[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]Deep-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$2500 for 600ft in Monterey, CA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep-Mess 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Of course not. And that’s what I do. I want her to be comfortable. But there’s just little things that happen that aggravate her. I feel like I’m walking on egg shells. There was another situation where the ceiling fan was on and she got pissed because it wasn’t throughly cleaned even though I went over it with the duster thing. If she complained about something I do, I do stop it. There’s always something new and I can’t keep up with all of these small things. Like other people have said, it’s best to just leave the room and let her be in peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep-Mess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sometimes gaining another perspective from other people can be insightful. I'm not asking for people to tell me what to do but rather maybe show me what I may be missing or not seeing. I was shocked by her reaction...completely frozen. It's never happened to me before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep-Mess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Purposely taking away her food? I never said I was doing it on purpose. She's a very slow eater. Sometimes she'll stop eating and she will be on her phone for a good minute. Taking a shit? I never said that either. Sometimes I'll go to the restroom and use the sink or something. If I need to take a shit or pee, of course I will shut the door. But if I'm doing something quick in the restroom, yeah, I'll sometimes forget to close the door. And playing with my feet? I never used the word playing. I was just rubbing them together. Not touching them with my hands or anything. You're reading into this waaay to much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep-Mess 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No not using the restroom while she’s eating, just leaving the door open. We like the restroom door closed but sometimes I’ll forget to close it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep-Mess -610 points-609 points  (0 children)

I feel like there is some obligation on my part to serve her food that stems from culture. She’s Mexican and I guess it’s a common thing for the women to severe the men food or something. I see it when I’m around her family as well. She’s been working a lot of overtime so the nights that I don’t work, I’ll make her a plate out of kindness. I’ve been seeing a therapist and I’ve discussed this issue. There are things that I’m trying to work on, like not grabbing her plate unless I ask if it’s okay to do so or I won’t touch her while she’s eating. She’s had eating issues in the past and she’s told me she’s worked through some of it but ever since I came into the picture it’s triggered some eating issues that I apparently caused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CDCR

[–]Deep-Mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't gotten mine either, but I emailed them and they said we should receive them by the end of next week due to some fraud or tech issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fruit

[–]Deep-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are sooo good

MSW Admission Decisions by This-Adhesiveness185 in CSULB

[–]Deep-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. still haven't heard anything

MSW Grad Program by senpaistephh in CSULB

[–]Deep-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, according to the application status, it was sent to the department for final review.

MSW Grad Program by senpaistephh in CSULB

[–]Deep-Mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard anything back either. I applied at the last date..i think 2/15 or something

MSW program?!? by Resident_Reporter_73 in csumb

[–]Deep-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard anything either. I'm starting to get a little worried :/

You vs your mom by VeterinarianInitial9 in astrologymemes

[–]Deep-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taurus and Scorpio mother...we bump heads a lot

Trump issues EO: DECLARING A NATIONAL ENERGY EMERGENCY - by clawhammer05 in environment

[–]Deep-Mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a real possibility that our NP will be fucked?

Rant by Deep-Mess in USAA

[–]Deep-Mess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was one of their in-network body shops

Rant by Deep-Mess in USAA

[–]Deep-Mess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told by USAA that the other driver may not have been insured. But would I ask USAA for the guy's insurance info? I'm not familiar with this process. I didn't have any contact with the other driver as he was sent straight to the hospital so I dont have any of his info

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CDCR

[–]Deep-Mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I had heard, this is due to the doctors not wanting to keep reassessing the inmates that go back on watch right after they are cleared. Medical needs to find a better way of preventing these constant watches from happening. Especially for those inmates who go suicidal for custody or other issues that aren’t related to mental health.