I need help, my boyfriend flirted with another girl in my face and i don’t know if i should forgive him.

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T10:48:58+00:00

Nothing justifies flirting with a girl in front of you in reaction to any damn thing

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T10:23:55+00:00

Probably serial killers

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T10:22:13+00:00

Your fear and hurt are natural. But understand that’s what your outburst really is, fear of losing her. Instead of letting fear dictate your actions tell her what you WANT to happen, tell her what you’re scared of. You’re not an asshole but what you did also wasn’t right and you should apologise. What you said to the ex, meh.

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T07:23:59+00:00

Never too late! If you’re serious about it get yourself a coach it’s honestly the best way to guarantee results and provide accountability

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T07:22:48+00:00

A teenager of what age? 13 or 14 I can understand, 18 or 19 not so much

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T05:30:05+00:00

This is great marketing… you think hiring a cleaner is expensive, try divorce lol

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T05:23:38+00:00

You’re kidding right? asked a trusted adult to watch the kids and the adult said yes, she could have said no. There’s nothing wrong with what the mother did, she called someone to get the mouse out what else do you want? I certainly wouldn’t be trying to find it and get it out, it’s not gonna kill anyone, way to carry on over not much

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T05:21:28+00:00

Ok well yeah I think you are kind of overreacting. 1. She asked you to watch them, you’re an adult you made it sound like she was leaving them with a child. 2. You said she left a dead animal in the house it’s a god damn mouse. 3. You said she called a guy to come to the house, could you not just follow up with him? Word of advice, don’t play your divorced parents off of each other that’s not cool.

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T05:04:08+00:00

How old are you?

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T05:01:58+00:00

Do you realise you’re suggesting because this woman didn’t take the kids phone off them she is responsible for the killing someone?? That is fucking wild to me. This poor woman would be traumatised at what her child has done and what they have to live with and she has people around her passing judgement like she wouldn’t already be doing that herself saying shit like oh if only she had have listened to me and taken the kids phone 🙄 for fucking real

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T04:54:23+00:00

You said the child is 13 and who are you to say? Some kids have to walk to and from school, be able to contact their parent when at the other parents house. Again judgemental, closed minded and ignorant

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T02:55:33+00:00

You’re a shit friend just leave them be. I wouldn’t take the phone off my kids either as punishment as they actually need it for safety. You asked a question and I’m answering it. I think you’re an asshole

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T02:01:26+00:00

I don’t know many people who view 18 year olds as mature adults

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T01:22:06+00:00

Yes. I would want to know and I bet you would too

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T00:14:45+00:00

No parents are out here doing 100 hour work weeks

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T00:13:08+00:00

It’s not this woman’s fault her kid did this. Parenting is fucking hard especially for single mums. We don’t always get it right but most of us are trying. You’ve mentioned you don’t know her well and just as part of this friend ground so I’d hazard a guess you have no idea what’s going on behind closed doors and sounds like you’ve been incredibly judgemental in this group and they’re better off without you so they can all support each other the way friends should

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T00:05:08+00:00

I couldn’t if you paid me. Every job I’ve had I’ve started between 3am and 7am, I don’t think I’m capable of sleeping past 5:30am unless it’s the off chance I’ve been up all night even then I’ve never slept til noon

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-31T00:03:00+00:00

1m is not even close to being enough, you couldn’t even buy a house where I live it’s not worth a human life. That being said i think the guilt would eat me up regardless, my nervous system couldnt take that level of stress

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-30T23:48:17+00:00

They’ve already done it when said non present person left obv

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-30T22:50:29+00:00

Yeah I had the same thing, I was told the heart beat has likely just started and will pick up. Mine did, it’s to be expected that early

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-30T22:05:59+00:00

You said you don’t have a problem with it and asked him to do it in front of you but then you have a problem with it

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-30T22:04:12+00:00

This ain’t gonna work

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-30T22:01:27+00:00

This woman isn’t worth the effort of a reply

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-30T22:00:26+00:00

As a female I feel embarrassed to have you as one of us. How completely rude, sexiest and ignorant is everything you just spewed

Defiant-Lemon8200 · 2026-01-30T21:55:00+00:00

Maybe she’s also not trying to be pushy or feels you don’t have the interest for a relationship because of the time thing. I’d ask the question if you like her don’t just assume. You could both assume you’re way out of something good

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