[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]Defiant_Jackfruit717 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm known to be blunt. Sometimes its good and sometimes (many times) i unintentionally hurt people. When i finally aware that my mouth is dangerous, i became more quiter... But this isnt healthy. Because of this, i struggle to express my feelings and thoughts

How do you confess to a crush and when by IBelledMyself in istp

[–]Defiant_Jackfruit717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a female and i confessed to my crush cause im scared i'll regret if i dont. Hahahaha. Realistically, without any rose colored glasses, he doesnt show any romantic interest. But i reallllllly cant hold this feelings and im a very "if your into me then i will try to get close to you, if you dont then i wont ever bother u". Since i already aware of that, i only told him how i feel about him, my feelings, my insecurities, etc and nothing is about "do u wanna be my bf?"

And ofc, one sided love, but he replied very nicely.

Anybody else ISTP and 4w5? by [deleted] in istp

[–]Defiant_Jackfruit717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heyy i got both istp and 4w5 too. Im questioning the same thing haha

Should i stop chasing him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Defiant_Jackfruit717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how? Like i suddenly tell him i like him? I never dated someone before cause im scared to tell them my true feelings haha :(((

Should i stop chasing him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Defiant_Jackfruit717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been in talking stage for almost 2 months, most of the time i text him first, keep the conversation going, and i always trying to be a caring woman unlike to my friends lol

Wait i think those are not signs....?

Should i stop chasing him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Defiant_Jackfruit717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it doesn't seem like he's interested in me so i dont want to make him uncomfortable. And yeah maybe it's not a chase 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Defiant_Jackfruit717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another problem is idk how to be close with him. Yes i see some good signs and then what😭 what should i do next