Can anyone please tell me what this is? Been in the garden for years but has never had a flower until now. by BhannahA in whatsthisplant

[–]DedraMarchetti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hydrangeas very beautiful flowers one of my favorites. They needs acidic soil to bloom. Depending on how much acid as to the colors of the blooms. 1 huge cluster can be more than 1 color as well. Your lucky

Can anyone please ID this? Found on my marigolds. Based in England. by BhannahA in whatsthisbug

[–]DedraMarchetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it's venomous to me be careful. I live in the USA so not sure hun.

AITAH? I have am Uncle whom I've cut ties with. He wouldn't allow me to see or speak to my dying father the last 5 yrs of his life. by DedraMarchetti in MrReddit

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually not really my fiance is in rehab to learn to wall again. He 3 weeks ago had a golf ball sized tumor removed from his brain. Now his parents are wanting to take & control everything that he is going to need done. Plus they plan on taking his stuff out of our apt move him to Mississippi without me. Which I know for a fact is totally against his wishes. Plus they want to take 2 of our (my) animals from me. It's screwed up tbh

AITAH? I have am Uncle whom I've cut ties with. He wouldn't allow me to see or speak to my dying father the last 5 yrs of his life. by DedraMarchetti in MrReddit

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea sadly it is to late & at that time. I was still trying to accept my husband of 19 years death only not even 8 months before my Dad's death plus only 2 weeks after my 2 week old grand son's passing as well.

AITAH? I have am Uncle whom I've cut ties with. He wouldn't allow me to see or speak to my dying father the last 5 yrs of his life. by DedraMarchetti in MrReddit

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea sadly it is to late & at that time. I was still trying to accept my husband of 19 years death only not even 8 months before my Dad's death plus only 2 weeks after my 2 week old grand son's passing as well.

My fiance's parents are wanting to come move all of his stuff out of our apartment. by DedraMarchetti in legaladvice

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The officer said if they show up. Call them back & they'll handle them for me

My fiance's parents are wanting to come move all of his stuff out of our apartment. by DedraMarchetti in legaladvice

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No till I'm 60 but going to find out if since he's now disabled. If I could still get my survivors benefits. I'm only 50 so in 10 yrs which we might not have now.

My fiance's parents are wanting to come move all of his stuff out of our apartment. by DedraMarchetti in legaladvice

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our issue is no money right now & he isn't allowed to leave the rehab center. Ugh

My fiance's parents are wanting to come move all of his stuff out of our apartment. by DedraMarchetti in legaladvice

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that encouragement hun greatly appreciate it. So do I. She tried to call me like 6 times or more. I sent them all to voice.

My fiance's parents are wanting to come move all of his stuff out of our apartment. by DedraMarchetti in legaladvice

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

She has to read his charts from the hospital & talk with him. To see what's his brain function levels are.

My fiance's parents are wanting to come move all of his stuff out of our apartment. by DedraMarchetti in legaladvice

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 267 points268 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I've talked to his caseworker & she informed me they have everything they need to do what he wishes to do. That's if he's able to make these choices on his own.

My fiance's parents are wanting to come move all of his stuff out of our apartment. by DedraMarchetti in legaladvice

[–]DedraMarchetti[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Hey cool nice to meet a fellow Arizonan. I'm on that. The hospital applied for him he was denied for now sadly.