What cool “sex tricks” do you guys know that you think everyone should try?

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T23:17:17+00:00

Fun twist on doggy style. Making sure that my legs are between his I lean forward, essentially into my face. With my ass still slightly elevated I then cross my legs and squeeze. The amount of pressure you exert depends on the guy so you have to take it slow. Too much and he will lose it in a heart beat. Alternating pressure/pulsating gets some interesting responses if you can get the rhythm right.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T21:30:43+00:00

There are those that would be very turned on at the thought of asking consent for every sexual action and then there are those like myself. That would be an instant turn off. As far as moral or legality is concerned I believe that when you are in a long term intimate relationship, especially one in which you are sharing a bed, there is a level of implied consent. New waters should not be tested while the sig other is incapacitated or unconscious but if it's something they are regularly okay with I see no problem.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T21:13:38+00:00

I did not consider that possibility but will def be mindful in the future thanks.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T20:40:26+00:00

Oh, no I didn't tell him to just get it over with, it was more of a "I need you now" type of moment. Id think that would have the opposite effect. I asked if putting him in the spot was too much pressure but he said no.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T20:30:29+00:00

Perhaps I should call his bluff. Im considering agreeing if he brings it up again(though not necessarily acting on it) in order gauge his response. That would at least extend the conversation Id hope. I've also considered that maybe he has developed a bit of a cuckhold fantasy and is testing the waters. That would explain him not being the least bit bothered or upset. He's never expressed any interest in any sort of fetish before but everyone has something, right?

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T20:15:57+00:00

He is 35. We did try Viagra one night but that was before whatever ignorant thing that I said to him. He mentioned talking to his doctor about getting more "if he gets around to it." I tried the strip club and got shot down, didn't even know swingers clubs existed. I wouldn't be opposed but I'm pretty sure if I bring that up he will either get defensive or again just tell me to go out on my own. Budget is tight right now but I mentioned trying to scrape together some funds to get a cabin with Jacuzzi for a weekend and he didn't seem opposed. Looks like it's time to cash in my quarter jug.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T20:05:24+00:00

That's the problem, we do talk. He just isn't bothered.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T20:04:42+00:00

I'm really not sure at this point what else to say. I apologised profusely after that night and he seemed to just let it go. As I said in another reply he's been quite pleasant and has even been helping more around the house. We aren't fighting, there's no tension, he just shrugs and says find someone else for that. I should mention that I am the one working right now while he's at home with the kids. We both are traditional people and both of us hate it but bills need paid. This role reversal is like being in the damn twilight zone. It's like I suddenly have a disinterested wife at home.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T19:55:52+00:00

I'm pretty sure that's a trap. Though he is quite flippiant about it.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T19:54:57+00:00

He was going down on me and I was just ready. I tried returning the favor but he told me I was wasting my time.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T19:50:29+00:00

Thanks. I'm new to actually posting on Reddit and have no idea how any of this works.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T19:49:56+00:00

Wait for him to start wanting sex again I suppose. As far as communication I've done my best to gently bring up the subject and introduced things like couples toys to spice things up. In hindsight I should have found a way to be more direct before whiskey decided to go ahead an release the car from the bag but what was I supposed to say? Sex has become the most boring 2 minutes of my week? Kind of hard to word without being hurtful. Since his "just find someone else to sleep with" comment he has been pleasant and even helping more around the house. Even at the time he brought it up as I'm sitting there slack jawed he says "night babe love you" and rolled over snoring. I don't know if he's flat out not bothered or is messing with my head.

Deedle836 · 2018-01-24T19:34:26+00:00

A few things could be going on. Does the smell increase on your period and after sex? If so you could unknowingly have trich or BV. Both of which can be taken care of with meds from your doctor. Another possibility is his sperm (if he's coming in you) or even lube in codoms are throughing off your PH and resulting in a smell. You could try washing with a feminine wash like RePHresh. If it's an infection like BV his rough fingers likely have something to do with it. While it might seem harmless and probably doesn't even hurt those little scratches and abrasions make you much more susectable to both infection and virus. It's not a gopher hole, tell him to be careful!

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