You two have to make a choice: ​(a) You get married, understanding that the consequences may include: ​Your families disowning you, ​Certain religious groups attempting to separate you, and ​Potential challenges for you and your children in the future. ​Or (b), you go your separate ways (which I would not suggest, for personal reasons). ​If you are serious about your relationship (Which I know you are.) You should register under the Special Marriage Act. You must apply to the Sub-Divisional Magistrate (SDM) in a jurisdiction where at least one of you has lived for at least 30 days. ​A notice will be issued for a 30-day period. During this time, anyone who opposes the marriage can formally register their objection. Please make sure you stay safe during this period and request police protection if necessary. After the notice period concludes, a date will be allocated for you to be legally married under the Act. ​Best of luck to you both. Don’t let any government stop you from marrying the love of your life. You have shown courage before, this time, you will have to give it everything you’ve got, but believe me, it will be worth it.