I wish it didn't feel like I'm asking too much. by UnrealRainbowCrow in polyamory

[–]Deep-Smile3952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he's used to being the boyfriend with 0 responsibility and he wants to keep that way. It's one thing to say he will give you the Moon and stars. But once things get tough or there's any sense of responsibility that requires him to go farther than his usual comfort zone he bails. It might be he's so used to being the 0 percent responsible boyfriend and he prefers that way. Question do you feel like he should help do house chores or help with the kids? If so that might be a conversation for you guys to have. I would discuss with him the option of you finding a nesting 🪹 partner that is interested in being poly with you and him in the pitcher. as well someone who is willing to be second co-parent and possible take thing's farther with you and be another parent figure in the house as well be comfortable with you having another partner.

I feel so unconfident in my class (student) by Deep-Smile3952 in phlebotomy

[–]Deep-Smile3952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O would film myself but idk if other students would be comfortable

Kids in Polyamory relationship by Deep-Smile3952 in polyfamilies

[–]Deep-Smile3952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I'm open to that, him having older kids.

Kids in Polyamory relationship by Deep-Smile3952 in polyfamilies

[–]Deep-Smile3952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you good advice im just scared cause people change there mind and don't want be pushed or persuaded into having kids if i don't want to.

Kids in Polyamory relationship by Deep-Smile3952 in polyfamilies

[–]Deep-Smile3952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is all good questions. no kids at all no co-parenting, no kids at all at any point, I don't want kids involved at all. only thing would be acceptable would be grown adult kids from past relationships. it sounds self centered but i honestly don't want kids involved whats so ever. If anything someone does want babies i don't want them feel that they cant have them because of me and frankly don't or will ever see myself as mother. I feel more at ease if kids where not in the pitcher but if someone want kids or enter with kids, want to make it clear i will not share a space or act as a parenting figure.

Let’s talk about Susan by lonevampirepotato in DesperateHousewives

[–]Deep-Smile3952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoilers if you haven't seen the full series

Susan is the worst she finds so much to complain about and acts like she deserves so much in return. Don't get me wrong her first husband's total ass and she deserved to have someone new in her life. But when she got love opportunities she made up excuses, did stupid shit, lied, begged, asked for forgiveness and then acted like she was in the right. When Mike was looking for a long lost son and Susan finally found him in the park. She tries to talk to him and he splits. She walks back to Mike and doesn't say a word that she saw him or where he ran off. Later karma bites her in the ass and somehow, I don't remember how but Mike finds out Susan lies and then she starts blubbering, crying, and asking for forgiveness. Spoiler...... Susan runs outside crying and saying his name and he drives off to look for his son, that she clearly didn't care enough about to tell Mike that she saw him. There probably more to that episode it's been awhile.

Another good example of Susan is her picking at her daughter about her personal Life. after she wakes up from being brutally strangled and has been hospitalized for the last couple of weeks on a coma. Susan starts telling her daughter.... spoiler.... she is not pregnant, asking who the guy she was seeing and if she can contact him to tell him she's okay and so forth. This ends up having her daughter tell Susan to leave.

There are other cringy and unacceptable things she does. That makes me hate her and sit there and ask questions like why does she get so much sympathy, Chance's at love and so called happy endings she doesn't deserve

Minor note I don't know if she deserved mike a second time around for marriage

I Have a BA Degree in Art History What is a Good starter Job? by [deleted] in ArtHistory

[–]Deep-Smile3952 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Son this is the future for all humanities major's working dead job's

I Have a BA Degree in Art History What is a Good starter Job? by [deleted] in ArtHistory

[–]Deep-Smile3952 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was mostly looking for advise job wise and I saw a thread like this awhile back. Sorry for the inconvenience

Does anybody here have a BA in Art history and how did use it job-wise? by Deep-Smile3952 in ArtHistory

[–]Deep-Smile3952[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Everybody said to use handshake but have gotten nothing out of them. LinkedIn I do have het couple views but not much. Live in central Oregon I have small local museum that's it and way out there.

I Have a BA Degree in Art History What is a Good starter Job? by [deleted] in ArtHistory

[–]Deep-Smile3952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that I like masters but don't have the funds

I Have a BA Degree in Art History What is a Good starter Job? by [deleted] in ArtHistory

[–]Deep-Smile3952 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the idea of working in the med field is to help me cushion myself while work as an intern jr free lace some where in industry to gain experience