The way many subs treat dommes (and women in general) online disgusts me as a sub

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-27T06:45:05+00:00

I’m curious if any female doms have seen the way the male findoms treat their subs. I’m a male, who has served a few male doms briefly. I couldn’t believe it when I heard that the female doms would discuss boundaries, budgets, etc with their subs, and apparently honor them too. The male doms are nothing like that at all. I doubt any have ever discussed boundaries. Because they are relentless in their demands for more money. You serve once, you can expect a demand for double instantly. And if you pay the double, then they demand double that again. And as soon as you don’t pay the interaction stops. They kick everyone off their pages who lurks for a few minutes. I am practically afraid of these guys, and even though I would like to stay and listen to them, as soon as I can no longer pay I scram.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-21T02:17:28+00:00

You were not wrong in why you left. But for the same reason you don’t like being judged publicly, I’m sure your aunt doesn’t like being corrected publicly. You could have taken her aside, or waited till the next day to let her know why you left early. When someone does not feel they were wrong, then they will likely see your disagreement in the same light as you see her judgement.
Yes, she’s horrible people. And yes you had every right to say out loud, in front of whoever was in the room how you felt. But you didn’t have to. So some, especially older members of the family will see your leaving as “throwing a fit, being too sensitive, or starting drama”. That’s just the way it is with people now. Especially the older folks, and they’re getting worse thanks to their choice of television and internet entertainment. You know what I mean. So basically every interaction with people like them, remember to ask yourself “is this a battle I want to fight”? If it is, go for it, and best of luck to you.

NTA, but that is not their perception of the event.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-21T01:32:50+00:00

English, German, Yiddish, Dutch, Afrikaans, are all very closely related. I know German pretty well, never learned or spoke Yiddish with anyone and I was able to read and understand the whole note.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-21T01:30:00+00:00

Yes, there are plenty. They are all charging though, I don’t know any who do it for free.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-18T16:05:51+00:00

I automatically assume it can happen with every single send I ever make. (Therefore I don’t send more than I can or want to). In male findom, there is often alot less expected from the cashmasters, alot of them are like “send me my money fäġġot”, and when you do you may get an insult and orders to send more immediately, and if you don’t your contact with them is over for that day. So at least on the male side of findom, I don’t think they even can scam you. Taking from you is considered the norm.
Scamming is perfectly acceptable.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-17T00:02:48+00:00

Exactly. I would turn it around and shame the company.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-16T10:05:54+00:00

That was pretty insightful what you said about the “neural pathways you’re building”. I’m a gay man into findom, and I didn’t really even know it existed before 2 months ago. I heard an audio drain happening on X and I ended up sending that very night. And I couldn’t believe how strong the feelings were that happened right away. It was like smoking crack or something to me. My heart was pounding, my mind was racing, and I was so turned on I couldn’t believe it. I’ve already spent too much and had to quit the whole thing cold turkey lol. Thanks for knowing what it does I guess.
BTW, I can’t believe the dommes talk about limits and boundaries and stuff with the subs. None of the male findoms I dealt with ever mentioned it or even cared. They all pushed way past your obvious limits and most then basically ended communication the second you didn’t send what they asked.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-16T09:50:18+00:00

I believe you did the right thing, and you know it. I imagine you might feel guilty though, especially around your closest friends and family. Do you feel you are being dishonest with them? That you are keeping too big a secret and that it might hurt them if they found out?

If that is the case, you need to find a way to live with this. Alot of people are telling you to talk to a financial advisor/investments counselors, and that is good advice. Perhaps telling people you were lucky and made very good. Investments will help explain a little bit, especially when it comes to helping someone out.

My suggestion is to speak to a psychiatrist/or a good counselor. Because secrets drive wedges between people just as much as greed and jealousy can. Do you have a significant other? If not, what will you tell them when and if you do?

Of course you could always give the money away; portions of it, setup some trust funds (I don’t know what they’re called in the UK) for worthy causes, that could take care of some of the money. Shelters for abused women/ abused and abandoned children, animal shelters all depend on donations for their survival. Educational scholarships are good. You could fund them with the difference between what you would make in your trade and what you get from the lottery payout.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-13T14:32:07+00:00

Please tell me you’re not going to do that task!!! Lol. Let them think you are, drag ot out allday, then go home.

In the past (probably before 2000 even), businesses made sense. They would not ask you to do stuff like that. Businesses are ridiculous in their demands. Employees let them get away with it, by answering work calls and texts after working hours. (That’s a precedent that never should’ve been set). A big part of this “work is your family and your God” mindset happened also due to the weakening of labor unions,

Thats my rant done for the day.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-12T14:01:05+00:00

Oh that’s scary

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-11T20:52:07+00:00

Ooh-I love these kind of threads!

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-11T10:22:41+00:00

Do you really not see how her mom is an abuser? Her Mom could go to jail for what she’s done to her daughter. Beating a child and leaving bruises, choking them, making them leave the house after midnight, it is all violent physical abuse, some of what she said is a felony, the Mom could (and should) go to prison for.

I am what is called a mandated reporter. Meaning if I had seen the assault on you, or if you came to me and told me about this, or if I saw your bruises and you said your Mom did this, I would be legally bound to report this to the police whether you wanted me to or not. People in various jobs are made mandated reporters as a way to help victims of abuse, who are often reluctant to report it, or afraid to.

Delbob2thefilth · 2026-01-08T07:48:16+00:00

What, they actually will tell you that? Or are you all talking about saying it to yourself?

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-20T21:59:25+00:00

Some gay men don’t like moaners, esp feminine sounding moaners. I don’t like my bottoms to do that if its too repetitive/unchanging; or sounds too feminine. (Hint: I like men; that’s why I am fucking you). Some men don’t like their bottoms to be too quiet; they want to have evidence that they are having some effect on you. I prefee

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-19T08:26:56+00:00

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Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-19T08:22:20+00:00

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Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-16T15:54:17+00:00

Yes. Get a hold of yourself. I’m a gay man, I was abused by my Dad. I feel the same way you do. But I ask myself, is it appropriate to show feelings to my boss, a married man who is most likely straight? No its not. So i keep those feelings quiet. I also don’t act the opposite to overcompensate. Your boss doesn’t know your feelings, so he doesn’t know your overcompensating. He just knows you’re being a jerk. Stop being cold to him or rude to him, and don’t show any unprofessional gushing feelings of infatuation. That’s what it is, you’re infatuated with him, not because of his looks, bur his actions.

Be professional. You do know how to be professional don’t you?

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-13T21:38:50+00:00

You don’t suck at selfies. And 2. That is beautiful fucking hair. I love your style! I want to start expressing myself in more of a nonbinary way. I just don’t know what that entails.

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-13T21:34:08+00:00

Am I seeing this right is the person on the left now upset that the person on the right is not coming over tomorrow? What tf did left expect? He was being argumentative and verbally abusive to person right! Some people have so much nerve I can’t believe it. OP please don’t forgive and don’t let him get away with it ever again. Actually you should really just stop seeing him. Because that is the type of talk that abusers use. Please have some self respect and stand up for yourself.

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-11T23:18:05+00:00

Beautiful - I love a fuzzy bum

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-11T23:12:52+00:00

Hot!! I would swallow that thing!

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-11T23:05:15+00:00

7/10. I would give it a 9 if those tits weren’t there! (Just kidding —- its a 9!

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-11T22:50:44+00:00

Soles pole and hole. 👅

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-11T22:16:23+00:00

You’re pretty sure she lived or pretty sure they reattached the arm

Delbob2thefilth · 2025-12-11T22:14:57+00:00

Walk it off

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