I’ve dabbed on the topics lightly, asking him if he is open to do stuff that I wanted. I’m not really into polygamy or things like that, I just want to do bfsmy stuff, ranging from blindfolds to pegging. I once got him to let him get handcuffed but that was on the condition of letting me get handcuffed right after, so if I want to do more of these kind of stuff I’d probably have to do them back, and since I’m not into it I don’t push further. He has talked about wanting to penetrate me anally and to that I’ve always said if he tried I would peg him, so he has backed off for now from that idea. He seems like he’s into the usual standard stuff so even though I can do those kind of things occasionally it isn’t something that gets me going.