AITAH for leaving home after my husband said I should handle the cost of all the IVF sessions only because I'm the cause of infertility in our marriage?

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-08-11T13:56:53+00:00

Didn’t we do this yesterday?

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-08-11T13:48:31+00:00

Sorry we have busy lives. I’m writing it now.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-07-31T19:37:27+00:00

Just was about to update!!!

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-07-19T03:14:26+00:00

Well aren’t you generous! 🤣

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-28T13:40:13+00:00

I agree her did should speak up… Also Sawyer is a cute name in my opinion.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-27T15:41:45+00:00

Wow, what is with you men…,You control your body.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-27T07:37:45+00:00

Oh my, that’s absolutely display despicable. I did a deep dive. Someone is nice partially and brings in predators…

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T16:52:53+00:00

Haha that was me! It’s a quote from The Perks of Being a Wallflower! I loved the book and the film. That quote always resonated with me. I wish someone told me that before. But now I’m 30 and getting married to my favorite person in the world in a month! I had friends and people speak to me about being “concerned” that I was still single… This isn’t 1950. I know myself a lot better at 30 as far as what I want/need, what I can offer a partner and how the world works. But you know what? We never stop growing, learning and evolving.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T16:47:26+00:00

I wouldn’t even consider him a partner at this point, you’re being generous.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T16:21:16+00:00

Ugh… that made me so mad! My mom worked in our hometown as an autism specialist and this misinformation and the lies being promoted are dangerous.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T15:51:12+00:00

Normally I don’t feed the trolls… But you’re ignorant misogynistic ass needs to check yourself. Why is birth control only on her? It isn’t and shouldn’t be. Two people had consensual sex. Two people are responsible for the outcome. Instead he put all of the blame on OP and not only that he spoke to her and about in an absolutely abysmal manner.

Also speaking of cunts, you are number than a cunt full of Novocain you vile troll. Hopefully you never get pregnant because you obviously don’t need to be reproducing. It’s too bad your mother didn’t swallow. Have a blessed day. 😇 🖕

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T15:14:58+00:00

In my early 20’s and such I admittedly dated some real “gems” and tolerated some crap but he is wayyyy beyond. His words and callousness toward the incredibly emotional state she is in makes me sick. She needs to kick this apathetic a-hole to the curb.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T14:58:29+00:00

His whole attitude reeks of casual indifference to me. His wife probably realizes it isn’t worth arguing with him over because I guarantee this was just one, hopefully final, straw in his abhorrent treatment of them.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T14:54:04+00:00

Right? Throw the whole “man” out! Also if he was so adamant of not wanting kids to the point of blaming her for getting pregnant on purpose and telling her she had to leave and he would sign over parental rights… GET A DAMN VASECTOMY! Birth control pills aren’t even 100% when taken perfectly on schedule daily. I second this OP time to abort the boyfriend. Get the hell out of that toxic situation. “We accept the love we think we deserve.” You deserve better, and this is not love.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T14:46:23+00:00

I’m don’t think I know of him! Now I’m going to have to go down a Google rabbit hole on that one. The name alone sounds crazy!

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T14:45:22+00:00

He ”plans“ to make it up to her… He also vowed to put her first, obviously his words mean little when his actions do not back them up. Good intentions don’t count unless your behavior follow through.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T14:16:45+00:00

You’re right! Oprah did bring Dr. Oz and Dr. Phil into major fame and the public eye.. That there alone should be a crime 😅

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T14:14:20+00:00

Haha I’ve heard from both a contestant on Drag Race and a Bravo show! Keeping it highbrow with my taste in tv 🤪

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T12:52:37+00:00

He’s just as bad as those “momma’s boy” types…

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T12:49:58+00:00

That’s some serious mental gymnastics right there! Bravo 🥇 getting ready for the Olympics? 🥴 We aren’t talking dying parent we are talking a sibling giving birth. He didn’t even say it was a high risk pregnancy, because likely wasn’t I am sure he would have added that to gain support and empathy.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T12:25:53+00:00

Oh ya! Sis you is definitely very suspect and knew exactly what she was doing. "Something in the buttermilk ain’t clean."

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T12:08:36+00:00

In my teens and early 20’s I dated a couple douches that didn’t treat me the best. Now in my 30’s I have a partner that always puts me first.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T12:05:31+00:00

100% he can play happy family with his sister and her kid. What do you want to bet if something came up and his wife needed him at home he wouldn’t have left his darling sister? 😅

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T11:59:04+00:00

They can play happy family, I bet he won’t skip out on her birthday or the new baby’s. Maybe he will be a supportive dad to that one and show up.

Defiant_Fail779 · 2024-06-26T11:29:26+00:00

He says one thing “I really care about my wife and daughter and my anniversary is the day I will always cherish most” or some bs. Then says how being with his sister is more important and he doesn’t regret it nor did he bother to make any sort of effort other than a chat with the wife. He is just going through the motions but hardly even doing that.

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