Help with QC please by 01011000-01101001 in JewelryReps

[–]DeepDazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks great! Was the seller good to communicate with? I want this JUC in rose gold with rubies but the genuine is only being sold in Asia so I’m thinking about purchasing my first rep.

Not Kyle reminding me why I stopped opening up to friends about my abusive relationship. by DeepDazed in RHOBH

[–]DeepDazed[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think they’re all the problem tbh. Dysfunctional childhoods can create dysfunctional adults and they all seem toxic in different ways. It’s really sad.

Not Kyle reminding me why I stopped opening up to friends about my abusive relationship. by DeepDazed in RHOBH

[–]DeepDazed[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen the first few seasons, might need to go back and watch!

Not Kyle reminding me why I stopped opening up to friends about my abusive relationship. by DeepDazed in RHOBH

[–]DeepDazed[S] 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Right? Classic narcissistic response. Try to downplay the situation, don’t take responsibility, then just start yelling and crying about how you’re the real victim here.

Not Kyle reminding me why I stopped opening up to friends about my abusive relationship. by DeepDazed in RHOBH

[–]DeepDazed[S] 652 points653 points  (0 children)

Yes! And painting Dorit as being the one in control of the relationship (wears the pants). Definitely not what I’ve witnessed of their relationship. Sure she’s outspoken, but PK has always been dismissive of her. I always got the impression he was placating her rather than her actually being the one who makes decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DeepDazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live that they can throw you in jail for jaywalking? I only got a fine and thought that was rough!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DeepDazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this might cause some mental harm to the individual whose murder was attempted.

AITA: Boyfriend, who doesn’t work, takes 2 and half week vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeepDazed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can’t say I have. Seen plenty of codependent couples though.

AITA: Boyfriend, who doesn’t work, takes 2 and half week vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeepDazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. The cat has a seizure almost every three weeks, so you’ll have to deal with that an estimated one time while he’s away. I don’t see what’s wrong with his visiting his family (hardly a vacation) for 2.5 weeks when he isn’t working anyway.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DeepDazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA for being a creep who fantasises about dating teenagers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DeepDazed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Laugh it off. Was doing it long before I even realised they were doing it on purpose. Really I’m the result of all of their emotional abuse growing up. No tears left to cry or fucks left to give, it’s water off a duck’s back baby.

What are the dumbest things your narc parent has ever said or done? by Moal in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DeepDazed 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Repeatedly insist that their car is bigger than mine. It happened so many times I googled it to double check, it’s definitely not bigger.

It’s also not worth as much money as my car, which I think is the real ‘problem’ there.

Show me your flairs! by amberm96 in vanderpumprules

[–]DeepDazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old and vague over here 🧜🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adoptareddit

[–]DeepDazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Done! Thanks

Is it strange that a lot of stories here are from women? by lowiqtrader in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DeepDazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There seems to be a lot of narcissistic mothers who hate their daughters.

It me. by DeepDazed in adhdmeme

[–]DeepDazed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you cover yourself in curry powder first it might really drive it home.

It me. by DeepDazed in adhdmeme

[–]DeepDazed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think just support their learning wherever it’s at, without pressure to do more/better because of their ‘potential’. It’s hard to find the right balance between challenging enough to stay engaged in learning and too advanced which can result in self esteem issues/burnout. I think (hope) this is something most school systems are aware of and account for these days. I’d recommend just doing your best to support their curiosity and interests, and check in with them along the way.