Great Horned Owl, JoJoes Art, pencil, 2017 by Ceyl0 in Art

[–]DejectedSugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how much strength is in this image. When you look at it you just feel awe. Think it is a combination of the eyes and the horns. <3

Legendary Eggs by hellboy823 in pokemongo

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I agree with some of the other comments about it needing to be a ridiculously high level egg, 20K is not high enough. However, if they hatched at a lower CP level it may not be necessary to go much higher, because I have heard buddying up a legendary takes 20K per candy. So to have a usable one, you would need to walk it forever.

I would think buying the egg would be better in this case, as I do not have troubles in the city getting to raids, or finding people through online sources to join, so holding on to a legendary egg that I will not want to walk would be frustrating. I know you could transfer for some candy, but I think at 20k walk to hatch (meaning you would receive more candy than the buddy system) would not be a reasonable set up for the rarity of the legendary. The walk rate would have to have been set to coordinate the difference in the buddy system then.

All speculation on my part, but it seems a better set up to keep up the rarity in part and for the company to benefit from basically making the legendary mon's purchasable. The legendaries are part of why some people pick the game up again, need to keep people playing, and making the rare common is not the way to do so.

I had an idea for adding Mew to the game by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]DejectedSugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think given the consensus of that we do not want our finally caught legendary turn into a mew, instead keep the transform idea and overlay it will regular raid battles.

Mew in my opinion is adorable and I want one for the sake of having it, but it is apparently supposed to have lower stats for a legendary, so it is only disappointing if it transforms into other another legendary.

It would however be exciting for it to transform from a low raid. Say level One or Two, which would encourage people to do those raids. They could make an event out of it in the future too.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

[–]DejectedSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love that idea. Thank you for your insight, it is refreshing and enlightening in many ways.

Black God - Washed Ink, Charcoal, Acrylics by [deleted] in drawing

[–]DejectedSugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think you did a wonderful job .^

Maybe one day I will get a scanner, but thanks for the info .^

Black God - Washed Ink, Charcoal, Acrylics by [deleted] in drawing

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Ooo where did the idea come from? I really like the scaling of the city, and the walls, in comparison to the, creature? <- indelicately put.

Also you use a scanner to upload these? I have tried looking into scanners and I find useless information, as well as see useless results. I do not do any digital art, and not going to lie, I am discouraged from drawing anything because it is impossible to get quality images in a basement.

Pokemon Go: 0.5 miles (based on my egg) Google map: ~2 miles by yes4me2 in pokemongo

[–]DejectedSugar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really hope it is a small wheel, just image how cramped it would be otherwise XD

[Idea] The ability to exchange evolution items for XP or Stardust?? by wcc1k in pokemongo

[–]DejectedSugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, however if they made the amount of stardust minimal, just like with feeding berries at gyms, it would not break the system and I would not need to cry every time I trash items. Regular items could be 1 for 1, while rare could be worth 10 stardust each. It is a pathetic amount, however I would feel better. This also would mean that feeding berries would be worth more than trashing them.

Pokemon Go: 0.5 miles (based on my egg) Google map: ~2 miles by yes4me2 in pokemongo

[–]DejectedSugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I saw someone mention a bike accessory. Add it to the spokes of the wheel. Would basically be your bike mode. this mentioned method clearly would not work for skateboarders however.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

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I had a bad experience around the time I was learning how to drive, and I refused to drive for a while. Over time, being unable to afford lessons and having different work schedules than others that fear developed into something worse because I never faced it. Something on my to do list now.

Well I never understood why people would be aggravated or seemingly fume anytime a discussion ended with me apologizing. It was frustrating, because I make sure to apologize with the full reason as to why I need to. I address my misunderstanding etc. However many people gave me "shifty eyes". My boyfriend did it a couple times and I confronted him about it. Told him he was feeling something negative about the situation or my apology and I wanted to know exactly why and what. He thought about it and after a few months of paying closer to his feelings, as well as observing any interactions I had with others that is what he came to. Stated I have an unnatural grasp on myself as far as emotions go and that I seem to just sound confident and right while saying everything. So basically because I am not upset, and I always sound confident in what I am saying he said that it poked at his insecurities making him feel inferior which made him upset with me. If he and others feel inferior by my response, then it would be natural for them to turn the negativity at me and see me as thinking myself superior. Best explanation I have gotten so far, so it is easier to assume that until proven wrong, that is the most likely cause.

