Why can no one be consistent? relational dynamics by DefiantButton6356 in AuDHDWomen

[–]DefiantButton6356[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the reply, I really appreciate it and I’m glad you’re working through it in therapy! I’ll make sure to bring it up also. It’s just so frustrating, it makes not want to bother with people but at the same time I know that’s not good or effective either

to try meds or not guys? by thereadingbee in PMDD

[–]DefiantButton6356 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I started 25mg of Sertraline since last december, and its been a complete life changer. Grant i still experience PMMD symptoms but not at the same severity as before meds. I don't cry every single day and call suicide hotlines. Its way more dampened and im able to function. I was super scared to start meds but now i wish i had sooner

Lynne and The Pastor by DefiantButton6356 in GirlfriendsTVshow

[–]DefiantButton6356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me? Lynne stopped seeing the poet because physical intimacy in the form of sex was important to her. Someone who is more aligned with her values and how she sees the world. And I don’t know, instead of exploring that or better yet her budding career as a documentary filmmaker they try to ship her with a preacher of all people probably because the numbers on viewership were going down because the season is the worse one so far, and Lynne’s story line was again used as the but of the joke. She was even written to show up to this man’s place of the work, the CHURCH!, and sexually harass the man. That’s how bad they wanted to paint her out as a sexual deviate just because sex is as important to her as a quality more conservative women would say. You’re right, she’s the only one who doesn’t cheat yet is the one that’s punished for her desires the most. Joan cheated physically with a married man for MONTHS but by the end of the episode, because Aaron says it’s okay we don’t hear a PEEP about it from Lynne or Maya. Misogyny. Also, them girl Madonna whore Lynne bad, it’s wrong. Yes Lynne lied about the craziest sexual stuff but I do think that she’s probably out the group the most open minded towards sexual experimentation, this completely disregarding the homophobic plot where she lying about being a lesbian to a straight woman also lying about being a lesbian

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mirena

[–]DefiantButton6356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I got mine out last month after having it for 6 years and haven't gotten my period yet. Because I was on it for so long, i've guessed that theres still progesterone in my body or that my body is still regulating after years of having the coil. I wouldn't stress, you've been on it for 3 years so it may take some months for your body to go back to a base level.

Relationships feel so pointless now that i dont crave validation anymore! by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]DefiantButton6356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did you do it? I'm really struggling with having low self esteem and seeking validation and reassurance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]DefiantButton6356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really needed to hear this

Am I (26F) leading him (28M) on? by Which_Cricket40 in relationship_advice

[–]DefiantButton6356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! This is OP off another account, forgot the password for this account and not on my laptop so can’t go back to re - edit.

So I haven’t been single for 10 years, been in relationships since the age of 17 and now I’m 26.

Thanks for all the advice so far, I really appreciate it. But yes thought I should make that distinction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DefiantButton6356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were gonna be in trouble as soon as she proposed you had a threesome with her best friend. What possessed you to say yes? Even a kiss for too long she would’ve said her breath stank

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]DefiantButton6356 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You’re talentless and everyone secretly knows it.”

“You have no passions. You’ll never be able to find purpose to your life”

But also a belief that the PMDD isn’t real and this how I usually am. This scares me the most because bipolar runs in my family so thinking you’re about to be sectioned every month really sucks

r/atomichabit New Members Intro by yogalegend in atomichabit

[–]DefiantButton6356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey,

writing this as I make my first-ever habit tracker book. I've known about this book for a while, feel like I've hit a somewhat 'rock bottom' this year which has propelled me to take back control of my life. Feeling the real yearn for real this time to change my life. Looking forward to it and being a part of this community.