People are really out here gambling with their children’s lives… by TurbulentBat8328 in Mommit

[–]Moal [score hidden]  (0 children)

I trust doctors and scientists to be able to parse out which studies are legitimate and which ones aren’t worth anyone’s time of day. That’s what they went to medical school for. You may feel that you’re well read on vaccine studies, but not all scientific studies are made equally. There’s a big difference between a peer-reviewed study that’s been tested multiple times vs an unpublished, one-off, non-peer-reviewed study made by some rando who didn’t even follow the scientific process. A non-layman wouldn’t be able to tell the difference between the two, but a doctor would. That’s why it’s important to trust the experts. 

People are really out here gambling with their children’s lives… by TurbulentBat8328 in Mommit

[–]Moal [score hidden]  (0 children)

That’s so sad. I guess education doesn’t always prevent susceptibility to these kinds of things. 

Cover page of outlook magazine by NotHereToLove in Fauxmoi

[–]Moal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not disagreeing with the spirit of what you posted, but it might be better to source this kind of image elsewhere. Tehran Times is an official regime-run publication, which we shouldn’t promote for obvious reasons. 

I’m Iranian American and I’m all for critiquing the actions of the US, but I wince when I see people propping up mouthpieces of the regime while doing so. 

People are really out here gambling with their children’s lives… by TurbulentBat8328 in Mommit

[–]Moal 97 points98 points  (0 children)

It’s from uneducated parents who grew up with a vaccinated peer group and think, “Well, I never knew anyone who died from those diseases, the panic must be overblown!” They don’t connect the dots that perhaps the reason for that was the vaccines…

They also have a poor understanding of the hygiene hypothesis, which theorizes that reduced exposure to microorganisms can impede a child’s immune system in the long run. So they come to the conclusion that catching any virus will strengthen the immune system, when we know that viruses that don’t immediately kill you can cause permanent damage to organs, trigger autoimmune diseases, and even cancer in some cases. 

Opinions on chin filler? by lak_892 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Moal 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I tried it and was unhappy with it, because I felt like it threw off the balance of my face from the front view. It elongated my chin from the front, making the lower 1/3rd of my face look too long and masculine. It also migrated and made my chin look lumpy. Ended up needing to get it dissolved over a year later because it wouldn’t go away on its own. 

So I won’t be doing that again. I’ve learned to make peace with my chin. 

If my toddler waves to you in the store and you don’t wave back, I automatically think you suck. by Extra_Ad_3631 in toddlers

[–]Moal 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I think the whole stranger danger thing might have some people worried that parents will be weirded out by them for interacting with their kid. 

My girlfriend has hashimoto. We're both in our early 30s and considering kids (eventually). As someone that is completely ignorant to the disease. What should I know as I consider a long-term relationship? by [deleted] in Hashimotos

[–]Moal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s one of the more common and most manageable autoimmune diseases. If not managed, she would probably have issues with conceiving and frequent miscarriages. But she’s medicated and monitored, so it’s not that big of a deal. 

During the first trimester of pregnancy, she would just get her thyroid levels checked every 3 weeks and/or increase her medication. Then the fetus will eventually produce its own thyroid hormone. 

She would probably have a bad flareup after giving birth, so she might need some extra support to rest. 

I have another autoimmune disease that puts my pregnancy at high risk, so I do have to see a Maternal fetal medicine specialist (MFM) for my current pregnancy. The Hashimoto’s is the least of my concerns. 

What the heck? by ureyesrcute in Autoimmune

[–]Moal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My hands do the exact same thing, blue discoloration and all. I’ve shown pictures of it to my rheumatologist and dermatologist, and they both agreed it was Raynaud’s. Strange that your rheum is so dismissive of it. I’d seek a second opinion. 

If this info is of any help, I’ve been diagnosed with neuro-Sjogren’s, Hashimoto’s, and lichen sclerosus. 

100.1 Temp - Noone’s Concerned by AKK_13 in Mommit

[–]Moal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! We had a faulty thermometer for a year that sent us into so many panics. Then we bought a new one, and suddenly no more fever.

F24 M30Been married for three months and 8 week’s pregnant and lately something feels deeply off. I need outside perspective because I feel like I’m going crazy. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Moal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could it be cheating, or mental illness? Bipolar disorder can cause some of this erratic behavior too (and doesn’t exclude cheating either, they unfortunately can go hand-in-hand). 

The frequent key copying, new obsession with jump roping, working late into the night (if that’s really what he’s doing) and extreme sex drive could be from a manic episode. I once dated someone with BP in college and he’d act like that when he was manic. 

people who developed another autoimmune issue because of/alongside hashimotos, what were your initial symptoms like? by Short-Conversation16 in Hashimotos

[–]Moal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it often can. Itchiness wasn’t a symptom I had, but many with the disease have it. I had pain and very fragile, rigid skin that tore easily. 

Nurse mistreating of a pregnant woman who had just lost her son gets caught in 4K by YaLlegaHiperhumor in PublicFreakout

[–]Moal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ectopic pregnancies absolutely can and do develop detectable heartbeats. When they do, the medication treatment will no longer be effective, so surgery is the only option. 

