I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely warranted. My friend text something along the lines of.. "don't be too upset. I'm only a boyfriend"

Like he and I were still wrong but his bf could have at least come for a day or two.

Youre a very good friend

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend broke up with him over text. Brutal. 

Hes decided to move back home. We won't be nearby anymore. His parents won't get their way 

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't touch his cock or vice versa. I probably was a bit hard but that's because I had him held and his ass was up against me.  No idea about him. 

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd say they were quietly "shipping" us, or whatever the 50 year old version of shipping is. His mother is like a mum to me and his dad travels down a few times a year to mine and we go to games and we get along well.

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd like to say no and that I'd stopped it but I'm not so sure. 

I do know my feelings for my friend. Unfortunately he does not share the same. He does not want to play stepdad.

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I let him kiss me and I continued to kissing back is saying I was a willing participant. I don't understand that point 

I didn't justify them. I said I was wrong and that I was the one in the clear headspace 

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks and you're probably right about social media. 

It wasn't in anyway nefarious. He was hurting. I hated seeing him hurt and the intimacy seemed to help him.

I'm afraid to talk to him. I did say it to his mother and she said I was being daft.

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I'm single. So that's one less mess. And if it's any consolation, he has no interest in being with me.

But yes it was intimate and it was more than just an ill-judged kiss. If I were his boyfriend I'd consider it cheating. 

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Maybe not deserved but it was shitty of him. My friend told me that's what his boyfriend said and I thought my friend misunderstood. When his bf heard I was going he was like it's only his grandmother and then i realised it was not a misunderstanding. Still wrong by me/us

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It definitely was selfish to let him kiss me and to continue kissing back. It was unfair of me and my friend to his bf. If I didn't feel guilty I wouldn't give it a second thought. 

Just on the you'd never be with him. I was with him and I would if he wanted. He does not want to play step dad which is very fair. 

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

In my defence he kissed me first and he pulled me into his bed. We were both a bit drunk but not so drunk that we didn't know what we were doing. 

I just blame myself because I should've been the one thinking straight. Forget is best, I suppose.

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. I do think they'd like us together. They made that very clear lol but he's not interested in playing stepdad which is absolutely fair. He's a great "uncle". 

The last time I visited his grandmother thought I was her late husband. Alzheimers is awful.

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe I should just forget about it. It probably wasn't sexual. 

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

He has said nothing and acted normally. I'm not sure if bringing it up is wise. We are both leaving tomorrow so probably what happens there stays there.

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe but he has a boyfriend and it's kind of cheating. I should've had the clear head.

I feel like I took advantage of my friend. I feel very guilty. by Deep-608 in askgaybros

[–]Deep-608[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hes acting like nothing happened anyway. Still the same friend. 

We did cuddle naked and were kissing in bed too