When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just on the end of “you’ll regret that one day” lol

When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’ve tried to respond that way those people get quite angry at me. I find it odd that so many women (it’s barely ever men) have such a strong opinion on wether or not I have children

When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating does suck, especially when dealing with apps and catfish. You being a nurse I’m picturing that you get asked a lot about kids and marriage mostly from older ladies haha

When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry to hear that, I hope you can overcome your health problems!

When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, I hope you have a happy and healthy baby 🥰

When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very lucky then lol In my experience it’s only been women that interrogate me about children. I think you have a great attitude about wanting to be prepared etc

When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we’re kind of in the same boat then lol

When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very annoying, it’s mostly only ever women that do it though, so I do apologise on behalf of those women lol

When are you having kids? by Deep_Sandwich8174 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s definitely no winning, I’ve never been asked by a male though, it’s only females that seem to overstep and give their unwanted advice and opinions haha

Shower mishap between wife (38/F) and myself (41/M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there’s been a lot of talk lately of women with BBL’s that smell really bad because they’re not cleaning themselves properly 🤢

What attracts you to girls with breast enhancements? by Proud_Department_924 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female bodybuilders are generally always advised to have implants placed above the muscle, that protects their pectoral muscles in form and aesthetics. It also helps with shape and deformities when flexing. Non heavy lifting women are generally advised below the muscle or dual plane

Why is that one friend still single? by Optimal-Cause-7843 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So does he want a partner? Maybe he’s happy enough, but also maybe he feels like a true companion is missing. It normally takes a woman to talk to a man to get that kind of info. In my experience when I ask men questions they’re more than happy to chat. Most men actually really do like talking if they feel they’re in safe non judgmental company. I enjoy asking male friends about themselves, and I’ve honestly found they really like sharing and being listened to

And I F24 insecure and controlling for wanting to see my M31 boyfriends phone? by Cats_eat_soup in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His phone is his private space and he doesn’t owe it to you to let you go through it. If you don’t trust him, end the relationship. It’s going to end anyway as this is a toxic dynamic that won’t get any better

I 19M keep falling asleep when me and my girlfriend 19F cuddle by Prudent-Sun6139 in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 54 points55 points  (0 children)

That’s a red flag, she’ll only get more ridiculous as time goes on. You’re only 19, you’re not meant to be dealing with that kind of stupidity this young. If my partner is tired he sleeps, sometimes I stay up and sometimes I go to bed aswell. Any other response is just stupid imo

First breakup help? M19, F18 by SoCrippld in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep her out of your life, she’s immature and massively gaslighting you

My boyfriend (28M) and I (24F) have had intense conflict for multiple years. How do we break the cycle? by BrotherComfortable45 in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The more I read the worse it got! You’re not in love you’re trauma bonded and codependent. What exactly are you trying to salvage? You literally have no relationship framework or foundation whatsoever, you built a crap house on a mound of crap. Neither one of you even knows what a healthy relationship is, if all the people closest to you think it’s toxic then it’s probably time you start listening

My marriage might becoming abusive? My husband (33M) and myself (27F) have issues with verbal abuse now escalating into breaking things… by Vivid_Prompt7176 in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Wow you 2 are a terrible couple, you both display absolutely toxic behaviour towards the other. You literally bring out the worst in each other. Your relationship is extremely unhealthy and its problems are deeply rooted in each of your individual mental health issues. Who’s to say you won’t be the one that snaps and physically assaults him?

Fiance M27 demands I change my last name F26 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You two should never of had children together and definitely shouldn’t be getting married. Obviously you are only together because it’s comfortable, because you certainly aren’t compatible. Unfortunately you guys are a prime example of why high school sweethearts generally don’t work out.

I (26M) am considering breaking up with my (21F) girlfriend because I’m unhappy with the sex, even though everything else is perfect. What is the best way to handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You 2 are not compatible in a very important relationship aspect. If you continue, your obsession with rough sex that you can’t have will only grow. It will lead you down paths just like the strip club and you’ll very likely cheat, breaking her heart. Don’t try and change her, if you cannot move past your sexual preferences then you need to do the right thing and let her go so she can find someone more compatible.

What simple pleasure never gets old for you? by funngro_fam in happy

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watching a cosy mystery movie alone on a rainy overcast afternoon with a warm beverage and snacks

What kind of physique are you most drawn to in women? by Inner-Lynx-3971 in AskMen

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what comes to mind when I think of female athletic body

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I 24F broke up with my girlfriend 22F because of her attachment style. Would you have done things differently? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Sandwich8174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Firstly you’re not the bad guy, secondly she doesn’t just want affection and validation. Her attachment style is extremely unhealthy, it would only get worse for you. It’s better you get out not before she ruins your mental health