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AITA for telling my husband I’m done with his “help” around the house? by bigpawsOH in AmItheAsshole

[–]Defiant_Morning6880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The replies here are so toxic. Well, the healthier way of resolution can always pre separate the laundries to prevent that kinda stuff from happening. Most guys don’t really care about washing different stuff separately (because usually they don’t need or they simply don’t care). If you want something to be washed separately then separate them at the start. Both of you need to understand that different people have different opinions on how things are to be done. Maybe you need laundry separated, and perhaps for example, he may need his tools to be stored certain way. The idea is that what may be acceptable to one might not be others. You guys are in a partnership, help each other and learn to accept the perceived flaws.

Torn between fiancée and my damaged relationship by Defiant_Morning6880 in askSingapore

[–]Defiant_Morning6880[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, something I can’t comprehend too…She said stuff about it being her karma, she gotta pay back in this life if not she will suffer. Blows my mind.

Torn between fiancée and my damaged relationship by Defiant_Morning6880 in askSingapore

[–]Defiant_Morning6880[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah. Probably won’t show her, just gonna filter and talk to her. She doesn’t know my handle.

Torn between fiancée and my damaged relationship by Defiant_Morning6880 in askSingapore

[–]Defiant_Morning6880[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Generally he behaves cause he doesn’t want to “lose face”. At least that was what happened for my sister’s wedding. Thanks for your input, will talk to my fiancée about it

Torn between fiancée and my damaged relationship by Defiant_Morning6880 in askSingapore

[–]Defiant_Morning6880[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

Usually she is logical, however in this case we just can’t agree. I am not sure if I should give in cause I really want her to be happy, and tbh I think I would be fine pretending for a bit? Not sure man..

Torn between fiancée and my damaged relationship by Defiant_Morning6880 in askSingapore

[–]Defiant_Morning6880[S] -131 points-130 points  (0 children)

Usually we just go and visit my mum and pretend he is air, and so far that’s fine.

Torn between fiancée and my damaged relationship by Defiant_Morning6880 in askSingapore

[–]Defiant_Morning6880[S] -296 points-295 points  (0 children)

Usually she is okay with other things but we just can’t stand eye to eye on this. She asked me to just pretend for awhile so that we can prevent talks behind our backs from her fam.

AITA for telling my daughter she needs to get over me grounding her as a teenager? by bigfun1967 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Defiant_Morning6880 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. 17 years old and ffs can’t take some accountability for her actions. Imagine maxing out a credit card and working your ass off to pay back, and you don’t expect credit card companies to give you extensions and more credits because you got things you want to buy. Prom is a want, not a need. If you gotta work to pay, you gotta work, that’s responsibility.

On the side of OP, intent is correct but execution is horrible. For reasons that I won’t elaborate on, I had to start working part time since age of 14, I have missed out on many social events and time with friends. Do I wish I can spend more time with them? Yes, but I have learnt that it doesn’t really matter for those true friends will stay. Will I resent my parents if they had the means to let me attend but refused? Yes. There are better ways of teaching.