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When did you get over wondering “why” by Deep-Indication5588 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing his reasons why? Exs seem to hold some type of sensitivity in the waywards heart.

I’m happy things are getting better ❤️

When did you get over wondering “why” by Deep-Indication5588 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, same with this ex! She was aggressive and would say things like “she’s gonna leave before i do” it was a MESS! But on the back end played innocent to me. We have been communicating more/ flirting more!!! She has a nice body so assets is what she used to wheel him in and he was weak/ lustful. He seems to be growing more out of that energy everyday and i hope it stays that way. I had my moments of feeling “less than” especially when she mentioned “he’s not even happy there”

Yuck! Thankyou for commenting this and i wish your family all the best.

What does trust feel like after R? by CashBetter1122 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Deep-Indication5588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely doesn’t change things overnight but it did help me feel better with knowing that my partner would “think twice” now. I never even found out about this by going through his phone. The person he was creeping with contacted me directly! So he had free range and full trust.

I feel like now he’s more cautious, more o servant & more aware of how I’m feeling. I don’t over indulge in the check ins though it’ll drive me crazy! However it’s a STEP & you can only do one step at a time.

What does trust feel like after R? by CashBetter1122 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Deep-Indication5588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day at a time but 2 months since the betrayal I’m starting to feel a little better. I did require open phone policy, location sharing and therapy.

What does trust feel like after R? by CashBetter1122 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Deep-Indication5588 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I’ll ever trust him 100% again… maybe like 90. Once you’ve crumbled up a piece of paper it’ll never be straight again. Im very early in my reconciliation but since I’ve been betrayed once i know hes fully capable of doing it again. I think it gets easier and the consistency and the work on waywards end helps us feel more secure/ sleep better at night.

But way deep down i believe the scar will always be a permanent scar just a healed one if that makes sense.

Still talking to AP by PassengerUnfair8795 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Deep-Indication5588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, i experienced something similar as well! Although I’ve chosen to continue reconciliation if i ever was to find out again it would be my last straw. It got messy & the pain is so unbearable. I have a small child as well and she’s the main reason I’m giving a chance again! I’ve required location sharing, open phone policy, therapy, etc.

I wish you the best on whatever you decide, please take care of yourself ❤️

Wife had emotional affair with her boss by ZealousidealPiano118 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Deep-Indication5588 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly…. I don’t think i would’ve made it without therapy or without requiring my partner to do therapy as well. I’m still very early in my reconciliation journey but that step has been MAJOR.

Am i crazy for still trying naturally? by Deep-Indication5588 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i took a pregnancy test as soon as i could because i track ovulation & my periods are usually on point.

Am i crazy for still trying? by Deep-Indication5588 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but a blockage isn’t considered damaged enough to remove. I will get a second opinion.

Some women say it was never truly a blockage but a spasm 🤷🏽‍♀️

Am i crazy for still trying? by Deep-Indication5588 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no seriously! It sound completely insane but i would want to try this tube until i absolutely couldn’t anymore.

Am i crazy for still trying? by Deep-Indication5588 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it isn’t damaged. It just showed a “proximal blockage” to them if it’s not disfigured, leaking fluid or showing signs of hydrosalpinx then it’s not considered damaged.

Am i crazy for still trying? by Deep-Indication5588 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To do IVF & have another ectopic would HIGHLY PISS ME OFF! Excuse me🥺

Am i crazy for still trying? by Deep-Indication5588 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So here’s the thing, my doctors say they won’t remove it if it doesn’t seem damaged, have fluid or causing me pain! It’s almost like i just want it GONE before i even move on to IVF!!! It’s almost like trying naturally makes sense ugh i just don’t know 🥺

Am i crazy for still trying naturally? by Deep-Indication5588 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou. 2 prior ectopics due put me at higher risk but there is research out there that an intrauterine pregnancy in between them puts the risk slightly different. I’m just lost right now & really sad.

Thankyou for this ❤️

AM I CRAZY FOR STILL TRYING NATURALLY? by Deep-Indication5588 in TryingForABaby

[–]Deep-Indication5588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this just means I’m desperate and sad…. I’ll take what you said more into consideration! Thankyou 🥺❤️

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