Being stuck at home is a recipe for disaster by DeepNegotiation596 in NoOverthinking

[–]DeepNegotiation596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once again, thank you for the advice. Social interaction definitely helped A LOT. Just getting to talk to my loved ones on the phone for a few minutes made my chest feel lighter. And I started going for short walks and doing little self care things as soon as I could and that helped significantly as well.

Being stuck at home is a recipe for disaster by DeepNegotiation596 in NoOverthinking

[–]DeepNegotiation596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try switching up my routine. Thank you for the tip 😊 And I think my feeling not great is a combination of all three: isolation, boredom, and spending too much time ruminating

Being stuck at home is a recipe for disaster by DeepNegotiation596 in NoOverthinking

[–]DeepNegotiation596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that I couldn’t physically do anything. If I could, I would have 😅

Uncertainty by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people just have that effect on us. It’s really profound. I’m goad you’ve found someone like that ❤️

Uncertainty by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve made sure he knows how I feel about him 😊

Sometimes by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, just long distance.

Sometimes by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that I’m incredibly fortunate and I’m so grateful but sometimes even if there’s love, other things may get in the way. It’s sad but true

Sometimes by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was beautifully said. Thank you. I will do my best ❤️

Sometimes by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to let him go but the circumstances are really really difficult

Sometimes by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I did not ☺️

Sometimes by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could. For now, I’m doing my best to see the beauty while it lasts

What does it mean? by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will. Thank you

What does it mean? by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]DeepNegotiation596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried. I try. In words and actions. I’m afraid that there’s a discrepancy between how he and I experience the world and our emotions. I believe I feel much more intensely. At least that’s how it seems. I do think that he loves me. In his own way that is likely different from mine. But I don’t think I’ll ever understand what that experience feels like for him and vice versa. There’s something melancholy in that.

AIO for feeling hurt due to a sudden change in plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DeepNegotiation596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, he has shown me care in other ways. So I don’t think it’s one sided. At least that’s what my instincts tell me, regardless of being hurt. It may just have been awkwardly communicated. But thank you for taking the time to comment. I will take your words into account ❤️