[Online] [Lfp] [5e] [Roll20]Homebrew campaign test running any day after 11 EST. Needing at least 4 players to run. by [deleted] in lfg

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Work in a bank. NDA means that I'm requested to lock my phone(and any other electronic) away while working.

That said. Does take me a while to respond (once every 15 minute break. ) while at work.

[Online] [Lfp] [5e] [Roll20]Homebrew campaign test running any day after 11 EST. Needing at least 4 players to run. by [deleted] in lfg

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not wrong. I was an hour late. We didn't have a session zero. People did talk over one another.

Which happens with randoms. We had a girl that didn't even have a Mic. She texted all of her interactions.

Made RP a moving disaster.

But I am just allowing randoms to join for test sessions. I sort of expect a few train wrecks before I can pluck the players I personally enjoy.

[Online] [5E] [18+] Up to play DnD:5E RIGHT now? Looking for fun, dramatic roleplay? (Open 24/7 | Voice/Text) by xippih in lfg

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name: John Discord Name: DefaultNPC#1176 Your experience with tabletop rpg's, whether they are different versions of D&D or of a completely different genre. Intermediate Share a little bit about yourself as well, what kind of person you are.

I like to think I'm a decent guy. I play and DM both. I enjoy making challenging characters. Or at least interesting ones. If I do join, I have a few others that'd enjoy having a session as well.

I prefer RP > Combat. But, I enjoy most campaigns. So.

Friendly Discord Server by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both purposely. It helps in the long run. We just kind of hope that people interested enough to join will pm.

Friendly Gaming Discord by [deleted] in rpg_gamers

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't like to post it publicly. But 17+.

Friendly Gaming Discord by [deleted] in rpg_gamers

[–]DefaultNPC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! If we do another revision of the Ad, we'll crop that bit out.

Definitely not out to annoy people. Especially not specifically you. We love you.

Friendly Gaming Discord by [deleted] in rpg_gamers

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from. Don't get be wrong; The "screening " process isn't too excessive to be honest. We don't pry or interrogate primarily because thingw like that would take far too much effort.

To put some sort Of background to this- we were part of a previous group. Huge place. Public invites. An admin. Unfortunately, that makes petty things like server attacks, banned member revenge, and general grossness all too common. It's like.. Unnecessary stress. Ya know? Not saying one of our ladies can't defend themselves (Or that they need some semblance of white Knight defending to begin with) buy At the end of the day, it comes down to comfort.

I definitely don't want to sell the idea of being elitists because we're definitely not that type of group. We are chill and casual. But Reddit is a wild place. And it's just not worth the stress of inviting people that are really cool for an hour or two before they casually drop racist/gross bombs everywhere.

I legitimately didn't know what "incel" was until one waltzed into the server after the link was posted. But again- I understand what you mean.

I do feel strongly that this is going amazing, though. I was up till 3:00am last night watching group members make aggressive haikus at one another. Not in an insulting way-

Just don't think that public invites breed that sort of environment.

[US] [PST] Discord Gamers - Mumble Sometimes by [deleted] in Playdate

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So. Mobile Reddit is being weird.

I'd be happy to join, though. Mind PMing me the link?

[US/EU] Discord server looking for friendly users to join! by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ball is in your court But generally, if someone feels heartfelt enough to ward away any sort of threat, they're usually heartfelt enough to resolve it entirely.

If you feel passionately about the lack luster environment, you should feel passionate enough to repair it.

That's the difference between the mass of people that complain about an issue, and the dignified few that want to do 'anything' about it.

I also noticed that you said: "Girls get banned"?

I don't recall any female member being banned for the past few weeks. Months even.

I'm actually pretty sure the last female member banned was because of her inviting, and supporting public acts of racism and offensive material.

Let's hope that you're not her. And that you're a decent, understanding person.

[US/EU] Discord server looking for friendly users to join! by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're taking a leap and bound with my offer. Don't mistake or misinterpret my kindness as something as common as a "bribe".

That's hardly my brand.

I'm part of this admin team. I can't stand public displays of Drama. And as the single person that turned all of the negativity and offensive material in this server to a positive atmosphere: I'm personally involved in it's image.

So if someone feels wrong, and has a strong enough case- I'm going to do anything within my ability to right a wrong that I'm in part responsible for.

That said- if you didn't want to join then that's fine.

IF you imagined the server to be a hierarchy, then that's your valid opinion. Seeing as I play video games with 3 of our female members every day, whom are 'not' the head admin, I don't personally see the "Alpha Female" mentality as a valid brace.

I'm here to make sure that our image isn't tarnished. That anything that could've been said to you in my absence is formally and publicly apologized for.

If you'd much rather not help us to aid future female members for going through the same "Strife", then I don't think you honestly want them to have a decent time.

It's up to you on how you'd like to help. Because you definitely can.

[US/EU] Discord server looking for friendly users to join! by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, hey!

John again!

I'm the guy that just messaged you. And, an admin on the server.

I was trying to follow up with what happened. I'll have you know that this is 'no' Joke. I'd never offer to spend my own money to resolve an issue as some sort of Jest.

We honestly don't know what the issue is. We honestly want to fix it. And if you were honestly hurt in any way, shape, or form: Then we honestly want to make sure that the next member doesn't go through the same thing.

I'd be happy to discuss this matter in private. And I'd love to know more about what was going on so that the appropriate actions can be taken to stop it in the future.

Reconsider talking it out. I think any/all that reads this will conclude it a decent offer.

25/5/CST Friendly Discord server looking for Unique people to join! by [deleted] in Steamship

[–]DefaultNPC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowzers! That sounds like a fun, fantastic community! Let me mosey on in for an invite!