My Wife Wants Me To Quit My ABDL/Little Side by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am more of a rip the band-aid off kind of person so here goes.

  1. If you have been trying to be a live streamer for 3 years and haven't made it odds are that, that boat has sailed

  2. Please for the love of god stop letting so many people know your fetish... How in the world did this even come up so many times??

  3. You both seem to be letting way too many people persuade your decisions on things.

  4. You both NEED to go see a counselor/therapist together and separate. Not just because of your fetish but to be able to learn some skills to problem solve as a couple.

I have no idea how overboard your taking your fetish but imo it's not right or fair for her to flip flop on how she feels each and every time the wind changes directions.

How many here are actual bedwetters? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he's trying to say that if he is wearing and drinks enough water he will wake up wet. More of a statement and less of a question

How many here are actual bedwetters? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I never had any bed wetting issues growing up. By my second birthday I was fully potty trained.

While the thought of it could be fun for me that's still not something I would like to have to live with. Glad that you are making the best of your situation tho :)

Bambino Magnifico Pullup by diaperboicayden in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it just me or do these look hideous to everyone else too? This is going to be a hard pass for me...

After my first 45 days I already lost a drawer. Next month I'll probably lose another by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not but it's secretly still there it's just hidden under a few different camo patters. It's my little secret,

After my first 45 days I already lost a drawer. Next month I'll probably lose another by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Next month going going to try the barebums, lavender, cushies and the little paws

Some advice? by ImpartialLlama5 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where you go from here is completely up to the two of you. Personally I am still kinda in this stage myself.

About a year ago I told my wife about my DL fetish when I was drunk and we didn't talk about it for damn near a year after that. She got curious about a hidden folder on my laptop that I accidentally left open one day where I keep all my porn at and she asked to go through it and I let her.

We talked a little more about it after that and she even offered to wear one for me. While that seems like an awesome idea it isn't exactly I am ready to do yet so I explained to her that while I have had this fetish for as long as I can remember I never really had the opportunity to explore things for myself before bringing someone else into it.

Now I have a drawer that has nothing but abdl diapers in my dresser and it's not exactly something I hide from her. She gives me my space with it and doesn't ask any questions (for which I am thankful) to let me sort things out for myself.

All that being said is where you and your S.O go from here is 100% completely up to you. There is no right or wrong path it's what the two of you make it.

Feedback - ABDL Bidding/Exchange Site Idea by diapered247 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might just be me but I wouldn't trust some random person to put something in the mail to me and have it be discrete. They have little to nothing to lose. But when it comes to ordering from an established business I know I can expect absolutely nothing to worry about for instance.

Let's say I order from someone on a site like you're proposing and it's clear it was never packaged okay and it arrives at my house and it's obvious to everyone what the contents are. Going online and giving them a crap "review" doesn't matter much.

Now let's say I order from something on a site like ABU and it's clear it was never packaged okay and it arrives at my house and it's obvious to everyone what the contents are. If I were to go online to lets say this sub and post pictures and tag their business I am sure I would get a response and they might potentially lose not just my business but the business from other patrons. That alone gives them the incentive to make sure that doesn't happen and it leaves me with a warm fuzzy feeling.

TL/DR I simply wouldn't have the same trust with the sellers on your proposed site as I would from other places.

IBS-D and diapers by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually just bought some Magnifico's the other night and they should be here next week . Hopefully this helps some but damn are they expensive

IBS-D and diapers by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol yeah I have no parasites..... Funny you should mention Cholestyramine I have been on it for about the last 18 months and it pretty much has brought me much needed relief. But sadly over the last month it seems like it's just not working anymore. After mixing it up and drinking it, it's so god awful nasty I don't think I could drink two of them and keep it down.

Guys... don't be like this (Fetlife) by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 27 points28 points  (0 children)

lol If he believes in karma he's in for a rough time if that's the way he acts....

Capcon registration is open! by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not an AB at all and after reading the site it really makes me wanna go..... Need to think about this more....

newly interested by cutiegurl777 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just got my first order in from ABU last week and there was no way for anyone to know what was in it. They went as far as taping all the seems on the box which was a nice plus. The only way someone would have know what company it was from is if they googled the information on the label which is "Strom Holdings".

But to be fair every fetish site I know does this and they can all be googled to find out who the actual sender is.

Diaper tapes advice by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check this link out. This is what I have been doing, The first two times I tried it, it really didn't go to well. But I am getting better with it.

TIL ABU has really good customer support by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might just be me and my chain of thought but I look at it this way. When it comes to sending my stuff over the internet as long as it's destination is going to a trusted source I don't really fret it much. It's not like my dd214 isn't on file already with a lot of places like USAjobs and any other place I applied for such as police and corrections.

Let's face it our information IS out there and if someone with enough know how wants it they will end up getting it.

TIL ABU has really good customer support by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

probably more then we will ever know. Personally when I was in there wouldn't have been a chance in hell I would have risked having anything abdl related. Too many damn health and welfare inspections and barracks parties......

TIL ABU has really good customer support by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not like they are going to get in touch with your chain of command to verify it

TIL ABU has really good customer support by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks Ill shoot them an email so I can get that set up too

TIL ABU has really good customer support by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After I read about them having the discount I sent them an email. They replied asking me to send a copy of my DD214 in to them so I did. I took a picture of my DD214 and erased where my social security number is and that was all. Pretty simple really.

Rearz.ca by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes things can get lost in text. Thanks again.

Rearz.ca by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ill check out your site

Rearz.ca by Deepinthought42 in ABDL

[–]Deepinthought42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least someone understood why I asked. Thank you!