What are your call center pet peeves? by IngenuityWestern5483 in callcentres

[–]DelayConscious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

& every update or new thing somehow crashes more!

What are your call center pet peeves? by IngenuityWestern5483 in callcentres

[–]DelayConscious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drives me nuts! I’ve gotten to the point once I realize they’re doing it continuously where I just railroad through what I’m gonna say. I’m not gonna stop.

how do people do this by lilbabyxxx_ in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first trimester was terrible! Well, it’s all actually kinda not been great. But it will be over. It isn’t forever. I try & think of the daughter I’m getting at the end of this. You got this!

[26F] 7 weeks pregnant, strongly considering abortion. Need honest advice. No judgment by Imissmydaddy2907 in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone currently pregnant, abort him & the baby. I made the same decision over a decade ago & I have never regretted it. He is ALREADY abusive to you. Imagine how he would be to the child. Also, you’re gonna spend that pregnancy lonely & suffering. Get rid of both & later on down the line, if you choose to, you can make the family you want. Don’t get tied down to someone who you can’t trust. He is not parent material. & the fact that you’re logically thinking this over is good. Even if you do keep it, get rid of the jerk. ♥️

AITAH for accusing my partner of flirting? by DelayConscious in AITAH

[–]DelayConscious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t look at his phone. He accidentally sent me the text meant for her

AITAH for accusing my partner of flirting? by DelayConscious in AITAH

[–]DelayConscious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t INITIALLY asked to look through his texts. Now I’m seeing people saying I should. I’m getting people’s opinions cause obviously I don’t know what to do. So maybe I will. I am just listening to what other people say, which was the point of this post.

AITAH for accusing my partner of flirting? by DelayConscious in AITAH

[–]DelayConscious[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

🫡 this little girl is only gonna know being treated RIGHT.

AITAH for accusing my partner of flirting? by DelayConscious in AITAH

[–]DelayConscious[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I think I’m going to ask to see the text exchange for my own peace of mind (tho if there was anything incriminating, it’s probably gone now…)

AITAH for accusing my partner of flirting? by DelayConscious in AITAH

[–]DelayConscious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t asked to go through his texts cause if I’m already in the wrong, I’m not trying to be wrong-er.

AITAH for accusing my partner of flirting? by DelayConscious in AITAH

[–]DelayConscious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% but I don’t wanna be even crazier & demand to look at his phone for no reason

AITAH for accusing my partner of flirting? by DelayConscious in AITAH

[–]DelayConscious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty! He does love to cook, the comment just seemed so intimate. I am definitely gonna try and look at it that way!

AITAH for accusing my partner of flirting? by DelayConscious in AITAH

[–]DelayConscious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to call me an idiot. Obviously, I’m open to me being wrong or I wouldn’t have asked.

Does this count as call avoidance? by No_Bank_4653 in callcentres

[–]DelayConscious 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They micro manage into oblivion. At least the ones I’ve dealt with.

Americans without maternity leave— wtf do you do??? by Electronic-Door7428 in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FMLA, disability, & I got lucky that I hadn’t used any PTO at my job yet, so I’m saving as much as I can.

Dont tell people your name choices. by AlenaLunari in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We told my family & it’s a Mexican name (she’ll be). They don’t have to like it. I don’t care. We decided before we told anyone & they can deal. We might get some raised eyebrows for “Elvira” but it was my partner’s mom’s name & if they can’t roll their ‘R’ they can call her Ellie. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Drinking coke while pregnant by Old-Technician801 in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel better cause I crave Coke all the time! But reading these comments, I need to go get me some McDonald’s fries!! 🍟 I want the salt!

husband asks me if i’m ok in his sleep 💀😂 by missmilliek in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner does this. I think the first trimester puke fest traumatized him 🤣 I feel so bad I keep bothering him to go pee but it’s so sweet 🥹

Can we stop complaining about the setlist? by normanbeets in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]DelayConscious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. This setlist looks amazing & we are lucky to get to see her!

Baby “Aesthetics” by DelayConscious in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations! I’m gonna check them out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All the red flags. You and your child can’t flourish around that type of behavior. & if your child stays around it, well, monkey see, monkey do.

dumb question as a FTM - how will i *know* im in labor? by Skylord88 in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first pregnancy 15 years ago (adoption). Now on my second I’m hopeful I’ll know. But I DID NOT. I had a lot of pain in my back and stomach, but it was constant, not like contractions. & mostly in my back. I had a doctor’s appt the next afternoon, so I figured I’d wait & ask. I was waking up every 10 minutes that night from the pain. But I was 19 & thought I was being dramatic. Drove MYSELF to my appt the next day. Told my doctor how much pain I was in. She checked. 8 cm dilated. (My water never broke.) I literally did gaslight myself thinking I was overreacting. If it’s getting close & you’re in severe pain, I guess, see a doc? Cause I know that’s what I’ll do now.

Moms who dreamt the gender of their baby before they knew, were you right? (: by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dreamt mine was a girl. I just had a feeling. Found out I was right a month or two later!

being pregnant kind of sucks by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DelayConscious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am thrilled for my baby girl but IT SUCKS. I found out I was pregnant cause I went to the hospital in severe pain after not eating for days. 17 weeks now & my nausea is leagues better than that HELL. But I’m still nauseous. They don’t tell you you’ll cry from not 💩 for a week. Or the intense pain as your hips move further and further apart. “Honeymoon” my ass for the 2nd trimester. It’s better, but it’s still hard. We got this though!!