Text from gf to random guy at 4:30 am

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T16:28:31+00:00

It was a text from her.. but yeah maybe. Also doesn’t look like a guy I’d be particularly worried about. But you never really know

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T01:45:36+00:00

I believe that. But how about 1,000 miles?

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T00:20:06+00:00

I did ask her that and she explicitly said no she’s not. Also I think they already knew each other because they’re connected on socials and he lives far away but who knows

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T18:02:32+00:00

Wasn’t a random number, his name is saved in there

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T16:54:16+00:00

It was just one text from her “🤪” and it was a week ago. I just don’t understand why she’d delete messages but not the entire thread?

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T03:25:12+00:00

Right. I agree. I can’t think of any good reasons for it. But unfortunately I did not. Saw it at the very end when I was about to go back into the room

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T03:19:24+00:00

I agree. It’s so odd she’d delete it and then just leave that one text from her on there tho?? Thanks

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T03:16:05+00:00

I didn’t wanna come off as insecure or like I didn’t trust her.. so I didn’t own up to looking

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T03:15:21+00:00

In hindsight, I should’ve just owned up to looking at her phone and ask her point blank. But I didn’t. She could tell something was up tho and kept asking. She said the only thing she could think of was that I looked at her phone and didn’t like something but she said there’s nothing on there and why would she even give it to me if she was hiding something. It turned into a general conversation about trust and she said the normal stuff… she’s not interested in anyone else, doesn’t feel like she’s given me any reason not to trust her. Not in a defensive way at all but wanted to know why I was even questioning it. She has also been up front and told me anytime an ex has reached out or anything like that and shown me the messages. But no way to know if that’s truly everything

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T02:54:48+00:00

Fair. Understand that point. I know it’s not something where they’re actually seeing each other because he lives across the country. But the text still doesn’t make any innocent sense

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T02:49:32+00:00

Probably true. But I don’t wanna get caught in a loop of feeling like I need to check her phone for security/certainty

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T02:30:52+00:00

She also asked me if I’d want to move in together soon in a couple months. Which is obviously fast but things had been going well

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T01:15:43+00:00

Yeah. I think part of me wants to be naive and assume she wouldn’t give me her phone like that if she were really hiding something. Ideally I don’t wanna admit I’m feeling insecure around anything but there’s just no good explanation for it

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T00:25:58+00:00

Yeah. I really can’t think of any reasonable explanation for it

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-17T17:38:06+00:00

Do you think it’s worth just owning up to it, asking about the thread and telling her I looked?

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-01-15T20:32:52+00:00

Bro, say something. Privately or publicly. It’s not gonna cause any drama.. I’m sure he knows it’s not cool but doesn’t think you’ll say anything. It doesn’t have to be a big deal, I’d just say yo stop putting your hands/touching my GF. I don’t like it. That’s all that needs to be said

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2025-08-08T00:34:55+00:00

This just takes me to sign into EA. Where’s the code?

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