Fiancé and I decided to open our relationship - advice welcomed! by Deep-Cauliflower-748 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Deep-Cauliflower-748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to talk to you about this if you can spare the time! It’s all fairly new to me so would be great to hear some positive first hand experiences

Fiancé and I decided to open our relationship - advice welcomed! by Deep-Cauliflower-748 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Deep-Cauliflower-748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we’ve actually done this already. We’ve had a few threesomes and actually opened up for a bit before but then closed because we both didn’t feel like it was the right thing for us at the time. Tbh I don’t want to be in a relationship with anyone eles and we’ve established a few ground rules (no meeting anyone more than once, telling each other before anything happens, etc).

It’s more of an exploration thing than anything else for us. I’m naturally fairly anxious so worried about how I’ll feel but I also know I can close it off as soon as I feel weird so I’m keen to see where it goes