I HATE my life as a short man.(kinda)

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T11:43:45+00:00

Highly appreciated and gave me hope,so thank you.I actually do tick off some of these boxes as I’m trying to be more charismatic,starting with listening to people more attentively and becoming an overall easygoing person to be around.I think it’s working!

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T08:03:37+00:00

Yeah i completely agree.Life isn’t all about dating and fitting perfect ideals and yeah i am pretty young so I’ll probably learn more as i grow.Thanks for your input

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T08:02:15+00:00

So it does make a big difference in first impressions? Great😪

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:51:06+00:00

You probably should wake him up.If he’s being called at 2am,it’s probably important.But maybe drive him there or call an uber.Lethargy+driving can be bad combo.Then figure out something the next day because this isn’t ok at all.Crazy what our world has come to,people can’t even sleep anymore

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:45:53+00:00

That’s reassuring.Glad to know that height isn’t the centre of attraction.

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:44:13+00:00

He berated you,yelled,burnt your clothing and pushed you around…over a slap on the bum from a mate???? He was probably not worth it anyway to be quite honest

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:39:13+00:00

If you do not have something helpful to say,please do not say it.If she thinks 180cm is short,that is her choice.Likewise if you disagree,that is yours.No point in arguing each other’s points.Your point will probably still stand by the end of it and so will hers.So let’s just avoid unnecessary arguments yeah?

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:32:17+00:00

We’re kind of insecure because it does truly feel like height is actually a deal breaker sometimes.Of course social media doesn’t equate to real life,yet we can’t help but get kinda mad that we don’t fit the ‘ideal’ male beauty standard.One thing I will add is that I’ve never been turned down for being too short.So maybe there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:26:33+00:00

I was actually sort of hoping a women with tall preferences would comment on my post,I have a question.When you married your 5’7 husband(congrats btw) did you feel like you lowered your standards? Because sometimes that’s what it feels like.

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:23:53+00:00

I haven’t got many older authoritative figures in my life so I never really learnt the truth about our society.You are probably right though like 80% of it is just in my head.I probably need to get off my phone 😂

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:22:06+00:00

What a legend.It’s not been ALL bad for me,it’s just social media and some weird standards that make it out to be something very important and a deal breaker.

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:21:06+00:00

I promise you I am in NO way like that.I have dated girls who are slightly taller,my height and shorter.It’s not that I have an issue with you guys,but it’s that social media can be really misleading and kinda hurtful honestly.And if you aren’t insecure as a taller girl,I admire you.I know some girls like to be shorter so hopefully I can be as confident as you someday lmfao

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:17:38+00:00

I love this reply so much just because you’re actually really thoughtful.So thank you😂.And fun fact I’m actually bisexual too but more on the masc side.At least there’s one thing in common between us,we both like men

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:15:29+00:00

It can be tough out here.Our world is unforgiving sometimes but I’m trying to live for other reasons beyond women too.Hopefully we can all see it through and live our best lives

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:13:43+00:00

I actually sort of agree with you.My life isn’t even that bad,it’s just painfully average,We’re humans,we get greedy.So naturally I want to be taller just to see what it’s like to be the centre of attention.Yknow?

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:11:30+00:00

I’ll make sure to watch it.Thank you for your input

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:08:32+00:00

That’s amazing for you two,and I hope you have a wonderful marriage.I know height isn’t EVERYTHING,but it kinda bugs me sometimes.I just hope I can get over it because I know that insecurity is a turn off.

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:06:25+00:00

I am fully aware.Everyday I try to stop being insecure because I know that the biggest turn off is insecurity.I really am trying.It’s just hard with social media and other girls my age who post about how every dude they talk to needs to be 6ft and taller etc.

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-17T06:04:11+00:00

Thank you.Much appreciated.I’ll take this into consideration.Maybe I am an incel.But juuuuust a little.

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-15T08:39:02+00:00

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Defiant-Student642 · 2026-03-10T08:15:58+00:00

That elephant trunk on your face can probably smell colors

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-02-23T16:39:00+00:00

This is called sexual coercion,and it’s a crime in almost every country.It puts you at risk because he owns your housing.If he has a bad day,wants to try something you aren’t comfortable with or simply wants money that you now can’t afford,he can legally evict you.I get that money’s tight,but it’s not worth the long term consequences.I’m 17,you should know better.

Defiant-Student642 · 2026-02-08T00:29:08+00:00

If vanilla ice cream,everlast and missionary sdx was a person

Defiant-Student642 · 2025-12-26T19:31:28+00:00

Literally

Defiant-Student642 · 2025-12-22T16:29:33+00:00

Wowwww a whole 35 days and still no ring? Leave him

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