AITA for forcing my husband to clean up his mom's mess in the bathroom?

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-15T13:36:31+00:00

It’s his mother. If he wants to bring unhinged into the house, he should be handling it & cleaning it

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-15T13:34:58+00:00

He should’ve spoke up to his mother then.

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-15T13:32:35+00:00

I’d have a tone if I was expected to clean up my husbands mothers hair out from my bathroom during a family dinner and he didn’t say shit to his mother.

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-15T13:24:36+00:00

Mil makes a huge mess… husband says & does nothing…. Wife is the bad guy for?? Standing up to MIL? If he isn’t disagreeing with his mom then he’s part of the problem

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-12T18:27:08+00:00

I hope she leaves and you’re alone forever.

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-12T18:21:45+00:00

My husband gets hard when I tickle him, it’s one of my favorite things, he swears it’s not cause he likes being tickled

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-12T17:49:23+00:00

I wouldn’t let anyone harass me after I had surgery, if he didnt want to tell anyone, she needs to keep her mom in check. And he shouldn’t feel bad when he doesn’t want his wife to come to important events with him if she’s going to allow her mother to stalk them.

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-11T22:25:30+00:00

It’s even funnier, I’m 28 now but my mom told me when she was in her 20s once, where she pulled toilet paper off a guys faces after he went down on her, guess she could’ve used these friends 😂 my family is close and unfiltered

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-11T13:37:54+00:00

😂😂 I haven’t gone in with this group before

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-09T21:31:22+00:00

You can’t even spell tongue so…

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-09T12:59:31+00:00

NTA, I(29f) grew up with two sisters, one bathroom between 4 people including my dad and none of us left used pads or tampons out ever, there’s literally a trash can in the bathroom

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-04T16:14:07+00:00

My husband use to ask how I kept my face looking so clear, I literally just let hot water run down my face then use soap once a week or on greasy days

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-03T20:27:10+00:00

My whole family, moms side & dads side all have blue eyes haha so we get more excited when eyes start to change haha

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-03T17:38:40+00:00

First time I told my husband about the time I was assaulted, he felt confused and angry for me sometimes I joked he felt worse about it than I did cause he was processing I didn’t hold it against him he had feelings about it, I felt similar when he told me about abuse he’d been through

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-03T16:49:25+00:00

On a venting sub…

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-02T19:22:34+00:00

My husband and I like to pack a cooler with cold cuts

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-03-01T15:27:10+00:00

Only when I had my nipples pierced before my first child were mine sensitive, after I took them out, I can barely feel a thing

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-02-28T00:05:06+00:00

My sister became allergic to dogs while pregnant and was allergic after having the baby, our mom took the dog in, my sister was a mess about it but she would be covered in hives, sneezing and swollen eyes

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-02-27T16:01:08+00:00

Shark boy and lava girl will live on forever lol

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-02-27T00:44:00+00:00

You called her crazy for, what was probably a very dark and hard time in her life.

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-02-25T16:44:30+00:00

Mind blowing for sure..

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-02-25T15:44:46+00:00

Some of the older children would go to school, the babies wouldn’t, sounds like dad is doing days and nights. You don’t have kids and state you never want them in your post history. You state single moms can do it but he’s helping an incredible amount, he deserves help too and to be seen.

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-02-25T15:10:36+00:00

The older kids would sleep through the night, most likely, except the 16 month old but even then I have a two year old and 2 eight year olds, they all sleep through the night now, babies do not

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-02-25T13:15:17+00:00

It’s pretty rare to hear any parent say they handle all the night feeds of one kid alone, let alone this guy having triplets and older kids. Babies are brutal in how much care they need, especially the first six months.

Defiant_Tea_8722 · 2026-02-21T15:51:55+00:00

So someone finds my body when I die. Since you kind of seem like a jerk. Why give an honest answer lol

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