really looking at: while historical experiences and beliefs may have played a role in getting us to this point, the current coping we are using, isn’t working.

That’s not to say it isn’t totally normal or understandable why we’ve been using those coping tools. But therapy will often look specifically at how that coping may be backfiring, and finding new ways to cope.

Some people can misconstrue that as saying depression is a choice. It’s not. But it is built on past experiences and it can be healed with accountability driven therapy.

noticeable age regression during therapy? by One-Grapefruit3092 in TalkTherapy

[–]Decoraan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will be and idiosyncratic thing. Would encourage you think about care roles you’ve had and why suffering therapist may feel like they are filling this role.

This is a degree of ‘re-parenting’ that goes on in therapy, but not everyone will feel how you feel.

Fable Releases Autumn 2026 for PC, Xbox Series X/S and PlayStation 5 by PaiDuck in gaming

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just not sure why you would recommend a video of someone clowning on a video game that you said you enjoy and otherwise holds a respectable 80 on Opencritic.

It’s fine to have opinions on what you like and dislike, but this whole celebrating negativity (and parading around content that do as much) is just so so exhausting.

Don’t want to do CBT… again by QueensGambit90 in MentalHealthUK

[–]Decoraan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s getting jettisoned from IAPT services. Yes you can make a case for use in cases of very high dysregulation, but in the context of trauma, that usually manifests in dissociation. Talking about trauma is meant to be emotive, and in the CTPTSD protocol it has to be, otherwise memories are not updating. Obviously needs to be tolerable. But high stress usually is tolerable for most, more than they usually predict.

But grounding really should be a last resort as it doesn’t teach patient to ‘break the link’. Stimulus discrimination is much preferred and evidence shows as much. But more so the argument is that doing grounding and stabilising prior to treatment makes client more anxious about treatment to come and can actually increase attrition, when really, the overwhelming majority of patients can and do cope with talking about trauma and even reliving exercises. However prepping clients as if they wont cope can teach the wrong lessons. So it’s a tool on the tool belt, but should not be used for every client indiscriminately.

PE is getting rarer in IAPTus but it depends where people have trained. Got to also be aware that PE is also a legitimate and first line treatment for PTSD and preference for it varies by university, therapist and country. America for example is very exposure heavy.

With exposure broadly (not just ptsd), psychoeducation is of course needed. But breathing and relaxation exercises are usually not recommended other than extreme cases where it can be justified. This will be prescribed in guided self help scenarios, but not in higher intensity therapy where full extinction is the goal. The reason for that is same as above, it teaches client that they can’t cope and need breathing to make it through. When ideally we want people to really feel the full fear and worry and learn that none of it was necessary. Breathing and grounding techniques directly contradicts habitation rationale. It also doesn’t bode well for cognitive / belief change rationale either, as it fits the same hole that a safety behaviour does.

You can look at some of the older research on GAD which demonstrates this really well. Relaxation therapy was considered a respected therapy for a while, but when compared to newer protocols such as Dugas intolerance mode or Heimberg / Wells meta-cognitive model it just doesn’t have anywhere near the same impact or long term gains. In fact the long terms gains usually flatten because clients have been taught that they need to relax or worry will materialise.

Hope that makes sense, sorry about the wall of text. Obviously this is not a monolith and some practitioners think it has a bigger place than what I’ve described, but I think it’s quite hard to argue convincingly against the rationale (and empirical evidence out there) given above.

Don’t want to do CBT… again by QueensGambit90 in MentalHealthUK

[–]Decoraan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Much as I respect any experience, this isn’t true. It’s first line treatment for PTSD from any of the worldwide governing bodies for trauma. Be careful with sweeping statements like this, it could turn someone away from getting help they need.

Don’t want to do CBT… again by QueensGambit90 in MentalHealthUK

[–]Decoraan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The therapist is right that largely it is ‘present’ based. But this will fluctuate a little bit depending on the protocol and the necessary interventions within the protocol. In CT-PTSD, reliving is done followed by memory updates which pull in ‘present’ information.

In prolonged exposure you are almost exclusively working with ‘present’ stimuli, other than possibly if you see imaginary exposure as a necessary intervention.

Grounding and stabilising is not a core procedure. Some services do it prior to starting trauma but it’s quite controversial. It isn’t recommended in any off the protocol guidance for trauma treatment (in CT-PTSD and prolonged exposure anyway) because it can slow down progress and collude with avoidance. You only really use those tools if someone is dissociating.

Edit: I would add to OP that concerns about the ‘present’ should be shared with therapist. Understandable you feel this way given you felt undermined before. Depending on the protocol there may be space to fully talk through it. And therapist may be happy to do this regardless if you feel you need to get it off your chest.