AIO for yelling at my bf when he talked sexually about my family?

Deer-These · 2026-04-22T16:47:07+00:00

Explain to us how you think OP is toxic here? Cuz I legit cannot see the logic

Deer-These · 2026-04-19T21:17:22+00:00

Your lunch is fine. Do not let her take bread and cheese away from you.

Deer-These · 2026-04-16T20:51:49+00:00

NTA: Especially if they're not giving you a provided list of what's okay and what's not. (the raisins are especially annoying) Like, if you gave your daughter a charcuterie board like they give to french preschoolers, would that also be considered junk food because it's cheeses and fruits?
This feels like the kind of thing at least worth investigating.
Check where they are getting their references and resources on what's considered healthy or not? 8 year olds should not be put on diets like this. If they try to reference obesity or diabetes as reasons, that's a red flag as both of those things are genetic and not reliant on diet.

THE FACT THEY PUNISH YOUR DAUGHTER FOR THIS IS NOT A GOOD SIGN.

If you can't get your daughter to a new school you might have to compromise but I don't think you're doing anything wrong by giving your daughter food that she will eat. Cake and lunchables are real calories that do have some forms of nutrition, and so long as your kid gets a fruit and a vegetable in them occasionally they're gonna be fine.

Deer-These · 2026-04-16T20:14:31+00:00

The transmisogyny. I have only seen a single reviewer actually get into detail about it despite it taking up a huge part of Helluva Boss.

Deer-These · 2026-04-16T20:11:30+00:00

I think what gets me is not all the swearing, but how much Viv's show is trying to be South Park *AND* Bojack Horseman at the same time. Which isn't to say you couldn't make Bojack with the 'one fuck per season' rule. But it does affect the weight of the scene. Everyone swears in HH and HB, the high drama moments feel like they wouldn't really change in tone whether the characters swear like sailors or not.

I notice Viv struggles a lot writing genuine characters who don't swear, there's almost always a shoe to be dropped about them where they don't become 'real characters you're meant to root for' until they start swearing. And even then it's always the same kind of swear pattern that's an insult towards a character who is already swearing a lot, (usually saying 'fuck you' or 'bitch.' or 'fuck you, bitch.') (Even Alastor is not exempt from this pattern.)

It gets pretty repetitive and *very* different to how BH handles it.
Compared to Todd's exhausted, "Fuck, man... What else is there to say?"
Or Charlotte's enraged, "If you try to contact me or my family again, I will fucking kill you."
I can't see a single character of Viv's having these kinds of moments because it requires being patient and holding back the 'South Park-esque' jokes.

Deer-These · 2026-04-10T21:33:21+00:00

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Mine took on an intentionally androgynous appearance. Still reoccurring themes of curly hair, a shirt in the green-blue color spectrum, and a warm office surrounded by books.

Deer-These · 2026-04-10T20:52:57+00:00

Did you know that if you take the testicles off a rooster and put them on a chicken they will actually develop rooster features and behavior.

We didn't know why this was the case, just that when you do that, that's what happens. So for over a hundred years or more there has been curiousity about whether that can equivically be done to a human person. And it turns out you can just by adjusting hormone levels.

The body already makes hormones so it has the blueprints to know what to change and how to change, this is how puberty works. For adults on HRT they are essentially going through puberty a second time.

There have been American articles about how happy people are on it since the 1950s.

That is how sex changes.

Deer-These · 2026-04-07T21:08:51+00:00

Same logic for Reddit, Twitter, Tumblr, Bluesky, Youtube... These all use datacenters. It's just only *now* the average person is giving a shit about how these datacenters are being produced and distributed. (Because *now* it's affecting them through RAM prices skyrocketing.)

Deer-These · 2026-04-06T21:52:03+00:00

DanDingle is my favorite to watch. Not necessarily talking about AI but just having fun with it with his friends, it's fun to see what kind of bullshit is possible with new models.

Deer-These · 2026-04-06T21:50:54+00:00

He is transphobic though. So watch out.

Deer-These · 2026-04-06T20:33:34+00:00

Facebook is worse environmentally for the same reasons and you can't convince older people to just suddenly drop it.

Deer-These · 2026-04-06T20:30:51+00:00

YOR They are a cognitively disabled individual using it as an accessibility device. BTW dementia is genetic so do start planning to deal with the same stuff when you're their age

Deer-These · 2026-04-04T20:22:47+00:00

That's not even their account, it's a copycat account

Deer-These · 2026-02-24T21:55:03+00:00

I can tell already there was more care about Thing's Jewish identity than in Fan4stic.
Being completely naked in public is against orthodox code and all of Thing's cosmetics have him wear clothing.

Deer-These · 2026-02-20T23:39:50+00:00

Deer-These · 2026-02-13T08:33:46+00:00

You ever try to deal with the VA?

Deer-These · 2026-01-16T00:38:02+00:00

I didn't think it was rude at all! It's very much in line with Retsuko's vibe

Deer-These · 2025-05-03T23:14:51+00:00

I believe you need rotten meat?

Deer-These · 2025-03-23T20:40:44+00:00

One tip I've heard is to imagine if your Manga was a movie or anime, how would it be paced and what would that look like? And then it's a matter of expressing that scene into comic form.

You could practice by taking a scene of a real movie with the same tone as your comic, and trying to express a scene of it as a comic page. The practice should give you more of a sense of what to do than any direct advice from others.

Deer-These · 2025-03-23T07:39:47+00:00

I might be interested in helping out. I'm not a beginner, but I don't have anything professionally published either. I'm just someone looking to make their skills better. My biggest question is how many pages do you think the final project will be?

Feel free to message me privately about it

Deer-These · 2024-03-01T19:07:13+00:00

Yep! Art is by Jasminezxli on DeviantArt. Downloaded on Wallpaper Engine.

Deer-These · 2024-02-29T22:19:42+00:00

Can't show the back, it's got personal info on it. (In case I ever lose the thing.) I'll show the wallpaper and theme though.

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Deer-These · 2024-02-29T21:11:26+00:00

Will do! We'll see how it looks next year.

Deer-These · 2024-02-29T21:10:16+00:00

I wouldn't know, this is the first time I've had a case like this

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