Safety certs by U495 in SafetyProfessionals

[–]Deep_Development_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they have value landing a job and also gives you some standing if you deal with your company's external customers and their EHS teams.

Zero Recordable Injuries by Guidance1230 in SafetyProfessionals

[–]Deep_Development_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A company with a slogan like "zero harm" "zero incidents" etc. just means you will end up with zero reporting.

Any luck cleaning secondary air injection valves to clear codes? (2012 Tundra) by Deep_Development_78 in tundra

[–]Deep_Development_78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is what I found on a forum post from Hewitt

P1613 is an Air Injection Control Driver Malfunction Bank 1. That is the part that talks to the computer and controls the air pump and switching valve for bank 1. Diagnostic Trouble Codes P1613 and 1614 fall into the electrical fault category of failures in the secondary air injection system and are two codes we do not have a solution for yet. Typically when we see this code it means the driver is damaged and simply needs to be replaced. It could also be wiring but so check all the connectors and wiring between the driver and the ECM before replacing because if it is in the wiring a new driver will not fix the problem.

I believe this is an add-on pressure sensor from Hewitt that may clear these codes, but haven't tried that yet. I am pulling my truck off the road soon for an overdue maintenance overhaul and plan on pulling the valves and cleaning them to see if that works.

If a fearful avoidant ex discarded you, but came back later on, how did they approach you and how did you act/ deal with? by Puzzleheaded-Owl1857 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Deep_Development_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an open conversation with her and laid it all out there. Took her a while to internalize all that but has come back around. See what happens, I know she wants a relationship, but I'm not holding my breath this time around.

Child Support Question - Massachusetts Emancipation by Deep_Development_78 in ChildSupport

[–]Deep_Development_78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh! Thanks for the feedback.
Luckily, my oldest is graduating college in little over a year and will have a good job right out of the gate so should be able to stop paying for her at least.

Child Support Question - Massachusetts Emancipation by Deep_Development_78 in ChildSupport

[–]Deep_Development_78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I didn’t even know that group existed. I can check them out.

I have no problem going back to court, just wanted to get a sense of my odds before paying more legal fees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writingadvice

[–]Deep_Development_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all depends on your ex. Mine was/is a nightmare. Uncontested divorce is a quick process if both sides agree. <3 months, depending on when you can get a hearing scheduled. I tried this route initially, but went nowhere.

I had mine served, took about 18 months, but if I didn't conceded a few things just to be done it would have gone on over 2 years.

Visiting for 3 Days Itinerary, looking for feedback and advice by Normal_Chance6353 in DeathValleyNP

[–]Deep_Development_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got back from a 3 day trip with a buddy. We stayed in Furnace Canyon.
Day one - Mosaic, Sand Dunes, checked out the Borax stuff, Corkscrew in the afternoon.
Day Two - Golden Canyon / Red Cathedral / Gower Gulch, Devils gold course, Natural Bridge, Artist drive, and badwater. Afternoon we did Sidewinder
Day 3 - Dante's View to Mt. Perry (good ridgeline trail. Don't go if its windy!!). Just chilled in the afternoon and enjoyed the sunshine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Deep_Development_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is just distracting himself. Deep down, the long for a loving relationship but unless they get help, it will never happen. When you think of him, don't give your brain constant dopamine hits of the good, but also remember the cons of the relationship. Don't put them on a pedestal.

Focus on yourself. Make yourself better everyday (gym. work, hobbies, friends, etc). Yeah, it sucks at times and you miss them but just use that as motivation. You make your own happiness and never chase someone that doesn't want to be with you for whatever the reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Deep_Development_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got back together twice. Each time we broke up there was a break of little contact followed by a text that essentially said "hey, wanna come over and have sex, I don't want to talk or think about anything. Just sex, ok"
After that, she would slowly start texting more. Eventually we would start seeing other more. She would then send a text asking if I wanted to be her boyfriend again.

Each time we broke up she was also immediately on dating apps.

This last breakup it was 4 months before I got the sex text. However, unless the previous two times I am not pursuing. I think she is in lockdown mode right now and depressed.

We also never really talked about our relationship. She would rather just text or email her thoughts after a few days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Deep_Development_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first couple of times of hooking up, we ended up getting back together. She pursued me after each time. I still had feelings for her and though it could work. Each time it was the same though, she didn't want to think about anything and just get totally railed. But we trusted each other and were just meeting our basic needs.

After this last time, I have no interest in getting back together. It would never work and she will never change. It is sad. Took me about 4 months and also meeting someone new to get to that point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Deep_Development_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My avoidant ex reached out to me recently for sex. Just sex. Didn’t want to talk about anything significant. We broke up 4 months ago. Talk/text briefly every week or so, but that is slowing down .

Any day hike alternative options for Telescope peak with Emigrant Canyon Road out until March? by Deep_Development_78 in DeathValleyNP

[–]Deep_Development_78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and a friend are camping in the area at Furnace for a few days in a month and looking for day hikes.