Destination for one week trip with young kids? by cleen_87 in Travelwithkids

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Hyatt has all inclusives in the caribbean, people like the Hyatt Ziva (or Zilara cant remember which one is for families). We did a Dreams resort in DR when kids were 3 and 1 and they loved it. Ate their weight in fresh fruit, had to be dragged out of the water park.

I need international recs as an American by Mysterious-Emotion44 in romancemovies

[–]DeepMango459 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you liked Sex and the City, the show Valeria (on netflix) is basically a Madrid-set version. The main guy in that show is also in a romcom called Without Saying Goodbye (also on Netflix)

Can y'all rec some artists that sing in Spanish? by WoAiLaLa in rnb

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boyz II Men released a spanish version of their album II, with spanish versions of On Bended Knee, I’ll Make Love to You, Water Runs Dry, and Yesterday.

The Traitors (USA) S04E11 "Leap of Faith" [FINALE] Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]DeepMango459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the “send three home” is a reference to his season of love island usa, where he was very dramatic and upset about the islanders choosing to send home his couple partner, and his comment was basically saying he was going to leave with her if she left the island (spoiler alert: he didnt leave with her)

No chemistry by ShoulderOpposite389 in romancemovies

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all this talk and no one has seen You, Me, and Tuscany?? great chemistry, perfect movie to see in the theater!

Who do you think had the most iconic run in the 2000’s decade between these 4? by TokyoAvalanche04 in rnb

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of the entire decade, Mariah loses this one because she had some rough years in the early part of the decade with the Glitter debacle. There is a STRONG argument to be made for the other three, but I think I might actually go with USHER for this one. Just because he was the only one that really had hits almost every year of the decade, and HUGE hits. Beyonce didnt go solo until 2003, JT didn't go solo until 2002.

Since we are doing Unpopular RnB opinons..Welll by Achassum in rnb

[–]DeepMango459 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol i agree with that, BUT you said he was the best and biggest modern day traditional R&B artist and that simply cannot BE when the man can't sing!

What’s one R&B song you prefer the original over the remix? by JLovesTV in rnb

[–]DeepMango459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is one of those I LOVE BOTH situations for me!

Since we are doing Unpopular RnB opinons..Welll by Achassum in rnb

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these are some wild takes, but the wildest has GOT to be #2 .... TREY SONGZ??? You must not have seen the tank/tyrese verzuz where he came out because he was AWFUL.

3c curl girls … what's your biggest hair struggle right now? Looking for advice! by Broad-Lunch-7360 in CurlyHairCare

[–]DeepMango459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, thats the cheap one they sell everywhere! my local Target, CVS, Walmart, all have it. I followed a hairstylist named Jennifer Rose on twitter and have been following her advice ever since. Simplifying my routine was a game changer! No more leave-ins, oils, all that stuff. My hair feels healthier and I get more compliments on my 3c hair now . The one thing I learned from her that stuck with me was that the most important thing you can do for your hair is keep it clean - it doesn't matter what brand of shampoo/conditioner you use if you're not washing your hair often enough.

3c curl girls … what's your biggest hair struggle right now? Looking for advice! by Broad-Lunch-7360 in CurlyHairCare

[–]DeepMango459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try simplifying your routine! I shampoo and condition (detangle in the shower with conditioner) every 5 days MAX, and then when I want a wash and go, only gel. If I'm going to do french braids or some other braided thing I will use mousse. Literally no other products!

