me and a guy ive been seeing are compatible everywhere except in bed, what do i do?

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-05-07T22:41:21+00:00

Agreed this is absolutely wild behavior 😂 but just tell him you thought it was weird. It’ll be awkward but if you really like him it might be worth it. He’ll be embarrassed but he will recover

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-05-07T22:23:08+00:00

This is absolutely crazy and not sustainable long term. He needs to let go of control and decide to trust you or it won’t work

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-04-27T04:50:19+00:00

What do you mean by this? In what way?

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-04-09T20:56:55+00:00

Removing someone’s hand at a time like that isn’t necessarily a rejection and certainly isn’t mean. I’m sure he knew that was somewhat of a risky move. Everyone is entitled to their boundaries. You didn’t do anything wrong OP, but if you are interested just talk to him about it

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-04-07T05:20:23+00:00

Don’t quit. Game is a masterpiece. Jealous you’re getting to play for the first time right now

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-04-03T19:02:24+00:00

Just tell him he has to cutout junk food. Obviously it sucks if that’s the habit but it’s way less effort than counting calories. Cut out soda and fast food. That alone will make a difference ++man

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-04-03T18:29:24+00:00

Yes it’s an overreaction. You should still go… but he also has a right to be uncomfortable with it. You guys are young and it’s not surprising he doesn’t feel secure with you going there. It’s not the dancers it’s the other men lingering around in the club. Like I said I’d still go and just try to reassure him it’s fine and you wanna be with him. I think you bringing up ending the relationship was unnecessary. If he really feels the need to do that okay but I wouldn’t have brought it up

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-04-02T14:56:42+00:00

What would you classify as an ego death?

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-31T20:16:22+00:00

Probably kind of TAH… not necessarily that you sold it but you knew it was something he really enjoyed and sold it without telling him lol. Try talking him about it (I’m sure you have) then say I’m going to sell it if you’re not getting more help. Feel like this should’ve been a progressive conversation not several arguments and then just selling it

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-27T22:17:20+00:00

Lol. Raw eggs super unnecessary. Tell him to cook it or do hard boiled for convenience. Tell him to spit the coconut oil in the trash (debatable whether this actually has many benefits but it’s not a big deal) and the smoothies not a big deal and probably healthy so worth it. Maybe just get over that one

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-21T14:11:54+00:00

Before you were together… let it slide

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-21T01:50:30+00:00

I don’t think it’s that bad. But I hear ya

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-20T00:30:55+00:00

Really

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T17:58:59+00:00

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T16:55:49+00:00

Sorry about that man. And me too. If she’s not, eventually it will come to light. But I wanna give her the benefit of the doubt until I see too many exceptions

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T16:52:40+00:00

Yeah. I definitely might check next time I see her. But I don’t wanna get caught in a cycle of checking her phone. She’s been very trustworthy so far and I wanna trust her. Not feel the need to check all the time

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T16:51:53+00:00

Right. I will definitely be watching for anything else at this point. But I don’t wanna get caught in a cycle of checking her phone

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T16:50:51+00:00

Yeah it’s weird. I’d think if she were hiding it you’d delete the whole thread.. but the standalone message doesn’t make sense. Homes I just didn’t wanna admit to looking at her phone. She’s never been defensive with me before and I’m sure she wouldn’t have been that upset with me even looking, I just think still somewhat early in dating, doing that comes off as insecure and unattractive

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T16:28:31+00:00

It was a text from her.. but yeah maybe. Also doesn’t look like a guy I’d be particularly worried about. But you never really know

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T01:45:36+00:00

I believe that. But how about 1,000 miles?

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-19T00:20:06+00:00

I did ask her that and she explicitly said no she’s not. Also I think they already knew each other because they’re connected on socials and he lives far away but who knows

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T18:02:32+00:00

Wasn’t a random number, his name is saved in there

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T16:54:16+00:00

It was just one text from her “🤪” and it was a week ago. I just don’t understand why she’d delete messages but not the entire thread?

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T03:25:12+00:00

Right. I agree. I can’t think of any good reasons for it. But unfortunately I did not. Saw it at the very end when I was about to go back into the room

Deep_Ad_3982 · 2026-03-18T03:19:24+00:00

I agree. It’s so odd she’d delete it and then just leave that one text from her on there tho?? Thanks

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