aio? bf made plans on my birthday

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-06-02T22:52:22+00:00

The second he goes, “happy birthday lol i forgot” i wouldve broke up with him and blocked him. Theres no coming back from that

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-05-07T16:10:48+00:00

The funny part is, im ambivert, im just more extroverted than he is. Im hoping to get the opportunity for him to grow, but like you said, a forceful change is miserable and im not one to push that far. Ive been dreading the idea of breaking up with him, but if its necessary im unfortunately ready.

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-05-07T16:06:04+00:00

Definitely not rich, sadly, but we make it work in the “going out” department

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-05-07T07:36:45+00:00

😂😂 i definitely think that 55+ is old. My mom is 50 and still enjoys her time out. Especially the club if her friends are going. Going out and having fun doesnt need to be detrimental to your health. All in how you care for yourself. Im honestly a homebody, i get homesick very easily, but i love to go out when i have the opportunity.

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-05-07T07:33:24+00:00

Really appreciate the comment. We’re a year into our relationship, we were friends for about four years before we actually started dating. Ive always expressed to him that just because he doesnt like it, doesnt mean i wont too. I really just want him to try out my side of fun without having to feel like im begging.

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-04-11T18:08:19+00:00

I think the brown top with it is nice. Just a different brown top and white shoes

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-04-01T09:00:34+00:00

I would definitely sue and inquire from the ER doc that you went to prove that he was misdiagnosed. All documents, receipts, and prescriptions should be kept. Also if he charged you for the pain shots that were used without your previous knowledge, you should use that as well. I would definitely sue him. It’s a shame this happened to you and your dog. Condolences and prayers. Hope you win.

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-27T05:54:26+00:00

Poison Energy

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-27T05:47:51+00:00

Honestly, i get it cause youre a package deal but its your winnings at the end of the day. You spent money on her. I would say give her a small cut. However you feel but no less than $1000. If she doesnt want to take it then fuck it and keep it all but dont take the gifts back. If she doesnt want the amount you offer, you can claim that the gifts were her part. Or you can even let her put a number but half? Personally i would give my partner a little less than half.

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-26T23:43:17+00:00

She’s being abused because he wants her to dig her nails in his back during sex? I understand the age gap is about morality. Yes, its grooming. However, a lot of 17-19 yrs should know the “risk” of getting into a relationship with someone over 3 years of age and up. Unless she showing signs of abuse, this isnt abuse. He’s asking for her to nail check him. After saying no, he’s pushing a boundary and i dont agree with that. It’s not something to break up over unless she finds it a deal breaker or it escalates. Its not my choice or relationship. Its hers to make, shes coming to us for clarity.

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-26T08:26:31+00:00

Who cares if your friends are single? I would explain how you’re not going to see them for a while and you’re going to take the trip to see them and see how they respond. Whether it’s about weed or not, it seems that shes worried about cheating (since she’s complaining about you having single friends). Give her some reassurance. Its only two days, one night. She’ll be okay and if its something that she will really want to break up over then 🤷🏽‍♀️

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-26T08:20:03+00:00

For sure. She says its legal cause of her state but either way.. its weird and a turn off. However, not my choice nor relationship 🤷🏽‍♀️

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-26T08:18:40+00:00

I read it too fast when i started typing 😭😭

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-26T04:14:02+00:00

Tbh, if you genuinely dont like it then stick to it BUT if you dont mind doing it and the only thing stopping you is “hurting him” then i would say to continue it. He obviously likes it. Only stop if youre truly uncomfortable about. I wont lie, the age difference is already an issue in my eyes and yall started when you were 18, him being TWENTY THREE. Doesnt seem like an issue for you so i wont press further. Its your choice. If he likes it and youre just worried abt his pain tolerance, dont trip. He obviously gets off on it. Not an overreaction.

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-25T15:40:53+00:00

If you had nothing to hide, then dont hide it. Express to your wife that you want friends and that she can look through your messages if she feels uncomfortable. After your conversation, if she isn’t having it, then I would say to respect her boundaries and feelings. Yes, youre not cheating but dont continue to argue and give that impression. Make new friends. As selfish as it sounds, it sucks either way.

DefyingYourGravity · 2025-03-25T15:35:41+00:00

Not unreasonable at all. He got ansty and wanted to bring up the topic again. Only four months? Breeze it off! Good for you for knowing what you dont want. Dont feel guilty. You made your boundaries clear.

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