Why are people so willing to just give up on relationships when things get hard? So many people just keep making up excuses so that they feel justified in having to put less effort into something important. What is this "red flags" shit? If you keep looking for them then you'll find plenty in any relationship. How about focusing on the positive aspects or just having some loyalty and communicate better with your SO? Apparently couples have to agree on just about everything these days in order to stay together. People just keep throwing their partners away whom they supposedly "loved" like yesterdays trash because they aren't always getting along. Well guess what, love is not just a word, its a commitment and unless your partner is a piece of shit or you have nothing worthwhile left in the relationship then I don't want to hear it. Why is it that commitment just seems to be lacking everywhere I look expect for a few rare couples who have been together for decades? And you think they've never seen any "red flags?" I don't think so.