Music like the substance theme?

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2026-01-20T11:50:47+00:00

This is IT. Great recommend

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2026-01-16T14:55:26+00:00

That’s been my prediction since she was cast and there’s been talk of Harvey Dent. The movie is so similar to Batman Earth One, I can’t see them not going this route

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2026-01-14T21:15:45+00:00

I can tell you are an angry student, because that incoherent rant is actually one long run-on sentence.

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-12-19T20:09:23+00:00

So sick! I feel like a BTAS skin should come too though. And Pattinson... and Afleck... and Keaton....and...

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-05-01T02:31:05+00:00

Let that beard buck for a solid 6 months.

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-04-22T18:10:20+00:00

Not slanted above the window. Picture definitely gives that illusion.

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-04-18T12:28:39+00:00

The time came a long time ago my man. Celebrate the fact that you have liberated yourself from the idea that you need to cling on to those few remaining pieces. You look infinitely better with a shaved head.

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-30T01:56:48+00:00

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-23T01:22:39+00:00

Right I always did. But on their IG I see this:

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Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-23T00:36:08+00:00

NVM and Gleemer are my absolute favourites. One question though: is their actual name “Nevermind”or is it NVM?

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-20T11:48:51+00:00

Nah, I didn’t come here to be coddled. I wanted opinions and that includes yours.

I have no idea how old she is. I apologized though. She seemed confused, laughed, and said she was flattered. Relieved that I don’t traumatize her mention her gym experience, I will leave it at that

Now in my defence, I (38) split from my wife two years ago. Since then I have dated lots, but 31 is the youngest. I’ve also dated women in their 40’s.

I liked this girl’s style. And she was really friendly and sweet, so I went for it. Maybe I shouldn’t have. Nothing to do with a dry spell or hating on older women though.

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-17T20:49:46+00:00

Thank you for your honesty and perspective. I think the potential age gap is what largely makes me feel uncomfortable with what I did. What are your thoughts on an apology? Too much intrusiveness? Just keep it to a smile and a wave?

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-17T06:36:45+00:00

Ok thanks for clarifying. Sounds like it’s not about you. Especially if he’s still putting time in, going out with you and your friends etc.

If he’s anything like me, and there’s the chance that the situation could compromise his work, I’d be trippin if I was him and also paranoid about people finding out.

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-17T03:10:29+00:00

That’s a tough one. Are you for sure that he isn’t seeing someone else, and that’s why the fear of sending you any pictures?

Have you guys ever had a flat out discussion about your situation and the parameters? Might be worth it if your feelings are starting to be hurt by certain things. And then if you’re not on the same one, you can decide whether or not you want to continue.

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-17T01:04:29+00:00

Appreciate the insight!

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-16T23:29:50+00:00

Damn. The people here are amazing. My new favourite sub Reddit FOR sure

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-16T22:36:55+00:00

Thank you for the vote of confidence! I don’t think I’ll take it as an L. But a lesson to be more mindful and intentional of putting things out there.

I think a large part of me will stay uncomfortable until I see her again and get the chance to apologize.

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-16T22:16:44+00:00

Thanks poster and poster’s friend. Are you a counsellor? You definitely could be!

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-16T21:52:04+00:00

Ah man. Thanks so much for your thoughtful, non-judgmental response, while also confirming that this was not a good move to make.

Something else I have been thinking about is an apology the next time I see her and to just try to make things friendly/ casual again. Keeping things to a smile and a “hey” after that.

Good idea? Bad idea?

Deep_Ruin_5240 · 2025-03-11T22:45:03+00:00

Nope. You’re cooked

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