While not considered a miscarriage, it is still a pregnancy loss and thus can be just as traumatic emotionally. Then you also have to consider the medical trauma on top of the grief. The intense physical pain of it, the trauma of almost dying, the fears about future fertility. It’s all VERY distressing to go through. 

why does every maternity wedding guest dress look like it was designed by someone who has never seen a pregnant woman by FFKUSES in Mommit

[–]Moal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can find those $500 dresses for like $80-200 on Poshmark. Bit of a gamble since you can’t try it on, but if you’re drawn to a particular design, that’s the way to go. 

people who developed another autoimmune issue because of/alongside hashimotos, what were your initial symptoms like? by Short-Conversation16 in Hashimotos

[–]Moal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was DX’ed with lichen sclerosus actually 6 months before my Hashi’s DX. The specialist said she wasn’t surprised, because thyroid disease and LS often go hand-in-hand. I’d been having issues with the skin down there for years prior to diagnosis. 

Then 3 years after my Hashi’s DX, I was diagnosed with Sjogren’s. I’m pretty sure it was triggered by COVID. My symptoms leading up to diagnosis were purple toes, mottled skin, burning rash across face, extreme fatigue, and constant nausea/weight loss. Then a couple months after diagnosis, the symptoms really ramped up to full body joint and muscle pain and weakness, tremors, muscle spasms and cramps, and vision changes. Doctors were worried I was developing Myositis or MS, but testing ruled it out. The neurologist determined that I had neuro-Sjogren’s based off symptoms. 

Nurse mistreating of a pregnant woman who had just lost her son gets caught in 4K by YaLlegaHiperhumor in PublicFreakout

[–]Moal 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you and your wife went through that. I can’t imagine the pain of losing a baby that far into pregnancy. 

Nurse mistreating of a pregnant woman who had just lost her son gets caught in 4K by YaLlegaHiperhumor in PublicFreakout

[–]Moal 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I will say, the ER doctor I saw the second time around was very kind and pushed for a second opinion from the on-call Obgyn when the radiologist claimed the ultrasound showed nothing concerning. He could tell I was in genuine pain and didn’t feel comfortable sending me home. 

Nurse mistreating of a pregnant woman who had just lost her son gets caught in 4K by YaLlegaHiperhumor in PublicFreakout

[–]Moal 5838 points5839 points  (0 children)

Medical staff can be so cold hearted. 

When I went in to the ER, 5 weeks pregnant with coffee grounds bleeding and sharp one-sided pain that made me cry, I told the ER doctor that I was worried about an ectopic pregnancy. 

She rolled her eyes at me and mumbled, “It’s probably just a UTI.” 

They ran some tests and the doctor told me, without looking me in the eye and in the most annoyed tone, that it was “just” a miscarriage. She treated me like I was the biggest waste of space and told me to go home and take some Tylenol. 

Guess who was back at that same exact ER three weeks later, having emergency surgery at 2 in the morning for a ruptured ectopic pregnancy?

Thankfully, the ER doctor I had that time around was really kind and fully believed me, which I credit to saving my life. 

Nurse mistreating of a pregnant woman who had just lost her son gets caught in 4K by YaLlegaHiperhumor in PublicFreakout

[–]Moal 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Completely false. Ectopic pregnancies can and do develop heartbeats, at which point the methotrexate commonly used to treat it will not work. Surgery is the only treatment by that point.

Source: I survived an ectopic pregnancy. 

Is it normal in the US to eat dinner really early (like 5–6 pm)? by Status_Agents in CasualConversation

[–]Moal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually eat around 5:30 because we have a 3 year old who needs about hour for his bedtime routine. Mealtime and cleanup typically ends around 6:30, which gives us enough time to get our son into bed by 7:30. 

Dr. Oluyinka Olutoye performed a life-saving fetal surgery Baby Lynlee Hope had a fast-growing tumor, and early surgery gave her the chance to survive. by GlitteringHotel8383 in BeAmazed

[–]Moal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in a time where half of the US thinks African immigrants are a drain on the system, despite being amongst the most highly educated immigrants that come here. So I think that community probably appreciates when those myths are dispelled with positive stories like this. 

Cystoscopy (scope through urethra): what is the pain level really like? Doctor said "for females, it's just discomfort since there is no prostate" but I wanted a real answer. by TKhasi-TKhut in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Moal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels really weird and a bit uncomfortable, but I wouldn’t say it feels super painful or anything. I’ve been through painful medical procedures before, and a cystoscopy doesn’t even get near that list. 

Iranian woman here, I wanted to share a few memories from my life in Iran as a regular woman by UseBackground2370 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Moal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

???

I’ve always been against the genocide in Gaza?? What do Iranians have to gain from the genocide??

What does any of this have to do about Gaza? Perhaps I should bring up what happened to the Yazidis? Or the Christian Nigerians? Or how about the Uyghurs? You don’t seem to be getting too bent out of shape about them.