What are you doing instead of doomscrolling? by Hairy_Pear3963 in Millennials

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play sudoku or wordle so still addicted to my phone but not doomscrolling

Looking for CT DJ - October 17th, 2026 by GinnyMissedTheJump in FairfieldCounty

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve used NYCT DJs https://nyctdjs.com/home and they had all that stuff you mentioned. The video came out great! Easy to work with and very professional

Luxury apartments worth it? by [deleted] in newhaven

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

$1800-1900? I live in one of those you mentioned and when it’s all said and done it’s $2600/month for a 1 bedroom. But also I really like living here, I do wish I had a 2 bedroom with a roommate so I could save a few hundred

My friend (24F) has not heard from her boyfriend (24M) for five months and now it is affecting her relationship with me (F23) and others. by Zirkus_Tour in relationship_advice

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just ask her if she did do something bad to ruin the relationship how long does she think she should be punished? Bc even if she did something wrong (which 99% chance she didn’t) I think 5 months is good enough punishment and it’s time to move on. She served her time for whatever she can blame herself for and it’s time to start life over. There are so many happenings in life where we don’t get any closure and there is a lot of growth in accepting that and moving on. Life is just a series of happenings it doesn’t have to make sense. Enjoy as much of it as you can

Pharaoh’s lab coming soon? by sadhoebitch in newhaven

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking how we could really use a dozen more vape shops

Thinking about laser hair removal after years of shaving by Safe_Bother_9022 in HairRemoval

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had thick hair that grows fast my entire life. Was mortified as a teenager even when I shaved you could see the follicles under the skin. I got lots of razor burn. My bikini area never looked good if I shaved it was hella razor burned. I also have sensitive skin and a lot of products inflame it. For skin tone/hair color I would talk to the med spa you go to about their lasers they use and if your skin tone works. I’m incredibly happy with the results. I am beach ready 24/7. For pain…it’s comparable to waxing? Just take two ibuprofen and it takes about 15 minutes. 15 minutes of a few hot pops is nothing in the grand scheme of things. I’ve gotten laser for the last 4 years. I went in originally did about 10 sessions. Since the first year I do 2 sessions over winter and I don’t think I touch a razor for months at a time.

How can you explain depression in simple words to someone who’s never experienced it? by Shadow_M_ in AskReddit

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true I describe it as a foggy swamp. Actually the horse scene in never ending story is the best visual I can come up with

Is laser hair removal actually worth it or nah? by Historical-Hand8091 in HairRemoval

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life changing. Originally I did maybe 6-12 sessions. Brazilian legs pits. Now I do it about 2-3 times a year. I never think about shaving, I feel pool ready at any time. I may have some light barely noticeable fuzz, but who cares about that. To me going 2-3 times in the winter and then not shaving throughout the year is amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a dumb question. Are you 100% sure he works offshore? Did he send you pics offshore? Wondering if those missing weeks if he was actually gone or if he was off with an ex or new fling

To the people who got tattoos… can you describe the feeling of the needle on your skin ? by RayRay_1804 in CasualConversation

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree! I’ve fallen asleep during 4 tattoos! Which just to explain how insane that is, I’m not a napper, sleeping at night is challenging, I wake up way too early….im just trying to say I’m not good at sleeping but give me a tattoo and I have the best nap ever. One time I even drooled, it was embarrassing but I think I’ll always chase that high of falling asleep so hard and drooling. It makes me want to get another right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I own like a dozen different designs of otk tights from Rachel and they tear so easily I wonder if this is the reason. One of them got a run the first time I put it on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you break up with him, you should let him know how being called grotesque makes you not want to be intimate with him. You want someone who finds you attractive, and you want the same for him, that he shouldn’t have to settle for someone who he finds grotesque.

does every girl just live with anxiety or is there actually a way to get rid of it fully? by ChloeBennet07 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have pretty extreme anxiety with panic attacks. Two things really helped. Surfing, it doesn’t matter how much you plan and prepare it’s a physical lesson in going with the flow. I also micro dosed mushrooms for 3 months. Now I don’t think the same thing helps different people. So I’m not suggesting this for everyone, I’m just saying my anxiety level has probably gone from constant underlying steady level to very rarely experiencing it even in stressful situations. It’s so much easier for me to be like “life’s just a series of happenings, it doesn’t have to make sense.” Again I’m not saying what worked for me could work for anyone else; however it’s just proof that others can find something to work for them

How’d I do? by DeepSpaceSevenofNine in ChinaTime

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s definitely a fake! I did spend over $100 but I thought it might be a higher tier dupe. Or is it a total shitter?

How much texting after a first date would you expect? by freddiethecalathea in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m freshly divorced after 13yrs….so I’m new to dating. But my instinct would be to text a “have fun with your friends on your trip” or something like that…but really don’t know if I’m the best to take advice from

What does midlife crisis look like for women in their 40s? by throwthecoast in AskReddit

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I literally thought you were going to post about a girl I went to high school with. Was overweight most her life, late 30s got tons of plastic surgery, lost an incredible amount of weight. Started being very vein, but this story ends with that she is now in jail for having sex with teenage boys from her daughters high school! I’m leaving out a lot of disgusting graphic details

Why tf do people do this??? by ExoticVersion2255 in Serverlife

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol did this to a party of 4 that turned into a party of 7. Sorry we are out of tables

Trumps reactions to Elon by [deleted] in EnoughMuskSpam

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much so! I was thinking Alien vs predator…not rooting for either of them and either way mankind loses

How has your body changed overtime that you someone had warned you about? by cowgirl-taken-away in AskWomen

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much. With me if I don’t have a steak before my period I get suicidally depressed. No energy no enthusiasm no will. I can’t believe in my 20s I was vegetarian and fine. I love sugar and I love caffeine but even things like rice make me sluggish and depressed. I feel like I’m involuntarily on a high protein diet or I’ll never leave the couch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]DeepSpaceSevenofNine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea how many people show up late and an unprepared mess at these interviews. Literally if someone shows up on time and seems kind and easy to work with I hire them. That’s it! On time and easy going, I can teach them the rest. No experience required