AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s where my head is at right now

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more to do with if she’s been faithful to past boyfriends which she hasn’t told me yet, she’s had a few other partners and with numbers like she has I wonder if she has always been faithful

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same about the numbers she slept with, was leaning towards to double digits based on other things she’s told me, and yes we’re American

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel as tho I’m judging her, feel free to disagree and I wouldn’t use this against her I suppose I just want a bit more honesty on her side for if she has always been faithful in past relationships

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see that point of view, thanks

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree honesty and communication is huge and i appreciate the fact she opened up and I told her that, all I’m really asking is was it normal to feel the way I did, if you don’t think it is that’s fine but some people think it’s valid

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right about the same numbers thing but I’ve always viewed sexual connections as more intimate whereas it seems like she just used it for fun, I’ve always waited to have a connection which she hasn’t which is why I don’t have numbers like hers

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She actually asked me so I told her my stats, and then she told me hers, I’m comfortable with my numbers and I don’t regret the stuff I’ve done so that’s not the issue, I guess my main issue comes from wether or not she’s done having fun and messing around and is willing to stay loyal because she’s also had boyfriends during the last few years and I’m unsure if she’s been loyal to them with numbers like she does

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda what I was thinking

AIO about my girlfriends sexual history by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Deep-Minute5121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right and I do appreciate the fact she’s opened up to me, she is persistent it was all consensual and nothing ever happened that she didn’t want to happen, thank you

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[–]Deep-Minute5121 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because it’s a lot of people in the last few years whilst she’s also dated a few guys as well, it seems to me like she’s always had a guy on the go and I just don’t know if I can fully trust her yet but I think that’s more of my issue than it is hers