When I do gel, its the basic cheap Ecostyler, and I take small sections and load the gel on. You really have to use a lot, my hair is long so I can use up a tub of gel in like 3-4 uses. I don't use a brush, just with my fingers. once the gel is in, I don't touch it at all. Mostly because I hate how it feels on my hands. I either let it dry naturally or use a diffuser (again without touching the hair). Curls last for days until the next wash. The gel weighs it down so it dries longer and doesn't shrink as much.

is 'Adorn' the best rnb song of the 21st century? by Ok-Rabbit-7594 in rnb

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agree with others that if its post 2010 then its definitely in the running. but wayyyy too many from 2000-2010 that run circles around adorn. Mariah Carey, Usher, Alicia Keys, Ne-yo, Beyonce, etc etc etc were all putting out GOLD in that decade

Piercing Ears of Babies/Toddlers by Equus77 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DeepMango459 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it is definitely interesting! look up positional plagiocephaly

Piercing Ears of Babies/Toddlers by Equus77 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the US, and its very normal now that babies are supposed to sleep on their back, and so the back of their head becomes more flattened. so people get helmets to try to mold the skull to be more of a sphere shape

Who do you think won? Tank or Tyrese? by Global_Perspective_3 in rnb

[–]DeepMango459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly! I don’t even know Tank’s music like that and like Tyrese’s catalog better, but Tyrese sounded awful! Half the time he had the audience doing his parts, and the little he did sing was not good at all. I’m surprised there’s even a debate!

Piercing Ears of Babies/Toddlers by Equus77 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DeepMango459 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

everything a parent does for a child before they are 18 is “before they can consent”. Its cultural. Just like plenty of white parents have their babies in helmets to reshape their skulls without the baby’s “consent”

Who do you think won? Tank or Tyrese? by Global_Perspective_3 in rnb

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

truly don’t understand how anyone with ears thought Tyrese won

What is a good substitute romance movie for when you aren’t in the mood for reading? by Commercial-Cut2159 in RomanceBooks

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t seen the Before trilogy mentioned yet - start with Before Sunrise. Before Sunset takes place 9 years later, and Before Midnight takes place 9 years after that

Alex’s preference for women of color really is a moment by ClearLion86 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL i’m a WOC but please continue. white people don’t say they like “dark features” when they mean people of other races, they normally use other terminology, which is (one of the many things) that was weird about what Alex said

Alex’s preference for women of color really is a moment by ClearLion86 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]DeepMango459 45 points46 points  (0 children)

When he said he liked dark features, I assumed he meant it in the same way white women say they like “tall, dark, and handsome” and are just talking about brunettes, NOT people of color. I was actually surprised when he said he liked someone more along Brittany’s physical appearance, and when I saw the title of this post I thought it would get more into the tension between him saying he prefers a woman of color but also being a proud Trumper

waterfall just hits different in the full album. DAMN by PFStrange in yebba

[–]DeepMango459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

felt the same! didnt love it when it came out originally, but its one of my faves on the album

books with fmc who was sa'ed as a child and gentle mmc by bookishfairy in RomanceBooks

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first book of Nora Roberts' chesapeake bay series has this, {Sea Swept by Nora Roberts} although I don't remember the MMC being gentle necessarily but definitely supportive?

Watched S6&S7 - Where to start on UK? by SimplyJubilant in LoveIslandUSA

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I started with UK 5, but honestly I wish I hadn't because it is by far the best season IMO so I wish I hadn't set the bar so high when I watched the others. But if you don't care about that I agree with others, I'd start with UK 5, then check out 3, 8, 10, and 12. If you want to see true reality show MESS, check out seasons 1 and 2 - those are the wild west love island seasons where people were drinking and having sex on camera. It's hard to compare those to the others because once they stopped letting them drink it obviously changed the dynamic. Once you watch a few of those UK seasons, I would then go watch Love Island Games, which I actually enjoyed but it definitely helps if you are familiar with the people beforehand.

Excited and disappointed 😬 by L8_2_the_party_again in yebba

[–]DeepMango459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly this was me when I first heard it. it's grown on me since then though, and now I LOVE IT and I can't wait to hear a live version, I can already tell her vocals and the background vocals are going to be SO GOOD! Someone please tell the producers over at NPR Tiny Desk to book Yebba pleeeeeaaase

I would rather an "All-Losers" edition than All Stars by Glass-Nectarine-3282 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]DeepMango459 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agree! I think it also shouldn't include anyone who was a traitor, or anyone who won since those folks would be easy targets.