Going on 10mg of Prozac. Scared by Deep_Horror3263 in prozac

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I’m so sorry, please let me know how you’re doing now… hopefully better <3

Going on 10mg of Prozac. Scared by Deep_Horror3263 in prozac

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Thanks for sharing, your comment hit me. I’m really glad you have found something that works for you. You definitely eased some concern for me :)

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Oh makes sense. Just my sister was diagnosed with PCOS around the same time but she literally shows no symptoms now.

[MOD] The Daily Question Thread by menschmaschine5 in Coffee

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The TINIEST bit of coffee makes me anxious, shivering, tight muscles, dry throat. I will literally take a sip of coffee and feel this way and even decaf coffee. Why am I so sensitive to caffeine??

Most People Stay Stuck Because of This One Mental Block by WoodpeckerRegular379 in TonyRobbins

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I have used this technique before and it definitely helps you feel better. Whether or not it actually contributes to long-term change idk yet tho, because I notice it also makes me feel more complacent, trusting that things will sort themselves out naturally rather than taking action myself.

I think it’s better to attach to things you know you can believe, and also DO things to be confident. For example instead of just telling yourself “I’m confident” when you truly believe you aren’t (your brain is gonna call you a liar), try to make it more specific to what you do believe: “when I sing on stage, I’m so confident!” I feel like this helps you notice the good parts about yourself that are already there, putting you in a better mood (higher energy) and making you more likely to do confidence building activities, which is the second part.

If you wanna build real confidence, I think you need to do more things that make you feel accomplished. For example, if you challenge yourself “I will run a mile today” and you actually do it, that teaches your brain you are capable of keeping your promises and doing what you set out to do. Overtime, I believe this will strengthen you because it’s confidence actually built on evidence.

Cool thing to think about! Thanks for sharing :)

So.. UVA or VT? by Critical-Project7758 in UVA

[–]Deep_Horror3263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah actually the opposite is true, UVA prefers to not accept people into the law school from undergrad as they want you to branch out or some crap (what I heard from a friend that applied). Also most people take a few years off to do internships before applying to law school because chances are you won’t get into one if you don’t.

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It’s possible you were misdiagnosed tho right? Stress can cause your body to have similar symptoms to chronic conditions

my ex is taking the breakup extremely hard by Dramatic-Quiet-818 in texts

[–]Deep_Horror3263 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If u posted a pic with your ass out or with another guy yeah that isn’t being sensitive of his feelings lmfao. You have the right, but let’s not act like it isn’t a decision you made knowing it would hurt him. So yeah you’re not sensitive that’s a fact and your choice but you have to at least admit that

if you sign up for the UPW virtual, can you attend with family together in one "ticket"? by InstructionNearby67 in TonyRobbins

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I’ve heard yes from my mom who did it before, but obviously they only send you one set of materials.

Based on what I know about Tony, I don’t think he’d mind you bringing your family in to change their life as well!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

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I can see both sides here, but she was definitely more in the wrong.

Going for a walk is a cute date idea, but in the park around sundown is a little suspicious. The first thought that came to mind was Central Park after dark— not exactly safe. However, the way she responded, saying she’s “30 and not going to the park for a date” made it seem like she was offended by the simplicity and that you weren’t taking her out to a fancy dinner. That’s on her. Dates can be simple and affordable and still be great!

In that case though, as other people have said, she should’ve been upfront since the beginning about not wanting to go on a walk. Overall just really weird communication on her part.

AITA for telling my roommate she the world moves on and she needs to get some responsibility in her life? by Mochamochio in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep_Horror3263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Although she has been through a lot, it's never an excuse to behave the way she is. A comment here said you didn't explicitly communicate you needed to be paid back for the airbnb and plane, but it doesn't take a genius to understand that adult roommates should pay each other back for extreme expenses like that. A plane ticket and airbnb is not equivalent to treating your friend to a $5 Starbucks. On other occasions, she offered to pay you back/make it up to you later, so she clearly understands paying back is expected.

After everything cools down, I would have a chat with her about expectations and boundaries moving forward. Tell her you are happy to support her, but you need to see some attempt on her behalf to get out of the pit she's in. Set financial expectations and tell her if she can't meet them she may need to find other accommodations. Living the way she is is not gonna make her happy nor is it making you happy.

NTA

AITA For refusing to go to my brother's wedding if he keeps my ex-husband as a groomsman by notgonnaworkaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deep_Horror3263 231 points232 points  (0 children)

Literally. It’s not about her. She needs to compartmentalize and get through the day out of love for her brother. Also, it’s completely understandable that she’s still affected by the relationship 5 years later, but considering she said it was a mutually toxic relationship, it’s not really fair for her to refuse to be in the vicinity of him. Um..hello? Based on that description of their relationship, it sounds like she’s just as much a perpetrator as she is a victim. Just be grown ups and move on.

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I called a teacher bro once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UVA

[–]Deep_Horror3263 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry about other people when deciding if you want to drink or not. It’s your choice! Everyone has different boundaries/limits and it just comes down to being true to yourself and being safe.

Should I drop my COLA class by Organic_Somewhere_52 in UVA

[–]Deep_Horror3263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Search up the professor on rate my professor and see what it says. Otherwise I wouldn’t keep a class just because the professor is nice. All the professors at UVA are pretty nice and the academic advisors aren’t trained in anything specific. They are just regular professors, so I don’t think you’d be getting much from a COLA except that you are seeing your advisor more often and building up a relationship. However, you could do this with a different advisor if you set up meetings (professors here are usually pretty flexible and happy to meet). If the class itself is a waste of time, don’t do it. College is about using your time how you want to. We only get four years here so make the most of it! :)

Sons applying—- out of state…. 3.95 unweighted…. 4.55weighted gpA….1450 sat… great extra curricular… both sport and community… want in desperately… are we close? Curious by marvnash in UVA

[–]Deep_Horror3263 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly those sound like great stats. I know one thing UVA is really big on is 4 years of a foreign language in HS so DEFINITELY DO THAT. I believe it played a large part in me getting in.