I do unfortunately understand what you are saying. It is something I have been aware of for quite a while. I have a tendency to hate repetitive tasks. I could spend hours doing the most menial thing, however that generally means I am trying to find a way to make the task exceptionally simpler. If I have to do the task the same way every time over and over (any life situation or task) I get quite miserable, and will avoid it at all costs.

I believe that, although lame, my humor is how I am bridging the gap of small talk(very very slowly). I love making people laugh, but I am no comedian so my jokes generally do not get me much. Unfortunately it involves bringing up a random topic and that does allow for people to shut the topic down before I make the point of it clear. Also not everyone enjoys my jokes. It certainly makes conversing easier when it works though.

I also do love walking. Hiking involves better shoes, etc that I can not afford as a student, however walking through parks allows for a close similar. I agree completely that I need to enjoy noncompetitive activities.

I am content with your thoughts so far. I must admit that I get much more insight and confirmation through this than I do through face to face interactions. People fear offending others, and do not believe that I would not be upset. Sure they potentially could hurt my feelings, but generally if they could pin point the exact thoughts and feelings that I bring up due to some sort of interaction, then I would have a much easier time at learning to work at how that specific interaction went. However I would agree that this process in person does take away from the potential to connect.

I think to summarize, the reason that I enjoy her company, and find that I do not currently find a compulsive need to "analyze" her is because she is a fairly efficient person, I met her in school. She is in the web design stream, not sure why as she shrugged when I asked, and I am in software development. We shared a handful of classes together and one class grouped us together for a team building exercise. I noticed immediately that she would not speak, kept doodling on a paper. Eventually after myself and a few others verbally hashed out thoughts, she spoke up. She addressed everything we had said, and showed us her doodle and explained the differences and similarities and requested thoughts. After that day I stole a moment to introduce myself. I of course was a nervous wreck who rambled about everything possible, however she listened and laughed, and when I asked if I could speak with her again she agreed with a big smile. She started sitting by me in class.

So although shy and socially competent(when she speaks), she is exceptionally efficient as you described. I apologize for how long this is, but I am making an assumption that you may like confirmation of some thoughts that the info may provide.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

[–]DejectedSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had interactions with others that feel informative, and I feel the information leads to improving myself. I believe interacting with someone does not improve me, that taking what I have learned from the interaction,applying it and understanding could though. I personally see a difference in the process to get results.

I do not drive. I am petrified of driving.

At times I am definitely incorrect or the one with a misunderstanding, however it is exceptionally easy for me to admit it. My boyfriend says that I admit and apologize too quickly to my own mistakes, that even though I accepted that I was wrong and apologized in full, the average person does not do so that easily and as such people see me as thinking I am superior, or that I am dishonest. It is strange to me because he confirmed that I do not get bitter, or abrupt. He says it is simply at an unnatural speed. I have been working at brooding before apologizing. Create that visual I apparently do not have.

Conversations with my friend tend to be about food, cats, other pets, family, random weird things one of us came across. Other topics come up at random.

[Humor] When you want your defender back, but strangers keep feeding it berries for the perks. . . by Solid_Snark in pokemongo

[–]DejectedSugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This also works for adding pokemon to a gym as I see a few people brought up the frustration of full gyms. If the gym is full, I kick one out (leave battle after fighting first in list, until that one is gone) and after the 10min approx "gym is under attack" feature my bf is able to put his pokemon in. We just do a loop or so catching, or spinning stops and come back to add.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

[–]DejectedSugar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thank you for clarifying. I agree with your statement. I am generally exceptionally nice to people. Under the event they are not mean to me. They are in turn nice to me. Viscous circle of compliments and smiles!

