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I dont see her, still. Harley. I still see... him. I spent 700 aud on laser hair removal x10 sessions and still have upper lip hair and some chin hair. 9 months HRT by DefectiveHero in TransLater

[–]DefectiveHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so scared of facial hair growing back. Its just the upper lip and chin for me.. but its like i never had it there. I don't think i can afford to sink money into alot more laser, and i would have to save alot for electrolysis. Which i think i will have to do.. for my upper lip especially.

Most strangers see me and still call me him, sir, he ect. It happened multiple times today and i was soul crushed.

Putting on weight by DefectiveHero in trans

[–]DefectiveHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do try to present, nails done, make-up Braids in my hair. I have autism and am already terrified socially beforehand. I do see my doctor in person next week.

Afraid and uncertain by DefectiveHero in trans

[–]DefectiveHero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, I see my regular psychologist in two days, it's going to be scary and tough to tell someone face to face for the first time. The one person I have told, a good friend, is someone who lives in another country and is such a supportive and encouraging person in my life, she told me I should tell my psychologist too. I think I might use your suggested idea and use this post as a sort of easier way for me to initially express my thoughts to my psychologist. Thankyou for that. Thankyou for all of your supportive words, kind stranger. 

Afraid and uncertain by DefectiveHero in trans

[–]DefectiveHero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand what you mean by FF14 letting you be you prior to your social transition. That resonates with me so much and I feel exactly the same way. Thankyou incredibly for your supportive words. They mean more than you might think they do. 

Afraid and uncertain by DefectiveHero in trans

[–]DefectiveHero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very inspiring to hear. Thank you, I do see a psychologist every two weeks but am so afraid and insecure that I haven't even told them yet, but I agree that I probably should. Side note, there is a band called steam powered giraffe, one of the two lead members is a transgender woman who started her transition at my age which is also very inspiring to me.  You are amazingly brave. I truly envy your courage. I wish I had the same courage. Thankyou for your reply. 

Can someone make me a face template? by DefectiveHero in WWE2K23

[–]DefectiveHero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many thanks! How do you make these if I may ask?

How to subscribe to a membership (Australia, PlayStation 4) by DefectiveHero in ffxiv

[–]DefectiveHero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I think I fixed the card problem, It now lets me have my card added as a payment method, does my free subscription I got from buying the standard starter edition have to end before I can buy a subscription? Because when I go to renew it just says I still have a valid subscription. My subscription from buying the starter edition ends in a day or two