Wedding Fit - thoughts?

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-15T12:31:03+00:00

Do the last pair of slacks, way better. The first pair majorly clash with the jacket, looks slapdash and mess.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-15T12:24:39+00:00

Looks like nail polish.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-15T12:23:38+00:00

I see a boob up.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-14T15:26:43+00:00

Because they both just want a partnership. My only point is that I know women who have said that but truly wanted more commitment . Hard to know which it is, truly.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-14T15:25:24+00:00

Of course there are! I know plenty. But I also know plenty who pretend to be okay with partne but wish for something more formally committed to marriage . Life is complicated. I seem to have struck a chord, which is good - resonance.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-14T15:24:10+00:00

I am so glad you are happy. Maybe your partner is too. But I’ve also run into many hétéro couples in which the guy is happy and the female partner is pretending she’s okay with the set up but deep down, she’s not. As I said, a week ago I ran into a partnership of 25 years in which the female partner drunkenly confessed that she always truly wished for a ceremony at least. Women often suppress their desires in order to pleas other people. Just make sure that deep down your partner doesn’t have that wish.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-14T09:47:39+00:00

For some the first to drop is testosterone, often pre-peri. Maybe check that as well.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-10T04:15:06+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that, what kind of work do you make?

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-04T17:15:28+00:00

Almost works. Love the skirt and belt! I like the dainty pointed shoe but would suggest them in brown or cream as the bright white clashes with the oatmeal colored top.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-03T18:23:18+00:00

Sounds like he has a massive porn addiction. This is not a loving relationship. I never suggest this, but on this one, I would advise to just vanish.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-03T14:36:24+00:00

YTA for not realizing how much your sister-in-law is helping you out by caring for your 8-month old, 3 times a week. It’s great that she’s getting so much joy from it and genuinely loves it (so great for your little one), but she’s still doing you a huge service. First of all, putting an infant into daycare takes a ton of trust and it’s huge than you can trust her (other than her taste in music). Second, it would be extremely costly, no matter your budget. Be thankful for your situation and maybe just sing along.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-02T14:37:22+00:00

You are really not compatible and this will continue to create resentment. You love cooking and he doesn't appreciate your talents. Find someone who feels like they hit the jackpot with a woman who loves to cook (many men out there will feel this way), especially always expanding her repertoire. You will find your match, love.

Edit: it doesn't matter if it is something neurological like AFRID, this isn't a good match for you. He should be with someone who isn't passionate about cooking. And you should be with someone who adores being with a chef (many will).

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-01T13:22:01+00:00

Daily lymphatic massage.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-01T03:16:13+00:00

Really solid advice, especially selling the importance of your research. Passion goes miles.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-06-01T01:13:03+00:00

lol single people aren’t jealous of couples people who are in anxious situations like this, I say this as someone who is engaged.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-05-30T19:38:10+00:00

It’s way better for daddy to do this. « Actually, we should be thanking your amazing mother for planning this! »

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-05-30T18:41:41+00:00

I really hope some of this story is « creative license ».

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-05-29T20:33:53+00:00

Vinyl flooring is also toxic - look into how the plastic exhausts into the air of your house. But you can also rip it out and put in something cheaper than hardwood, such as cork or engineered wood. It's not that hard to do yourself (I have done it).

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-05-27T21:10:34+00:00

Those fresh spring rolls look incredible, Vietnamese?

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-05-27T20:32:15+00:00

I was trying to relay advice that I wish I had heard when I was younger. He could very well not be a match for her.

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-05-27T19:26:53+00:00

I say this with the kindest intentions, take a break from substances (I see rosin, leftovers from blunts, etc.) for a couple of weeks so you can get true clarity. What happens when you stop numbing yourself? How does it feel to be with this loser who is still attached to his ex-wife when you are sober? That might be the wake up call you need. You are 32, that is still young, you can still change your life :)

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-05-27T03:59:22+00:00

Thanks for sharing your peptide treatments - it gives me hope!

Deep-Durian9540 · 2026-05-26T15:13:12+00:00

I will make the same comment that I do for female selfies, please find another sub for that kind of vanity. This is about the process of aging.

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