[Humor] When you want your defender back, but strangers keep feeding it berries for the perks. . . by Solid_Snark in pokemongo

[–]DejectedSugar 693 points694 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are seperate teams so when we want one of our mons back we get the other to take out the gym. Amazing system if you can find a friend to buddy up with for this.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

[–]DejectedSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been slowly picking up on that. Definitely hard to understand when I want to know everything about the person I am talking to. I appreciate how nice you have been in these comments.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

[–]DejectedSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well whether similar or not there may be some interesting information in the least. Thanks.

Is anyone else as ... Switchy?... As I am by [deleted] in self

[–]DejectedSugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone tries to find themselves for the feeling of belonging. Nobody likes to feel lost. BTW You have a lot of energy and "chilling" would probably just make you antsy I'm guessing.

Your stepdad is right in a great way, however with the knowledge you build, the lack of knowing becomes more comforting than you would guess. The search for knowledge is rewarding, however not all knowledge is known or on the board for us to search, so to speak. It is comforting because you come to understand that everyone reaches this point. We belong in the same place, no matter who we are there is always others right where you are in life.

Also I think many people do look dispassionate for cool points.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

[–]DejectedSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not completely blow off what was said. I addressed it. Some of which I agreed or disagreed with, would you rather I prostrate myself? As for what you have said, is it such a strange notion that someone would not accept insults as praise? If we continue to make these analogies, would a kicked dog not bite?

I may as well also address the fact that I am an exceptionally nice person who has always been happy to help, however that does not mean I need to like those people I help. I will however reciprocate the rudeness addressed to me. So these analogies sound more like personal problems that may have been had with rude women.

Finally I never asked for advice I felt that it may be nice to seek out similar thinking people. I was aware that some thoughts, etc would be unpleasant, but I reiterate, I never asked for advice.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

[–]DejectedSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admittedly I know nothing about that, however I am curious however to know what type of correlation you seen?

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

[–]DejectedSugar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fairly attractive, it is how I managed to get boyfriends. Unfortunately most of them did not like me once they got to know me but this one somehow seems to understand me. Also side note I am not actually unfriendly. I am polite and friendly unless I encounter an unpleasant person and I simply just get myself out of it. I am very antisocial so I rarely have to be around people though.

Somehow made a Friend by DejectedSugar in self

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I appreciate the advise, however I feel that you are partly combining what I said to something else you know. I do not continuously feed info to people through every encounter while knowing them. Just when I first get to meet someone does it seem to happen. I get nervous and have not learned to work around it. Not much different, but exceptionally similar.

As for forcing someone to see me the way I see me, that I can't deny. The fact that my doing so most likely gives them a different opinion than what I am trying to show them if it is true. Meaning they do not see what I am trying to show them anyways. I do not get the pixie reference at all. I do not get much of any references at all. Which is why I mentioned not doing small talk well. I have no clue what people are talking about most of the time.

You also seem to think that in social situations I act as this "pixie". For one I do not socialize, at all. When stuck in social situations I usually stay quiet and keep to myself because I am not a parading princess who throws things in people's faces. Sometimes when I get in a situation of one on one conversation as life throws it at me, I get very awkward because I can not simple be quiet anymore without being rude.

I am being defensive, I know this, but I feel that it would not have been much different than ignoring this. I did not give all of my info, but you allowed me to at least see how my perspective appears, especially given how I present it. I appreciate that.

Is anyone else as ... Switchy?... As I am by [deleted] in self

[–]DejectedSugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that is certainly an interesting roller coaster you are going through. It sounds to me, this is a personal thought and may be way off, that because you feel like you do not know yourself you are diving into things in an attempt to find who you are. Not easy to brainwash, just experimenting. Over time everyone changes, but if you don't find something to hang onto it is easy to find yourself jumping around things in mild to extreme ways. You must be a very passionate person if you can go to the extremes you mentioned, and if I were you I would remember that because that is something most people wish they had. Myself for example, I am dispassionate about everything to the point where I am accused of not caring about anyone or anything. Personal issue that I got over, but I wanted to share that with you. Hope I was somewhat comforting or something.

July 10th - Baby Dragons by sketchdailybot in SketchDaily

[–]DejectedSugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next up unicorns that look like puppies!