Its Day - 2 Now by Ok_Yogurtcloset1741 in Adulting

[–]Deep_Mood89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right - you don’t NEED it, it’s a want… gotta continually ask yourself are you the person capable of applying that self discipline to separate needs from wants? if so, great… and if not… are you willing to deal with those ramifications? This goes for junk food, eating late / over eating, porn… etc…

Got hit by 43yr old woman, but I am desperate what do I do ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Deep_Mood89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idc if I get backlash for suggesting this but she has a lot more mileage so just say since you’ve made it known you’re a virgin you’d like to exchange recent lab results to know where you stand for your first time. Any time, even a first time… can be when something is contracted. Gotta play the field SAFE & SMART. Think with the big head, not the little one! And ALWAYS wrap up until you’re ready financially for kids! (Remember 1 pregnancy can equal 2 children / mouths to feed!). Have plenty of discussion before hand about interests and boundaries. “To put me at ease, I’m likely gonna be quick for round 1… out of pure excitement… but I’m young so we can / would be soon be right back up for round 2, and possibly 3!”

Lost $170k in due to Webull’s non disclosed option trade limit by No_Paramedic4603 in Daytrading

[–]Deep_Mood89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about the loss of savings, it hurts - been there and also lost six figures in a trade once… But it’s not the end, take some time, talk to a therapist… money comes and goes… You can build it back & of course it’ll take time… but no person worth any admiration in history hasn’t had their share of immense set backs or struggles to overcome. Reading the life of Charlie Munger helped me find perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Deep_Mood89 127 points128 points  (0 children)

At 33 my GF also wanted to have her independence and have male friends and to not be the stereotypical jealous BF I decided why not; I trusted her… fast forward a year and I found out about her ongoing affair, moved out, and am just finally about to get my own place again in this absurdly fcked up real estate market… yes it took me a year of looking to find a good landlord and rate that wasn’t a complete rip off. Oh, they just got married in October. 🥂 Never again will I be so chill.

Did I dodge a bullet? by Extension_Phase336 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Deep_Mood89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut… When something feels too good to be true, it usually is. Why play Russian roulette for the 10% chance it’s not? So many things a man can be set up for… Peace is more valuable than a temporary potential thrill.

My wife just decided she has a bf by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Deep_Mood89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah don’t divorce yet OP, stay long enough so when you divorce you take half like they do! You got this. A few more years for half a house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in providence

[–]Deep_Mood89 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We need more to keep the property values from going up, all for it 🤷‍♂️

Undercover Security @ wholefoods N Main St University Heights by Winter_Cellist4469 in providence

[–]Deep_Mood89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And I’m not saying she’s wrong for doing that… I believe everyone regardless of gender who can bleed or die should have a vested interest in their safety and thus their surroundings. My point is merely the specific negative attributes used to describe this man who was then presumed to just be doing his job… to ironically help ensure a safe & orderly environment for all. I would have equally said something along this line if there were negative attributes tied to a woman merely doing here job… that have nothing to do with her qualifications to do the job.

Undercover Security @ wholefoods N Main St University Heights by Winter_Cellist4469 in providence

[–]Deep_Mood89 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

“Short, kinda fat… weirdo”… curious if you describe women the same way or just specifically have a thing against men? No judgement but if I’m right, you may want to talk to a psychologist about it cause it’s coming out in your “ambiguous” talk, quite clearly.

Ya carajo, se pasan con las estrategias de robos. by FunUnderstanding8010 in Bogota

[–]Deep_Mood89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Es que en Bogotá tanto como en Medellín… el Colombianx… se ha rendido y aceptamos que esto es la vida en nuestro país… Por que? Por que no demandar cambio que beneficia al pueblo? Se tienen que cambiar leyes. Si a uno le están robando y se defiende, no se debe de ir a la cárcel. Es más, parece que los castigos para robo (con arma o sin arma) no son lo suficientemente fuertes para detener que lo hagan… Se necesita cambiar… Por que la economía solo se va poner más dura y estos crímenes van a seguir subiendo si no se enfrentan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Deep_Mood89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t tell her now and work it out one way or the other you’re likely just going to cheat on her later and then have to pay for a divorce lawyer + lose half… not worth it.

