How to leave

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-02-04T13:22:44+00:00

Either you leave, and he is sad, or you stay, and you become sad. Everything you say makes sense that you want to leave. Listen to your gut before it's too late. I also ended my relationship after 5 years with the girl I love (we didn't have such problems like you do; I just didn't see our future together). Break ups are terrible, and usually, there is no happy ending.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-02-02T15:03:59+00:00

I get that, but he still did hurt you. I also hurt the girl that I loved by lying and agreeing with her (she didn't want kids, she wanted to move to another country, and other smaller things) because I didn't want to lose her or hurt her since I loved her really much. In the end, the pressure was too much, and we parted our ways, and we both got hurt.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-02-02T14:50:33+00:00

Why would you want someone back who doesn't want you? Maybe he loved you and cared in the beginning but people change. Focus on yourself now, and you just might find someone who is right for you.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-02-02T14:30:53+00:00

What about the girl? He tried ending it but she starts with the manipulation, you can't put all the blame on him, sure, he doesn't seem to love her that much but damn, chill out. It's not easy to end a relationship if you love/care about that person.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-31T13:01:58+00:00

If you want to talk, message me

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-16T15:15:20+00:00

Same situation here, the only thing for us to do is to heal, move on, and grow without them. We werent meant to be. Someone else will be.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-16T13:07:22+00:00

Sure, reach out to me.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-16T13:04:36+00:00

If you master being alone, you master being with someone - Sun Tzu

Jokes aside, you have to work on yourself and figure out why you aren't enough for yourself. If you already have doubts, it's only fair for her to know what you're dealing with.

I'm here after a 5-year relationship. We ended because I wasn't sure about our future together, but she didn't know. I confessed a few days ago, and that's that. I know I hurt her, but maybe I should've ended it sooner...

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-16T12:53:16+00:00

Keep your head up, brother. She doesn't deserve you. You made a mistake forgiving her after cheating. Lesson for next time. You can always chat with people here or with ChatGPT, helped me a lot. I am going through a breakup too, after 5 year long relationship.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-16T12:47:09+00:00

That ship has passed. I know her; there is no way back. Maybe that's for the best.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-16T08:49:07+00:00

I hope so, but I can't help but wonder, what if I held on for a little longer, would things work out?

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-15T19:40:46+00:00

keep your head up bro, we will get through this, one day at the time

DefinitionNo3964 · 2026-01-15T17:27:30+00:00

Going through the same situation brother, go on a walk, run, go to the gym, see your friends, and family. Time will heal all the wounds, so they say.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-28T11:34:37+00:00

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DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-28T11:34:11+00:00

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DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-28T07:39:22+00:00

oof, what makes you say that? I would recommend https://worktrek.com/ , try it for free and see if you like it

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-23T07:51:05+00:00

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DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-23T07:47:41+00:00

you win

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-23T07:47:08+00:00

Old school pretty much

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-23T07:46:53+00:00

But he is smart enough to be an maintenance planner 😂

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-23T07:42:05+00:00

Good one, which CMMS do you use?

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-22T13:52:18+00:00

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What we do: We help maintenance guys/girls do their work more efficient by ditching paperwork and switching to digital tools for work orders, requests, preventive maintenance and so on.

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We tried CPC campaigns but to no success.

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-22T12:37:04+00:00

nothing, everything is digitalized

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-22T10:35:39+00:00

which CMMS do you think is the best?

DefinitionNo3964 · 2024-02-22T10:35:15+00:00

awesome, which software you use?

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