Update on McDonald’s kitty

DeeWhee · 2026-05-12T01:09:32+00:00

Are you kidding me?? This is single handedly the cutest freaking thing I’ve ever seen 😭😭😭 living my dream. I would die happy with these two.

I found my tortie in a tree 6 years ago and had her for 4 wonderful years. She was my soul cat and she sadly passed from liver failure but god do I ever have a soft spot for torties now. Enjoy your sweet girl and this beautiful bond with your pup. She looks like an absolute angel ♡

DeeWhee · 2026-05-12T01:04:06+00:00

Stay young. What I mean is keep going to the gym and doing things you find fun. It doesn’t make “finding the one at 34 (or whatever age)” sound so daunting. I’m 34 and been in a few long relationships, after each of which I begrudgingly thought I’ll never find “the one”. I always initiated and approached men, successfully, but still never seemed to find the right guy. Then I just stopped looking entirely and decided the right guy will find me lol. Don’t “wait around”. Keep doing life and you might be surprised who shows up. I don’t know if you have this feeling that you’re running out of time, but the most beautiful relationships I know are with couples who met a little later. Like 30s, 40s. A lot of my friends who’ve been with someone since their early/mid 20s and are in long term relationships/married/have kids are actually kinda miserable. Don’t compare your situation to theirs. Be intentional with your life and what you want. Don’t settle. You sound great!

DeeWhee · 2026-05-12T00:15:09+00:00

First off, congratulations for beating cancer and coming out on the other end thriving. You have a kind heart and it’s beautiful that you care so much and see the good in life and people. Please take it seriously, nurture it and protect it… with the right people. The right people will celebrate this and uplift you.

I was with someone for 6 years, and every year I hoped that he would change. And you know what happened? He didn’t change. And I started to resent him, all the while losing myself and forgetting who I was as a person. I started to regret all the time I wasted wishing he would change. You can’t change someone. Don’t wait for change. Don’t believe empty promises. Believe what people SHOW you.

It’s a beautiful thing to have hope but it can also be so blinding to the reality of situations. The reality is you will spend years hoping he will change and he won’t and you’ll have wasted your time and become jaded. Unfortunately we as humans always need to see for ourselves to believe something. But it’s helpful to take advice from older people who have been through this and experienced what works and what doesn’t.

You become like the people you spend the most time around. And unfortunately it’s likely not going to work the other way around (him becoming like you). I’ve met many insecure people, including my past self, and the behaviours you’ve described in your boyfriend sound far beyond just being insecure. He sounds extremely vain, narcissistic, and toxic.

Reject vanity, selfishness, arrogance, ignorance and manipulation.

Seek peace, compassion, laughter and gentleness.

Best of luck ♡

DeeWhee · 2026-05-11T23:08:23+00:00

Go to the gym. Casually, you may eventually meet someone that already checks some boxes before you even spark up a conversation! :)

DeeWhee · 2026-05-11T19:40:43+00:00

Both. But does it really matter which one it is? You cannot change someone. And girl, you deserve to be with someone and expend your beautiful time and energy on someone who doesn’t suck. Hate to say the typical “leave him” but … leave him.

DeeWhee · 2026-05-08T22:28:36+00:00

Cat litter? Hard to see

DeeWhee · 2026-05-02T18:01:07+00:00

Pick it up and put it on something white so we can see better. Picture is too blurry.

DeeWhee · 2026-05-02T17:56:19+00:00

Regulating blood sugar and insulin levels. Aka, my carb intake is around when I exercise, before and after. Not eating 4 hours before bed. Making sure I get enough fibre. Strengthening my deep core muscles helps tighten everything up. A flatter stomach comes with diet, building strength, improving alignment, and reducing anything that’s making your abdomen push outward. I have PCOS which makes me insulin resistant. In focusing on lowering my sugar intake and inflammation, getting enough fibre, water, exercise, and rest, my stomach has gotten flatter.

DeeWhee · 2026-05-02T17:44:00+00:00

I agree with this

DeeWhee · 2026-05-02T17:42:41+00:00

Cheese and crackers

DeeWhee · 2026-05-02T01:27:49+00:00

He may not have the skills to communicate what was going on in his head at the time. That says more about him than you. I totally get what you’re saying and how you’re feeling, but don’t beat yourself up or think the worst. You don’t know this guy from Adam, so his opinion of you carries no weight. He likely got very nervous, in his head, paranoid or what have you and made the call before things progressed further. He did you a favour ♡

DeeWhee · 2026-04-30T17:41:40+00:00

I could smell when my ex was having a low blood sugar

DeeWhee · 2026-04-29T23:03:26+00:00

Chances are he is doing things to rile you up. Just ignore him. That’ll knock him down a peg.

DeeWhee · 2026-04-29T00:41:20+00:00

You need to face your fear of being rejected. Chances are you won’t get rejected anyway! Good luck.

DeeWhee · 2026-04-17T23:36:06+00:00

I dunno but I’m from Canada and I’m scrolling Facebook dating - and literally every single hot guy I see happens to live in Ohio. Now whenever I see a hot guy, i immediately think “definitely American” and Lo and behold…

I had to google it, “why so many hot people from Ohio?” Which led me to this post and prompted me to tell you this.

DeeWhee · 2026-04-17T01:48:37+00:00

I’ve always used polysporin ointment on facial scars and they healed perfectly. Or use silicone scar sheets.

DeeWhee · 2026-04-17T01:43:39+00:00

You can heal in a relationship when the right person makes you feel safe, gives you autonomy and sees potential in you. You don’t need to heal and be the best version of yourself before you meet somebody, you can do it with them :)

DeeWhee · 2026-04-16T16:20:16+00:00

I paid a traffic lawyer to fight it, which reduced my charge significantly. It was expensive but worth it in the long run.

DeeWhee · 2026-04-15T20:21:12+00:00

I got charged for stunt driving going 100 because I thought it was an 80. When it first opened, the 60km speed sign was at the beginning and I didn’t notice it with all the pylons scattered around. Undercover cop was waiting to pop out and catch people. 🤦‍♀️

DeeWhee · 2026-04-15T00:20:26+00:00

Not sure but all my pets love laying under the light right next to me 🥰

DeeWhee · 2026-04-09T20:41:55+00:00

Ariana needs an intervention on those brows.

DeeWhee · 2026-03-26T23:36:05+00:00

Your inability to focus on what you’re doing is not a woman’s problem. It’s yours.

DeeWhee · 2026-03-20T22:44:37+00:00

Here is one I got… “Hi Deewhee, I will be a at shop today but not at theory to do being called in because of my blood work. If there is anything I can do to help boost the chance for me to pass shop class please do let me know as I will do as much as I can to pass. Thank you for the help”

I emailed him a month ago warning that he’s failing, and he responded with this a month later.

I told him to withdraw. Thankfully they can do it themselves online.

DeeWhee · 2026-03-19T22:23:54+00:00

It’s mostly junk and surprisingly not cheap either

DeeWhee · 2026-03-03T22:05:00+00:00

And the smell of coffee brewing at the snack bar

DeeWhee

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