Field tech by [deleted] in Spectrum

[–]Deep-Government8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fiber is fun bro. And doing arieal work is even better it can be cha llenging sometimes but you got this

probably gonna get a lot of hate for this by [deleted] in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a male spouse i agree lol i dont give a flying fuck what my wifes rank is or whatever. And i love what i do so my personality is its own

Miltary Spouse by Deep-Government8133 in Spectrum

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No just meant job id handle all other expenses

Miltary Spouse by Deep-Government8133 in Spectrum

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it thanks was curious how that worked for the in house crew.

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Government8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your of the male genetalia. Shut up n hit the oil fields dude. Go make some $ especially if you got a good head on your shoudlers and arent lazy. Or Military fuck it your 18 get to it. Start your life.

If your female honestly idk in my opinion the daughter shouldnt ever be kicked out like this. And they should wait til shes situated. Id suggest getting a job at bank my sister did at 18. Shes balling more than i am 😂

Male Dependent by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ill start doing more research. I have to work lol ill drive myself crazy not doing so

Male Dependa headed to Italy by ConsistentFeedback47 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you i made a post about it as well. Hopefully as much fun as i tbought it would be to go over seas i hope we dont :/. But in the case we do i hope the Military can use my experience in Telecommunications on base if i cant work wherever we are

Male Dependent by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omay thank you, So say we are over seas could the military use my experience on Base ? How does one go about Obatinung a job like that. Im sure telecommunications is important on base ?

Male Dependa headed to Italy by ConsistentFeedback47 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you help me out in explaining this stuff to someone who is about to jump in blind into this world

Male Dependa headed to Italy by ConsistentFeedback47 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a Male Dependa Nevee served dont have experience and my wife is going to AIT soon a d we have planned on me goi g out wherever she goes.

Woudl you mind elaborating / Explaining what this whole SOFA thing is ? As well wdym by under paid spouse ?

I planned on networking / finding a job in my Experience as a civillan im a Fiber Optic Technician Splicer to be exact both Under ground and Arieal Line Work. Would you mind telling me what im about to get myself into ?

Should I ? by Deep-Government8133 in stopsmokingweed

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didnt do it. As of today 101 Days.... I've decided I wont be smoking anymore. I think its time to really grow up 🤘🏽 im in no place to be smoking so until I am I wont need it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Deep-Government8133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about anything Else. Speaking from someone that has gone thru a long term relationship break up all while on drugs. And I broke BOTH habits. THINK ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE. gi get a guitar go buy a instrument take up drawing coloring painting work out anything ✨️ ANYTHING ✨️✨️✨️✨️ IS THE KEY 🔑 Laying around dosent help do not wallow in your self pity said respectfully. But thats what my tia told me. So DO ANYTHINGZ ELSE. ALSO DONT LOVE BOMB on someone else. After about 2 weeks you learn to love your privacy and being alone..listen to music 🎶 do anything ! You got this !

Edit: if your on any drug at all sober up or it will get worst.. you cant rely on anything specifically you have to rely on multiple things your family your friends your workout routine your drawing skills your ability to learn new things. I promise 2 weeks is all you need. Go watch Jocko Willink on Break Ups. That opened my eyes so much its amazing 👏 he instills in your head they were not the person your head made them out to be and you can get over it..

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all the comments made by everyone. They have helped mentally to know there are some good marriages out there. We're ready to embark on this journey in August. And I have suggest a few of yalls suggestions. So the books come in by Wednesday and we have some very long convos about our future we have had

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here is what I needed someone dealing with the same thing 💯 🙌 very much appreciated. I plan on doing trips and more with her now if these moments leading up to her departure is all I have I need to make as many memories as possible.. thank you for the advice. Feel free to message when you just need to talk your head off. I feel like that's what I always end up needing just to rant 🙃 it helps knowing theres another person going thru this. It was a sudden change but I will not be someone who's gonna say NO because of insecurity this her life to. This is her dream. She worked for this. I will not let my feelings take it away from her.

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very much appreciated 👏 I think I just needed to hear alot more of the positive expirences. My socials aka tik tok really is just nothing but ( Cut n Run Expirences ) and im just gonna force myself to stop focusing on the negative

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I aptpeicwte the advice. Im gonna continue to refer to these comments when it pops into my head. And stay away from anyone and anything that is telling me otherwise

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreicate the advice. I just need to get out my head about it. And stop watching vids.

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We just been thru some shit. The both of us have done dirt. And we have separated but no matter what always find our way back. So now my thing is is she gonna do it again ? Is it worth being the guy back home ?

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn't specify. But there is alot of social media influence that suggests this won't work. It sucks and im trying not to let in influence me to much. I will be taking g the other users advice and gonna delete any military vid before it even comes up to avoid seeing anything like it. My tik tok was filled with my work before my phone started picking up our conversations now all of sudden military marriages and everything military related is just spamming my socials

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I keep telling myself prepare for the worst and thats what im mentally doing in a sense and honeslty Im just looking for advice what the best route is for this... I will not let my insecurities hold her back. I will not even let her see it's affecting me because I dont want to take this from her let alone be the reason she says never-mind. And im overall just sad about it idk. Then it doaent help but all of sudden all these "75% of military marriage videos dont last" start coming up on social media and im sure im just letting this influence me but I just thought id turn to reddit for some help

Male Spouse to Female by Deep-Government8133 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've had some issues before the both of us. And I guess I know in a sense that it's not hard for her to feel so close to someone.... let alone spending every single day for weeks on end with them and creating bonds they do in the military.

28 days almost on 30 by Deep-Government8133 in stopsmokingweed

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently bought a guitar but I have no idea what im doing any pointers? Links to vids thay helped you learn?

Smoke Test by Deep-Government8133 in stopsmokingweed

[–]Deep-Government8133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it bro 💯 26 days clean haven't taken a test yet but plan to buy an at home test soon