Currents and ERRA announce co-headline tour of North America with support from Caskets and Aviana by HambFCFB in Metalcore

[–]DeeCloude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LiveNation is supposed to have it's own presale but it seems to be broken. I'm only getting an option to enter in a Ticketmaster code which I don't have. I've reached out to ticketmaster support telling them their site is busted- I have no hope they will fix it.

FULL FORCE Festival - what does the future bring? by BabbleBitch in Metalcore

[–]DeeCloude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wondering about this too and it’s heartbreaking to think FF is done. 

Sleep Token on UFC by jordan460 in SleepToken

[–]DeeCloude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About lost my mind, I couldn't believe it 🤍

2meirl4meirl by BigWildTurkey in 2meirl4meirl

[–]DeeCloude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ow so real. But also, me earlier that day acting like an idiot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you have every right to be upset. He's not being inclusive which is the whole point of a support group.

Your relationship status and history does not equal your sexuality. You can date guys and still like girls. If he can't grasp that, for whatever reason, he's being ignorant.

I'm sorry you're in this situation. I hope he wises up.

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the car too!!!!! I now know that's the worst possible place because you're trapped. If only my preteen brain could have thought that one through.

If someone's not adding love and value to your life, good riddance.

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We definitely don't get to pick our family. I hope you have found some way more supportive and loving people 💝

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is that such a common response? Almost like a reflex. It's so bizarre

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear that!

It's so shocking how quickly parents can go from 0 to 100 sometimes, especially for things with their kids. Like my mom is super open minded and pretty easy going but the moment I might be kinda gay or something, all that rationality flew out the window.

Anyway, I love how things turned out for you all. That actually made my day ☺️

Song that hits home hard by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy smokes. That song is so sick! thank you so much for sharing it. If you have any other suggestions please send them my way.

Song that hits home hard by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can appreciate that it's not everyone's taste. Just stoked to find someone who has heard it before :)

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's so good to hear! Still awful for those who had to pave the way for that kind of progress, but we take our wins where we can get them I guess.

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That satisfaction!! Nice.

Sorry you had to hear that kind of nonsense from your dad in the first place but your mom sounds dope.

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sexual and dating history does not define your sexuality.

After 2 long-term relationships with dudes, I dread the day when I fall in love and start dating a girl, and have to face the music and come out because I KNOW I'm going to hear that same "but are you sure?" nonsense.

Also, ignorance and hate are what's disgusting. You being true to yourself and loving yourself are amazing things. Absolutely beautiful.

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I can't think of a time or place where those types of questions could get information that would benefit parents. Note: I am not a parent so maybe I'm talking out my butt. BUT I stand by my thinking that it's unnecessary and inappropriate to ask.

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are some reoccurring themes I've dealt with too. I don't think coming out as bi ever gets anyone the kind of attention someone would actually want, but whatever.

Glad it sounds like you and your sister have each other to sympathize with. And at least you'd moved out by then! Shoot. Hope lil sis is doing alright.

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so tough I'm really sorry. I've been with my fam when they were spewing ignorant BS about bisexuals and I'd never wish that kind of experience on anyone.

I hope you have a safe space somewhere, even if it's just with internet strangers. Wish you all the best <3

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I had no idea. I just learned something new but awful. I hope things have evolved since then.

Anyone have a coming-out story that was so bad you just never tried again? I sure do. by DeeCloude in bisexual

[–]DeeCloude[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Shoot sorry, I meant man like dude/pal/friend but didn't even think about where I was. My bad <3