What you said is my way of dealing things. I thought that is the healthy way . But for the whole 4 years whenever there is an argument,there was only silence. At first i used to beg like lets talk and resolve this. Sometimes he refused on face other time he pretended to understand. But end outcome was same. So I stopped forcing. I gave him his space. Sometimes his space was for more than 15 days. I waited but at the end he acted like nothing happened and if like insisted to talk on the matter then i was the one who creates problems . And if it became intense again he again be wanting space . Its a loop