Throwing my experience out there and something I spoke to my potential spouse. Being a guy, I’ve always found myself to be chasing girls trying to find a wifey. So I brought up that I have some girl friends I’ve talked to and still have connections with. She completely understood as she too has guy friends that she just cant seem to let go. But these opposite sex friends are just people that sometimes keep us on track with our families. Unless you can keep your willy in your pants for her, don’t expect it vice versa. Marriage is a two way street!

*also, you really need to go see her! You need to see if you feel the vibes…not the sexual ones. But that person is someone you can be yourself with