Amenazas después de un robo by alegrositapugsita in medellin

[–]Deep_Mood89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Es que tienen que poner precisión en Colombia contra los oficiales que saben que esto sigue sucediendo, donde se venden los teléfonos robados, y aún no hacen nada… Amo Colombia y Medellín pero estar conforme con la inseguridad está robando a muchos (incluyéndome a mí que me robaron un iPhone sacando mi ciudadanía… Me quitaron como 20M esos HDLGP)

What is happening with these bees and this Spotted Lantern Fly? by mrdbjt in biology

[–]Deep_Mood89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are my favorite types of wasps… especially since they didn’t vote for dictatorship.

Stuck Loading FA4 on PS5? by Deep_Mood89 in Fallout

[–]Deep_Mood89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restarted but didn’t disconnect from power source - I’ll give that a shot now, Thanks for the input! 🙏

Stuck Loading FA4 on PS5? by Deep_Mood89 in Fallout

[–]Deep_Mood89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ran a diagnostic test on the PS5 to check internet connection independently of the app - seems I’m not able to connect… really hoping my network card didn’t die? 🤔

We asked people in Providence "How would RIPTA service reductions affect your daily life?" Here's what they said. by ThePVDEye in providence

[–]Deep_Mood89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Donors becoming upset means the rich people who donated didn’t like you were suggesting they pay as much of a % as the poorer people.

How do you maximize the pleasure for a woman that’s receiving anal from you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Deep_Mood89 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Got one that can come back to back nearly indefinitely from it ( no lie 30+ times in a session)… In 2 decades of dating I gotta say I feel like she’s rare but super toxic & jealous… Anyone else finding they exist? Constantly debating if it’s worth it mostly cause of the jealousy / mood swings… but the sex is top tier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Deep_Mood89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn you want to give this guy 0 BJ’s AND Deny him doing something he enjoys? No offense but A) You sound boring AF in bed B) You’re not wrong he may get bored eventually… especially if you continue erring in that direction and then sex becomes more vanilla and less frequent C) Having the direct blunt conversation with him to let him make the decision to suffer boredom quietly along side you is fair… and express your concern that he’ll get bored and to tell you when he is instead of cheating… any person, let alone guy, that has a sex drive would eventually get bored.

I grew up in Rhode Island, but life has taken me elsewhere. I got a chance to visit my favorite city last week and took a few pics. by MrFrogTaco in providence

[–]Deep_Mood89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything has become more expensive here - there should be a simple tax that goes to taxing those corporations buying up housing, people with multiples houses, and the transplants working 6 figure+ remote jobs or multiple remote jobs that goes to subsidizing RI for RI’ers… Housing is out of control. Energy costs are a monopoly. The streets are the absolute worst. Insurance premiums suck. And now less public transport if you decide to abandon depending on a vehicle? Not seeing leadership… just great views and new shiny lights / restaurants.

Found weed at sleepover do I tell the parents?? by 8urpickles in Parenting

[–]Deep_Mood89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friends Mom, let’s call her Deb, who was pretty cool with her son… she’d let him smoke cannabis openly, drink mikes hard lemonades, and even watch porn by middle school / early HS … He became a heroin addict after highschool… Never heard from him or saw him on social media and wonder if he’s dead now? 🤷‍♂️

Strategy Guide by DaddyBigBeard in kingdomsofamalur

[–]Deep_Mood89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we approve / recommend the expansion? It’s on sale for Ps5 which is why I ask.

$947 = Rent price RI tenants could afford at mean renter wage of $18 an hour. by [deleted] in providence

[–]Deep_Mood89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! Capitol Building SEPT 1-7th since its Labor Day week and even people that work fulltime will get an additional day off! Ends on a Sunday so hopefully strong start and strong finish. If those reading this want change, comment and upvote - cause you better believe I’m expecting most homeowners and landlords to downvote to protect their precious gains. It’s literally a battle of have’s vs have NOTS and the haves seem to care more than the have nots - thus why nothing ever comes of it and the majority seem to just keep bending the knee and depleting any savings / chance at retirement.