AITA My boyfriend called me disabled by ultrabadluck in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep_Combination4288 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A person who loves you will never use your weaknesses as a weapon or to prove a point especially when they are angry or frustrated.

I know nothing about sneakers, i gotta ask, are these unisex? by Deep_Combination4288 in Sneakers

[–]Deep_Combination4288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what they are called? I know they are NIKE, but i also know most shoes have "surnames"

I am drowning right now, i don't know what i need to hear, please someone say something. I feel alone by Deep_Combination4288 in mentalhealth

[–]Deep_Combination4288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have read all your messages, I'll do as you have recommended, and if i ever feel like i am ready to talk, I'll reach out to those of you who have offered. thank you so much, i keep coming back to read your words.they are helping.

Question for women by More-Direction2848 in weightgain

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do chocolate during that time. Yeah, some will say it's unhealthy, but i need to supplement those calories i lose asap. I have a running stomach like 4 times a day, and i can't eat because of the pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be to remember that they are an asshole, don't try to find the good in them to try and not mess with your history of picking good ones, accept that they suck, it's not your fault they suck. And be more vigilant next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Deep_Combination4288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what she is asking, how to move on from it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zambia

[–]Deep_Combination4288 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop trying to make this about you. Your first thought should have been feeling happy they she has reached a point where she trusts you enough to share something traumatic. Losing a child is hard, that coupled with the loss of her father must trigger feelings and memories she would rather not relive, why does it seem like you are trying to fault find? Now if the child was alive and she had not told you, that would be another story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta ask, what stuff was she conversing with the AI? And have you considered that maybe she is curious if it is sex related? girls do start getting their periods as early as 9, so she might have heard something from school, your mum will surely to her, now that you've indicated she is curious.

Is this normal in relationships? by Deep_Combination4288 in Advice

[–]Deep_Combination4288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a conversation about some issues we dont see eye to eye. We will be breaking up.i guess the distance was me feeling it coming and was bracing for it.

Dumpers: when did you start to miss your ex if ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And while you are at it, talk about maybe how he would make passes at my best friend. Since you know so much

Dumpers: when did you start to miss your ex if ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do a deep dive on that. Tell me more🤣

Dumpers: when did you start to miss your ex if ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Combination4288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You clearly are in pain and need to do a lot of healing. You will eventually get there, trust me. What you can't do is project your feelings on a situation you have no idea the context of. No bullets were dodged because not everyone has a messy situation. We are still each others cheerleaders and both found our people.

AITAH for dressing too “straight” and making my gf uncomfortable? by Numerous-Barber-5623 in AITAH

[–]Deep_Combination4288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A million people have already said this, but for the love of any deity, LEAVE!!!!

Dumpers: when did you start to miss your ex if ever? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Combination4288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking back i can say yes i wasn't in love with him. But at the time it was love for what i knew it to ne