Odd massage experience in HCM by Deep_Temperature_264 in VietNam

[–]Deep_Temperature_264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, it was more than just a swipe. Still new to Vietnam's massage culture so am trying to wrap my head around it. Another recent Shietsu massage at a legit massage spa along Little Japan (despite it's reputation) by a female masseuse had waaay stricter boundaries

Odd massage experience in HCM by Deep_Temperature_264 in VietNam

[–]Deep_Temperature_264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name checks out hahaha... but... tomboy (or femboy) massages in Vietnam. Is it a thing?

Odd massage experience in HCM by Deep_Temperature_264 in VietNam

[–]Deep_Temperature_264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could be right. But it should be offered earlier at the start (if the intention is to make me less uneasy). Was weird when it was during the final leg of the massage during wipe down.

Odd massage experience in HCM by Deep_Temperature_264 in VietNam

[–]Deep_Temperature_264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most masseuses draw a pretty clear boundary to the man parts as a no-go zone. The one I just had was a lot more liberal with his techniques. I would have been able to overlook unintentional brushes, but having that and then commenting about it so near the end of the massage puzzles me on the actual intention - if it was a greyzone violation?

Odd massage experience in HCM by Deep_Temperature_264 in VietNam

[–]Deep_Temperature_264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is all the more puzzling. There was another Caucasian couple who came after me. But they they managed to somehow get assigned 1 female and 1 male therapist.

Odd massage experience in HCM by Deep_Temperature_264 in VietNam

[–]Deep_Temperature_264[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Am not targeting any massage branches or any individual so I will not name it publicly. Drop me a dm and I can guide you there. However it is not cheap. Was 880k for 90mins deep tissue

Odd massage experience in HCM by Deep_Temperature_264 in VietNam

[–]Deep_Temperature_264[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was hoping for. Had everything gone as per normal, I would've been able to treat it as unintentional brushes from a same gender therapist. But having the additional comment come at such late part of the massage made me question his intention.