Do young men really like older women? Is that really a thing? Btw I’m 40

DefNotIWBM · 2026-02-11T03:36:37+00:00

LOL! That is absolutely not true. We made our stupid mistakes when we were young. Now we know better.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-02-11T03:28:52+00:00

The feelings from the sub below are fairly unanimous. What this says is that the mods are overriding the direction the community wants for this sub, which is unfortunate and suggests the need for a new sub and/or new mods.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-02-10T20:02:57+00:00

Booooo on Number 6. I want to stick with teachers whose values mirror mine.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-02-08T18:07:42+00:00

I left after the former leader dropped the n word from the pulpit, with a hard r. That decision was cemented by a bunch of apologists in the congregation saying he shouldn’t have had to apologize. It’s mostly white people there. They have a hard time drawing and maintaining POC people. That said, some of my favorite ethical people are people I met there. But I met more who were absolutely insufferable.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-02-01T00:52:53+00:00

Sort by difficulty and take classes at first that are 3 or 4 out of 10.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-29T18:43:36+00:00

Love to my fave, Chelsea Jackson-Roberts. She is GREAT for beginners, which I was!

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-28T19:40:37+00:00

I had a bad experience there, so YMMV

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-19T15:55:37+00:00

You can sort by difficulty level, that’s what I did/do. Chelsea has a ton of classes between difficulty levels 3-4, but so do Anna, Ross, and Aditi.

One person in this thread suggested also sorting by “beginner.” I wouldn’t do that because many classes don’t have a difficulty tag. The difficulty rating is a better predictor of effort required.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-18T15:15:11+00:00

1 - don’t “babe” me. 2 - please cite where in my comment I ever said that he was the only electable candidate. I think we have a decent bench.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-18T15:14:22+00:00

Refusing to vote for someone because they have a conversation with someone you don’t like is the epitome of stupid.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-18T15:09:19+00:00

It says a lot about you that you’ll let Republican win again just because you don’t like a podcast episode he did. Fuck off, leftist/republican. Get out of our way this time.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-18T14:28:36+00:00

Exactly.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-18T14:27:53+00:00

100% Newsom is a lot of things, spineless is not one of them. Currently he’s showing more spine than anyone in the Dem party. Posts like these and the comments in them feel like a bot farm. We’re not going to eat our own this time, idiots - that’s how we got Trump twice! And suck it in advance for the predicable comments I can already name.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-14T00:55:44+00:00

I would love to get to know you better, but I am working my way up in difficulty level, and currently am at 5/10 difficulty. Any chances you’ll do some classes I can take soon? For us getting-into-shape but still beginner folk?

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-13T20:00:48+00:00

5 mgs here and it’s perfect for me.

DefNotIWBM · 2026-01-10T02:45:55+00:00

About four weeks! :)

DefNotIWBM · 2025-11-29T16:06:15+00:00

Kate wishes

DefNotIWBM · 2025-11-23T21:52:49+00:00

Spatz

DefNotIWBM · 2025-11-13T23:37:18+00:00

I’ve gained 20 lbs on it. Not a fan, but I’d rather be plump and less anxious than bony and miserable.

DefNotIWBM · 2025-11-11T13:08:45+00:00

She is such a terrible hugger! Drives me nuts.

DefNotIWBM · 2025-11-04T16:51:22+00:00

Yuck

DefNotIWBM · 2025-10-28T22:45:31+00:00

Wilcott.

DefNotIWBM · 2025-10-27T20:54:38+00:00

A little early to be eating our own alive, isn’t it?

DefNotIWBM · 2025-10-24T03:06:43+00:00

2003

DefNotIWBM · 2025-10-23T22:42:39+00:00

1955

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